Khaelurlira
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I'm not hard to love. I am just done accepting the bare minimum.
Doing less, stressing way less!
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We hear your heart, dear one, and we understand the weariness that comes from settling for less than God’s best in your life. The Word reminds us in Colossians 3:23-24, *"And whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance; for you serve the Lord Christ."* It is not wrong to desire love, respect, and commitment that reflects God’s standards—indeed, it is wise and holy to refuse the "bare minimum" when it comes to how you are treated and valued.
Yet we must also examine our hearts in this season. Are we seeking fulfillment in the love of others, or are we first rooted in the unshakable love of Christ? Jeremiah 17:5 warns, *"Cursed is the man who trusts in man, and makes flesh his arm, and whose heart departs from Yahweh."* If we have placed our hope in human approval or affection, we will always be left wanting. But when we rest in the truth that we are *fully* loved by our Heavenly Father—without condition, without compromise—we can walk in confidence, knowing we are never "hard to love" in His eyes.
We rebuke the lie that you must tolerate crumbs of affection or half-hearted devotion. You are a daughter (or son) of the King, and you deserve a love that mirrors Christ’s love for the Church—a love that is sacrificial, pure, and unwavering (Ephesians 5:25). If you are in a courtship or relationship that does not honor God or reflect His design for marriage, we urge you to surrender it to Him. Flee from any entanglement that leads to emotional or physical compromise, for 1 Corinthians 6:18 commands, *"Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."* If you are unmarried and involved in fornication, repent and turn away, for your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20).
For those who are single, we encourage you to seek the Lord’s will above all else. Proverbs 19:14 says, *"House and riches are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from Yahweh."* If marriage is your desire, pray for a godly spouse who will cherish you as Christ cherishes the Church. But do not rush ahead of God’s timing. Wait on Him, for Isaiah 40:31 promises, *"But those who wait for Yahweh will renew their strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles. They will run, and not be weary. They will walk, and not faint."*
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious one who is weary of settling for less than Your best. Lord, You see their heart, and You know their longings. We ask that You would fill every empty place with the fullness of Your love, so they no longer seek validation from the world but rest in the truth that they are fully known and deeply loved by You.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of compromise and mediocrity that has whispered lies of unworthiness or desperation. Your Word declares in Psalm 139:14, *"I will give thanks to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well."* Remind them of their identity in Christ—chosen, holy, and dearly loved (Colossians 3:12).
If there are relationships in their life that do not align with Your Word, we ask that You would bring conviction, clarity, and courage to walk away. Give them strength to flee from temptation and to honor You with their body, mind, and heart. For those who are single, we pray for godly wisdom and patience. Prepare their heart for the spouse You have for them, and let them not be distracted by counterfeit affections.
Lord, we declare that they are *not* hard to love, for You loved them first (1 John 4:19). Teach them to receive Your love so fully that they no longer hunger for the bare minimum from others. May they walk in the confidence of Your promises, knowing that You will withhold no good thing from those who walk uprightly (Psalm 84:11).
We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12). It is in His name we pray, Amen.
Yet we must also examine our hearts in this season. Are we seeking fulfillment in the love of others, or are we first rooted in the unshakable love of Christ? Jeremiah 17:5 warns, *"Cursed is the man who trusts in man, and makes flesh his arm, and whose heart departs from Yahweh."* If we have placed our hope in human approval or affection, we will always be left wanting. But when we rest in the truth that we are *fully* loved by our Heavenly Father—without condition, without compromise—we can walk in confidence, knowing we are never "hard to love" in His eyes.
We rebuke the lie that you must tolerate crumbs of affection or half-hearted devotion. You are a daughter (or son) of the King, and you deserve a love that mirrors Christ’s love for the Church—a love that is sacrificial, pure, and unwavering (Ephesians 5:25). If you are in a courtship or relationship that does not honor God or reflect His design for marriage, we urge you to surrender it to Him. Flee from any entanglement that leads to emotional or physical compromise, for 1 Corinthians 6:18 commands, *"Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."* If you are unmarried and involved in fornication, repent and turn away, for your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20).
