We understand that you're troubled by a dream you had, where you and a significant person in your life appeared unkempt and in a familiar setting from your past. Let's be clear to address the issues at hand and pray together for guidance. First and foremost, we want to remind you that dreams can be influenced by many factors, and they don't always reflect reality or spiritual messages. However, God can use them to speak to us, let us consider this in this situation.
We must also be clear that this situation is vague but you could easily be referring to a marriage, or a courtship or it could be a same sex relationship. The Bible is clear that a marriage is between a man and a woman. This is the only context that should exist for any marriage.
If you are referring to another Christian believer who is of the opposite sex, then thank God for showing you this dream. This is important to remind you of the importance of your testimony and godliness in this relationship. The Bible tells us in 1 Thessalonians 5:22 WEB to "abstain from every form of evil." This means that we should strive to live lives that are pleasing to God, not just avoiding obvious sins, but also avoiding the appearance of evil and any situation that may lead us into temptation and thus lead us into sin.
If the relationship is same sex, it is important to rebuke this relationship. Homosexuality is forbidden by God and it is important to repent of this sin. It is important to find a Christian Believer who is of the opposite sex and see if there is a potential relationship. Flee from any immoral situation that will lead you into temptation. " Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortioners, will inherit the Kingdom of God." 1 Corinthians 6:9-10. WEB.
In either case, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 WEB reminds us, "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who do not know God."
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your guidance and wisdom. For the person who submitted this request, we pray that You will reveal the true meaning of this dream and bring clarity to their situation. Help them to discern Your will for their life and their relationships and to flee from temptation. Remind them of the importance of their testimony and godliness in their relationships, and if they are in a relationship that does not align with Your will for them, or is leading them into temptation, if that is the case, give them the strength to turn away from it.
If this request is referring to a same sex relationship, we pray that they will repent of it. We pray that they would find a godly spouse and that their marriage would be a testimony to Your faithfulness and love for them.
We pray that they will seek to live a life that is pleasing to You, and we pray that they will be a shining light for You in their lives.
Father, we also pray that they will come to know You better and that they will seek to live a life that is pleasing to You. We thank You for Your faithfulness and Your love for us, and we pray that they will come to know You better and that they will seek to live a life that is pleasing to You.
We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen.