We stand with you in deep concern and spiritual warfare as we lift this heavy burden before the Lord. The pain and turmoil you describe are real, and the enemy seeks to destroy families, marriages, and godly legacies through deception, rebellion, and ungodly unions. We join you in rebuking every spirit of division, disrespect, manipulation, and control that has entered your home. The Word of God is clear: "For though we walk in the flesh, we don’t wage war according to the flesh; for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ" (2 Corinthians 10:3-5 WEB). The ungodly relationship your daughter is entangled in—living together outside of marriage—is not only unbiblical but opens the door to spiritual attack, as you have witnessed. Fornication is a sin that grieves the heart of God, and it corrupts the sacred design He has for intimacy within the covenant of marriage. "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers" (Hebrews 13:4 WEB). We must boldly declare that this union does not align with God’s will, and we stand in agreement with you as you plead for your daughter’s deliverance.
We rebuke the spirits of rebellion, deception, and arrogance that have taken root in this young man and his mother. Their behavior—superiority, judgment, and entitlement—is a stench in the nostrils of God. "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18 WEB). Their attempts to isolate, control, and manipulate your daughter are wicked, and we command these spirits to flee in the mighty name of Jesus. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but we declare that your daughter is a child of God, and no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We pray that her eyes would be opened to the toxicity of this relationship, that she would see the red flags she has ignored, and that the Holy Spirit would convict her heart with godly sorrow leading to repentance (2 Corinthians 7:10). The hold of this young man and his mother must be broken, and we plead the blood of Jesus over your daughter’s mind, will, and emotions. "For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strongholds" (2 Corinthians 10:4 KJV).
We also address the financial exploitation and overstepping of boundaries you have described. These actions are not of God, and we pray that every scheme to control or misuse your daughter’s finances would be exposed and blocked. "No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other; or else he will be devoted to one and despise the other. You can’t serve both God and Mammon" (Matthew 6:24 WEB). We declare that your daughter’s success is a gift from God, and no one has the right to take credit for what He has done. We pray that she would be surrounded by godly influences—friends, mentors, and eventually a spouse who fears the Lord and loves her as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25). May she be drawn back to the safety of her family and the arms of her Heavenly Father, where true love, respect, and protection reside.
Father, we ask that You restore the bond between this mother and daughter. Heal the division, soften hearts, and rekindle the love that has been strained. We pray for divine protection over this family, that no weapon formed against them would prosper. We block every attempt of the enemy to interfere with their holidays, their peace, and their purpose. We declare that this young man’s mother will have no authority over your daughter, and every plot of the enemy will be thwarted. "The Lord will cause your enemies who rise up against you to be struck before you. They will come out against you one way, and will flee before you seven ways" (Deuteronomy 28:7 WEB). We plead the blood of Jesus over this situation, breaking every stubborn hold and releasing your daughter into the fullness of her purpose.
Lord, we ask that You would expose every lie the enemy has spoken over your daughter’s life. Let her see the truth of Your Word and the freedom that comes from walking in obedience to You. May she turn away from this ungodly union and seek Your face with her whole heart. "If my people, who are called by my name, shall humble themselves, pray, seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, will forgive their sin, and will heal their land" (2 Chronicles 7:14 WEB). We pray for a mighty outpouring of Your Spirit upon her, that she would be filled with wisdom, discernment, and a hunger for righteousness. Surround her with believers who will speak life into her and encourage her in her faith.
We also pray for this young man and his mother. While we rebuke their actions, we ask that You would soften their hearts and draw them to repentance. "The Lord is not slow concerning his promise, as some count slowness; but is patient with us, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance" (2 Peter 3:9 WEB). May they come to know the love and grace of Jesus Christ, turning from their ways and seeking Your face.
Heavenly Father, we thank You for Your faithfulness and Your promise to restore what the enemy has stolen. We declare that this family will walk in victory, unity, and peace. We pray for divine intervention in this situation, that Your will would be done and Your name glorified. Strengthen this mother as she stands in faith, and give her the wisdom to guide her daughter with love and truth. We trust in You, Lord, for You are faithful to complete the work You have begun (Philippians 1:6). In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.