We hear the deep pain and confusion in your heart, and we stand with you in this spiritual battle, for this is not merely a struggle of the flesh but one that bears the marks of deception and possibly even darker influences. The enemy seeks to twist God’s design for love, commitment, and purity, and we must confront this with the truth of Scripture and the authority of Jesus Christ.
First, let us address the spiritual concerns you’ve raised. Witchcraft is real, and its influence can manifest in manipulation, confusion, and bondage—especially in relationships where there is no submission to Christ. The apostle Paul warns us in Ephesians 6:12, *"For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."* If there is any ungodly spiritual tie or influence at work here, we must break it in the name of Jesus. However, we must also recognize that often, the enemy does not need to employ supernatural means when our own fleshly desires and lack of boundaries open the door to sin.
This man’s behavior is not one of godly love but of selfishness and deception. He claims you are "worth more than anything," yet he refuses to commit to you, continues in a relationship with another woman, and entangles you in a cycle of emotional and physical compromise. This is not love—it is lust disguised as affection, and it is sin. The Word of God is clear: *"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed is undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4). What you are describing is fornication, and it grieves the heart of God. You are being used, not cherished, and this man’s words are empty if they are not backed by covenant commitment before God.
You mentioned that you have repented, and we praise God for that. Repentance means turning away from sin and walking in obedience to Christ. This includes cutting off all ungodly ties—emotionally, physically, and spiritually. You cannot "start fresh" with this man unless he repents, turns from his sin, and pursues a godly marriage with you. Even then, trust must be rebuilt under the Lordship of Christ. Right now, he is leading you into sin, and you must recognize that continuing to engage with him in any romantic or intimate way is disobedience to God.
As for his birthday, we urge you to reconsider your plans. Making a card and a cake for him sends a message that you accept his behavior and are still emotionally invested in this sinful relationship. Instead, we encourage you to use this time to draw closer to the Lord and seek His healing. Proverbs 4:23 tells us, *"Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the source of life."* Guard your heart, sister. Do not feed emotions that will only lead you back into bondage.
Now, let us address the possibility of witchcraft. If you suspect ungodly spiritual influences, we must stand firmly on the authority of Jesus Christ. There is no power greater than His name. We encourage you to pray aloud, renouncing any ungodly soul ties, curses, or influences in your life and in this man’s life. Declare the blood of Jesus over your mind, emotions, and body. Here is a prayer we can pray together:
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Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, acknowledging that You alone are sovereign over every power and authority. Lord, we lift up our sister who is trapped in confusion and pain. We ask You to expose every lie of the enemy and bring clarity to her mind. Father, if there are any ungodly soul ties, curses, or witchcraft influences at work in her life or in this man’s life, we break them now in the name of Jesus. We renounce every agreement made with the enemy, whether knowingly or unknowingly, and we declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper.
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of deception, lust, and manipulation that has taken hold in this situation. We command every demonic stronghold to be torn down by the power of the Holy Spirit. Father, give our sister the strength to walk away from this ungodly relationship completely. Help her to see this man through Your eyes—not as someone who "loves" her, but as someone who is leading her into sin and bondage. Break her heart free from emotional ties to him, and fill her with Your peace and purpose.
We pray for this man’s salvation, that You would convict him of his sin and bring him to true repentance. But until he turns to You, Lord, we ask that You sever every ungodly connection between them. Protect our sister from further harm, and surround her with godly counsel and support.
Father, we ask that You heal her heart and restore her dignity. Remind her that she is Your beloved daughter, worth more than rubies (Proverbs 31:10), and that You have a plan for her that is good and full of hope. Strengthen her to walk in purity and obedience, and lead her to a godly man who will cherish her as Christ cherishes the Church.
We declare freedom, healing, and restoration in Jesus’ name. Amen.
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Sister, we urge you to seek the Lord earnestly in this season. Spend time in His Word, especially in Psalms and the Gospels, to renew your mind. Surround yourself with believers who will hold you accountable and speak truth into your life. If you do not have a solid church community, we strongly encourage you to find one where you can grow in faith and be discipled.
Lastly, we must address something critical: in your request, you did not invoke the name of Jesus. There is no other name by which we can approach the Father or receive salvation. Acts 4:12 declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* If you have not yet surrendered your life fully to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we implore you to do so now. Confess your sins, turn from them, and place your faith in Him alone. It is only through Christ that you can have true freedom, forgiveness, and eternal life.
Stay strong in the Lord, and do not look back. He is making a way for you, even now. *"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). We are standing with you in prayer.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