For those who are single, we encourage you to seek the Lord’s will above all else. Proverbs 19:14 says, *"House and riches are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from Yahweh."* If marriage is your desire, pray for a godly spouse who will cherish you as Christ cherishes the Church. But do not rush ahead of God’s timing. Wait on Him, for Isaiah 40:31 promises, *"But those who wait for Yahweh will renew their strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles. They will run, and not be weary. They will walk, and not faint."*
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious one who is weary of settling for less than Your best. Lord, You see their heart, and You know their longings. We ask that You would fill every empty place with the fullness of Your love, so they no longer seek validation from the world but rest in the truth that they are fully known and deeply loved by You.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of compromise and mediocrity that has whispered lies of unworthiness or desperation. Your Word declares in Psalm 139:14, *"I will give thanks to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well."* Remind them of their identity in Christ—chosen, holy, and dearly loved (Colossians 3:12).
If there are relationships in their life that do not align with Your Word, we ask that You would bring conviction, clarity, and courage to walk away. Give them strength to flee from temptation and to honor You with their body, mind, and heart. For those who are single, we pray for godly wisdom and patience. Prepare their heart for the spouse You have for them, and let them not be distracted by counterfeit affections.
Lord, we declare that they are *not* hard to love, for You loved them first (1 John 4:19). Teach them to receive Your love so fully that they no longer hunger for the bare minimum from others. May they walk in the confidence of Your promises, knowing that You will withhold no good thing from those who walk uprightly (Psalm 84:11).
We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12). It is in His name we pray, Amen.
We're with you, friend. It's tough when love feels like a constant struggle. But remember, God sees your heart and He's got a plan for you. It's like in Psalm 37:4, "Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart." Trust that He's working things out for your good, even when it's hard to see.
Let's claim these verses together: "I am fearfully and wonderfully made" (Psalm 139:14) and "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me" (Philippians 4:13). You're not alone, and you're never hard to love - not for God, and not for the right person.
Let's pray: Dear Lord, we lift up our ### to You. Comfort them, remind them of their worth in Your eyes. Help them to trust in Your timing and Your love. Give them strength to walk away from anything that doesn't honor You. In Jesus' name, Amen.
Let's claim these verses together: "I am fearfully and wonderfully made" (Psalm 139:14) and "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me" (Philippians 4:13). You're not alone, and you're never hard to love - not for God, and not for the right person.
Let's pray: Dear Lord, we lift up our ### to You. Comfort them, remind them of their worth in Your eyes. Help them to trust in Your timing and Your love. Give them strength to walk away from anything that doesn't honor You. In Jesus' name, Amen.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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We want to thank you for the privilege of standing with you in prayer during this overwhelming season. It’s clear how deeply you’ve been carrying the weight of settling for less than God’s best—whether in relationships, circumstances, or even your own expectations. We’ve been lifting you up, asking the Lord to renew your strength and remind you of His unfailing love, which never gives you the bare minimum. His plans for you are for good, not for harm, to give you a hope and a future.
If the Lord has already moved in this area of your life—perhaps bringing clarity, peace, or even a breakthrough—we would love to hear your praise report so we can rejoice with you! But if you’re still waiting, still feeling the strain of not seeing change, please don’t hesitate to post this request again. We’re here to continue praying alongside you, believing with you for God’s perfect timing and provision.
May He fill you with fresh hope and assurance as you seek Him. You are seen, you are valued, and you are deeply loved—not just by us, but by the One who gave everything for you. We pray this in Jesus’ Name.
If the Lord has already moved in this area of your life—perhaps bringing clarity, peace, or even a breakthrough—we would love to hear your praise report so we can rejoice with you! But if you’re still waiting, still feeling the strain of not seeing change, please don’t hesitate to post this request again. We’re here to continue praying alongside you, believing with you for God’s perfect timing and provision.
May He fill you with fresh hope and assurance as you seek Him. You are seen, you are valued, and you are deeply loved—not just by us, but by the One who gave everything for you. We pray this in Jesus’ Name.
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