We hear your exuberant declaration of victory and joy in the Lord, and we rejoice with you in the blessings God has poured out over your family, your home, and your life. Your gratitude for healing, provision, and unity is a beautiful testimony to God’s faithfulness. We stand with you in celebrating the peace, love, and happiness the Lord has given you and your household.
However, we must address several concerns in your words with love, truth, and biblical correction. First, we notice a spirit of boasting and pride in your declarations, words like "I have my alliances, you lost ###," and "I guarantee my family is happy" reveal a heart that may be taking credit for what only God can do. Scripture warns us in Proverbs 16:18, "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall." And in Jeremiah 9:23-24, the Lord says, "Don’t let the wise man glory in his wisdom, neither let the mighty man glory in his might, don’t let the rich man glory in his riches; but let him who glories glory in this, that he has understanding, and knows me, that I am Yahweh who exercises loving kindness, justice, and righteousness in the earth, for I delight in these things, says Yahweh." True victory comes not from our own strength or declarations, but from humbly submitting to God’s will and giving Him all the glory.
You also speak of being "healed permanently" and "no hell for me," which reflects a dangerous misunderstanding of salvation and eternal security. While we rejoice in the healing and blessings God has given you, salvation is not earned by our works, our declarations, or our confidence in our own righteousness. Ephesians 2:8-9 tells us, "For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, that no one would boast." And in Romans 10:9, we read, "If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." Salvation is a gift received through faith in Jesus Christ alone, not through our own efforts, declarations, or even our family’s happiness. We must never presume upon God’s grace or assume that our words alone secure our eternity. Hell is a real place, and only those who have truly repented and placed their faith in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior will escape it. We encourage you to examine your heart and ensure that your confidence is in Christ alone, not in your own declarations or perceived victories.
Additionally, your reference to "my fine ass guy" is deeply concerning. Scripture is clear that any sexual relationship outside of marriage between one man and one woman is sin. Hebrews 13:4 says, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." If you are in a relationship that is not a godly marriage, we must rebuke this in love and call you to repentance. God’s design for intimacy is within the covenant of marriage, and anything outside of that is fornication, a sin that separates us from God. We urge you to seek the Lord’s will in this area and pursue holiness, as 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 instructs: "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to control his own body in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don’t know God."
Your mention of "Temu stuff" and material blessings also raises a caution. While God does provide for our needs, we must be careful not to prioritize earthly possessions or comforts above our relationship with Him. Jesus warns in Matthew 6:19-21, "Don’t lay up treasures for yourselves on the earth, where moth and rust consume, and where thieves break through and steal; but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust consume, and where thieves don’t break through and steal; for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also." Our focus should always be on eternal things, on loving God and loving others, not on accumulating temporary comforts or material goods.
We also notice that while you mention the "blood of Jesus" at the end, your words do not reflect a humble reliance on Him throughout. Salvation is not a magic formula or a slogan to be tacked onto the end of a declaration. It is a heart posture of repentance, faith, and surrender to Jesus Christ as Lord. In John 14:6, Jesus says, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If your confidence is in your own words, your own strength, or even your family’s happiness, rather than in Christ alone, we must gently but firmly call you back to the truth.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts full of love and concern for our brother/sister. We thank You for the blessings You have poured out over their life, their family, their provision, and the healing You have brought. Lord, we ask that You would draw them closer to You, that they would not boast in their own strength or declarations, but in You alone. Father, we pray that You would reveal any areas of pride, self-reliance, or unrepentant sin in their heart. Convict them gently but firmly where they have strayed from Your will, especially in the area of relationships and intimacy. Lord, we ask that You would give them a heart of humility, a spirit of repentance, and a deep, abiding faith in Jesus Christ as their only Savior and Lord.
Father, we rebuke any spirit of pride, arrogance, or presumption that may be operating in their life. We break the power of any words spoken in the flesh rather than in alignment with Your will. We declare that their confidence would be in Christ alone, not in their own strength, their family, or their material blessings. Lord, we ask that You would guard their heart against the deceitfulness of sin and the lies of the enemy. Help them to walk in holiness, purity, and truth, pursuing relationships that honor You and reflect Your design for marriage and family.
We pray for their family, that You would continue to knit their hearts together in love, unity, and godly communication. May their Friday nights be filled with Your presence, joy, and the fruit of the Spirit. Lord, we ask that You would protect their minds from any deception or distraction that would draw them away from You. Fill them with Your peace, Your wisdom, and Your truth. Help them to see that true victory is found in surrender to You, not in their own declarations or efforts.
Father, we ask that You would continue to provide for their needs, not just materially, but spiritually. Draw them deeper into Your Word, into prayer, and into fellowship with other believers who can encourage and challenge them in their walk with You. May they grow in their understanding of Your grace, Your mercy, and Your love. And may they always remember that apart from You, they can do nothing (John 15:5).
We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, the only name by which we can be saved. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word, particularly in the Gospels, to deepen your understanding of who Jesus is and what it means to follow Him. Consider reading through the book of John, asking the Holy Spirit to reveal truth to your heart. Surround yourself with godly believers who can speak truth into your life and hold you accountable. And most importantly, examine your heart, are you truly relying on Jesus alone for your salvation, your healing, and your victory? Or are you placing your confidence in your own words, your family, or your circumstances?
The enemy would love to deceive you into thinking you are secure in your own strength, but the Bible warns us in 1 Peter 5:8, "Be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary, the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour." Do not be deceived, true security is found only in Christ. Repent of any pride, any presumption, and any sin, and place your trust fully in Him. He is faithful, and He will complete the work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6). Walk in humility, in holiness, and in the fear of the Lord, for "the fear of Yahweh is the beginning of wisdom" (Proverbs 9:10).