Khaelurlira
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I'm not hard to love. I'm just done accepting the bare minimum.
Doing less, stressing way less!
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We hear your heart, dear one, and we rejoice that you are seeking God’s best rather than settling for less. The weariness of accepting the bare minimum is a heavy burden, but Christ calls us to walk in the fullness of His promises, not the scraps of this world. Let us come before the Lord together in prayer and reflection.
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious child of Yours who is no longer content with half-hearted love or empty promises. You have declared in Your Word that You came so we might have life, and have it abundantly (John 10:10). Lord, we ask that You fill this heart with the confidence that comes only from You—confidence not in self, but in the truth that You are enough. Help them to rest in Your love, knowing that You do not offer the bare minimum, but the very best. Teach them to set boundaries that honor You and to wait for the relationships, opportunities, and blessings that reflect Your goodness.
Father, we also ask that You reveal any areas where this weariness may stem from past wounds or ungodly patterns. If there has been a settling for less in relationships—whether in friendships, courtship, or even within the church—we ask that You bring healing and clarity. Your Word warns us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14), and we pray that this one would seek godly connections that build up, not tear down. If there has been compromise in purity, whether emotionally or physically, we repent on their behalf and ask for Your forgiveness and restoration. Help them to walk in holiness, for You are holy (1 Peter 1:16).
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of discouragement that whispers lies like, “This is all you deserve.” You have not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7). Remind this one that they are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14) and that Your plans for them are for good, not for harm (Jeremiah 29:11). Strengthen their faith to trust in Your timing, even when it feels slow.
We also want to gently address the phrase, “I’m not hard to love.” While we understand the sentiment, we encourage you to remember that our worth is not defined by how easily others love us, but by how deeply Christ loves us. His love is perfect, unchanging, and not based on our performance (Romans 5:8). When we root our identity in Him, we are freed from the pressure to earn love from others. Let your confidence come from knowing that you are already fully loved by the Creator of the universe.
If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus Christ, we urge you to consider the greatest love of all—the love that led Him to die on the cross for your sins so that you might have eternal life (John 3:16). There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father. If you have not confessed Him as Lord, we pray that today would be the day you invite Him into your heart.
Finally, we encourage you to seek godly community—believers who will speak truth into your life, hold you accountable, and remind you of God’s promises when the world tries to offer less. Surround yourself with those who will point you to Christ, not to the fleeting pleasures of this world.
May the Lord bless you and keep you; may He make His face shine on you and be gracious to you; may He turn His face toward you and give you peace (Numbers 6:24-26). We stand with you in faith, believing that God is preparing something far greater than the bare minimum. Walk in His love, dear one, and do not settle for anything less than His best.
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious child of Yours who is no longer content with half-hearted love or empty promises. You have declared in Your Word that You came so we might have life, and have it abundantly (John 10:10). Lord, we ask that You fill this heart with the confidence that comes only from You—confidence not in self, but in the truth that You are enough. Help them to rest in Your love, knowing that You do not offer the bare minimum, but the very best. Teach them to set boundaries that honor You and to wait for the relationships, opportunities, and blessings that reflect Your goodness.
Father, we also ask that You reveal any areas where this weariness may stem from past wounds or ungodly patterns. If there has been a settling for less in relationships—whether in friendships, courtship, or even within the church—we ask that You bring healing and clarity. Your Word warns us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14), and we pray that this one would seek godly connections that build up, not tear down. If there has been compromise in purity, whether emotionally or physically, we repent on their behalf and ask for Your forgiveness and restoration. Help them to walk in holiness, for You are holy (1 Peter 1:16).
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of discouragement that whispers lies like, “This is all you deserve.” You have not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7). Remind this one that they are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14) and that Your plans for them are for good, not for harm (Jeremiah 29:11). Strengthen their faith to trust in Your timing, even when it feels slow.
We also want to gently address the phrase, “I’m not hard to love.” While we understand the sentiment, we encourage you to remember that our worth is not defined by how easily others love us, but by how deeply Christ loves us. His love is perfect, unchanging, and not based on our performance (Romans 5:8). When we root our identity in Him, we are freed from the pressure to earn love from others. Let your confidence come from knowing that you are already fully loved by the Creator of the universe.
If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus Christ, we urge you to consider the greatest love of all—the love that led Him to die on the cross for your sins so that you might have eternal life (John 3:16). There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father. If you have not confessed Him as Lord, we pray that today would be the day you invite Him into your heart.
Finally, we encourage you to seek godly community—believers who will speak truth into your life, hold you accountable, and remind you of God’s promises when the world tries to offer less. Surround yourself with those who will point you to Christ, not to the fleeting pleasures of this world.
May the Lord bless you and keep you; may He make His face shine on you and be gracious to you; may He turn His face toward you and give you peace (Numbers 6:24-26). We stand with you in faith, believing that God is preparing something far greater than the bare minimum. Walk in His love, dear one, and do not settle for anything less than His best.
We're right there with you, feeling the weight of just accepting the bare minimum in love. It's tough, isn't it? But remember, we serve a God who doesn't do things halfway. He's not into the bare minimum; He's all about abundance (John 10:10). So, let's trust Him for more, shall we?
We've been praying for you, asking God to fill your heart with the confidence that comes from knowing He's enough. We're asking Him to help you set boundaries that honor Him and wait for the relationships, opportunities, and blessings that truly reflect His goodness.
We're also praying for healing and clarity if there are any past wounds or ungodly patterns causing this weariness. We're asking God to reveal these areas to you and help you walk in holiness, because He is holy (1 Peter 1:16).
And hey, don't you dare believe the lies that say you don't deserve more. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and God's plans for you are for good, not harm (Jeremiah 29:11). So, keep trusting in His timing, even when it feels slow.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to find your worth in Christ, not in how easily others love you. His love is perfect, unchanging, and not based on performance (Romans 5:8). When we root our identity in Him, we're freed from the pressure to earn love from others.
If you haven't yet surrendered your life to Jesus Christ, we urge you to consider the greatest love of all - the love that led Him to die on the cross for your sins so you might have eternal life (John 3:16). There's no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12), and it's only through Jesus that we have access to the Father.
Stay strong, dear one. We're believing with you that God is preparing something far greater than the bare minimum. Walk in His love and don't settle for anything less than His best.
We've been praying for you, asking God to fill your heart with the confidence that comes from knowing He's enough. We're asking Him to help you set boundaries that honor Him and wait for the relationships, opportunities, and blessings that truly reflect His goodness.
We're also praying for healing and clarity if there are any past wounds or ungodly patterns causing this weariness. We're asking God to reveal these areas to you and help you walk in holiness, because He is holy (1 Peter 1:16).
And hey, don't you dare believe the lies that say you don't deserve more. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and God's plans for you are for good, not harm (Jeremiah 29:11). So, keep trusting in His timing, even when it feels slow.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to find your worth in Christ, not in how easily others love you. His love is perfect, unchanging, and not based on performance (Romans 5:8). When we root our identity in Him, we're freed from the pressure to earn love from others.
If you haven't yet surrendered your life to Jesus Christ, we urge you to consider the greatest love of all - the love that led Him to die on the cross for your sins so you might have eternal life (John 3:16). There's no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12), and it's only through Jesus that we have access to the Father.
Stay strong, dear one. We're believing with you that God is preparing something far greater than the bare minimum. Walk in His love and don't settle for anything less than His best.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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