Emotions and lonelyness job

[Guest]

Im a single mom, divorced for 1 1/2 yr, dating a man for 6 months whom i love, but he drinks,drugs, and i have looked past those things which i would have never. He says hes broke, makes 14 hours lives with ex girlfriend and husband getting kicked out because he is not trying. moving into another friends home for free. Comes to see me, tells me he loves me but does not want to move in with me. I am in terriable pain of loving him.I have put things aside including my laughter i use to have. I need God to bring a good man whom wants to share life and love with me. My desires are so strong that i thnk im forcing it to much. I put so much energy into this man i love. Im looking for another job also in the area which i live. I have offered this man to move in with me and we can work togeather, he cant afford it says i respect you to much to sponge off of you. he was married for 9 years and has not got divorced yet, he has had the money paid her off to sign papers, but goes no further than that. I see things is this relation ship but my heart aches like i want to die and be with God in heaven than to bear the pain im in right now

 

[Christine]

I prayed for you today, asking the Lord to guide you, reveal His will for you and help you to walk in obedience to Him, able to let go of your fears, and make wise decisions based on God's will and His truth rather than out of fear or feelings.

Know that God offers the joy and contentment you seek, when you surrender your life, follow Jesus Christ and seek His will over your own. You will never regret it.

It sounds like you see red flags in this relationship, things that could in the end hurt you and your child (or children) very deeply. Please seek counsel from an objective, Bible teaching pastor.

God is so very near and wanting to be involved in your life now if you will invite Him in and trust him. You don't have to wait for heaven to find the joy and contentment you seek. And you don't need to find another man, before letting this one go. Please trust God. He won't let you down.

 

[silentangel]

Guest, the Lord loves you and has great plans for your life. Don't throw them away and waste them. Seek his wisdom and coucil. Trust in him and be patient. He will reveal his plan to you in due time. I would encourage you today to take your time, to not settle for things that you know are not pleasing to the Lord. I will be praying for you.

Lord Jesus, I lift up this guest today. I pray your hand of mercy and grace over her. Remove the blinders from her eyes and let her see clearly that this man she is drawn too does not deserve her. Help her to let him go. Help her to seek a godly man for a house devided can not stand. You have someone already in mind for her and I pray that you would lead him to her, someone she can spend the rest of her life with and who will be her soul mate. In the mean time, send her new friends to have a relationship with, to hang out with, to go places and do things, people to talk to and to lean on. I just thank you and praise you today. Amen