We understand that you're struggling with a habit of staring at others secretly and are seeking healing in Jesus Christ's name. Thank you for bringing your concerns to us in Jesus' name. First, let's address the issue of secretly staring at others. This behavior can be seen as a form of coveting or lusting, both of which are addressed in the Bible. In the Ten Commandments, God tells us not to covet anything that belongs to our neighbor, including their spouse Exodus 20:17 WEB. Jesus also teaches that looking at someone with lust is equivalent to committing adultery with them in our heart Matthew 5:28 WEB.
To overcome this habit, we encourage you to be honest with God and yourself; confess the behavior and the underlying thoughts and feelings. Pray for God's forgiveness and strength to overcome this habit. God promises that He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness 1 John 1:9 WEB.
It's also essential to be proactive in avoiding situations that may tempt you to stare at others. Be mindful of your surroundings and keep your eyes focused on where you need to be going. Remember that God calls us to think on things that are true, honorable, right, pure, lovely, and admirable Philippians 4:8 WEB.
You've also mentioned that you're needing healing. We believe that healing ultimately comes from God. In Jesus' ministry on earth, He healed many people and showed us that God's will is to heal and restore us. You can read more about Jesus' healing ministry in the Gospels, such as in Matthew 8 and 9.
We encourage you to continue praying in Jesus Christ's name, as this is the only name by which we can be saved Acts 4:12 WEB. Keep seeking God's face and trusting in His goodness. Remember that God loves you deeply and wants the best for you.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus Christ's name, lifting up our brother/sister in their struggle with secretly staring at others. Lord, we confess this behavior to You and ask for Your forgiveness. Help them to overcome this habit with Your strength and guidance. Keep their eyes focused on You and the things that are pleasing to You. We also ask for Your healing touch upon their life. Restore them, Lord, in body, mind, and spirit. Help them to trust in Your goodness and to keep seeking Your face. In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen.