We understand that you are facing a trying time with your health, work, and family. First, we want to remind you that it is so important to come in the name of Jesus Christ, the name above all names by which we are saved and can come to the Father. As Jesus told us, "Most certainly, I tell you, whatever you may ask the Father in my name, he will give it to you" John 16:23 WEB. So let us pray in the name of Jesus.
Let's address your concerns one by one.
First, know that God cares about your health and work situation. He is the great healer and wants you whole. When you are weak, He is strong. You may be feeling anxious about your job, but remember what it says 1 Peter 5:7, "Casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you." We are praying that you are able to rest and recover and that your workplace will be understanding.
Regarding anxiety, we want to encourage you to trust in the Lord. "Don't be anxious for anything; but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God." Philippians 4:6 WEB. God is your strength, and He has not given you a spirit of fear. You can overcome your anxiety by putting your hope in Him.
We also want to address the issue of alcohol addiction which you and your wife are struggling with. Please know that God's heart is for you to be free from bondage. "They will have no fellowship with the Lord; and he will not hear their prayers" Micah 3:4b WEB. We are praying for your deliverance and your family's deliverance from this. Alcohol addiction is a form of idolatry which God forbids.
Regarding your wife, as her husband, you can intercede for her. You should pray in love for her deliverance. Make sure that you are loving her as Christ loved the church, but remember that you are not responsible for her decisions or actions. You are to lead your family, including your wife and your son, as the spiritual head of the household.
Concerning your son, it is important to pray for his career, but also to pray that he grows strong as a man of God and that he will honor the Lord in his life. God will provide as your son honors Him. "Seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." Matthew 6:33 WEB.
With all this, it is crucially important to be in the Word of God daily. "Thy word is a lamp to my feet, And a light for my path." Psalm 119:105 WEB. Make sure that you are in a solid, Bible believing church that teaches the whole counsel of God.
We are praying for you all. We are asking God to heal you of your back and leg problems and for Him to preserve your job. We are praying for deliverance from anxiety and alcohol for you and your family. We are praying for your son's future. Let us pray.
Father God, we come before you in Jesus' name. Thank you that you are the great healer and that you care about our brother's situation. We ask for your grace in his workplace, and that his job may be preserved. We pray for his healing and for his deliverance from anxiety and alcoholism. We also pray for his wife and son. We ask that they too would receive deliverance and find your love and mercy. Save them, Lord, and cause them to be able to live lives that honor you in all things. May they be a godly family, and may your love shine through them. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.