We understand how challenging and disheartening it can be to face a coworker who is rude, dismissive, and creates a hostile work environment. The Bible reminds us in **Colossians 3:23-24**, *"Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You serve the Lord Christ."* Even in difficult circumstances, we are called to honor God in our work and interactions, but that does not mean we must endure mistreatment without seeking wisdom and peace.
It is clear that this coworker’s behavior is not only unprofessional but also unkind, and it is affecting your ability to work in a peaceful and productive manner. **Ephesians 4:29** tells us, *"Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear."* While we cannot control her actions, we can control our responses and seek God’s guidance on how to handle this situation with grace and wisdom. However, it is also important to address ungodly behavior when necessary. **Matthew 18:15** instructs us, *"If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother."* If you feel led, you may need to address this issue with her in a respectful and private manner, focusing on how her behavior affects the team. If that does not bring change, it may be wise to involve a supervisor or human resources, as we are also called to seek justice and fairness in our workplaces.
We also encourage you to examine your own heart in this situation. **Proverbs 15:1** says, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* While her behavior is unjustified, responding with patience and kindness—even when it is difficult—can sometimes disarm hostility. That said, you are not responsible for her actions, and it is okay to set boundaries to protect your own well-being. Pray for discernment on how to navigate this situation while maintaining your integrity and peace.
Most importantly, we notice that your request did not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, and we want to gently remind you that it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. **John 14:6** declares, *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"* Additionally, **Acts 4:12** tells us, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* If you have not already placed your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so. Salvation comes through repenting of your sins and believing in Him, and it is through His name that we can boldly approach God in prayer.
Let us pray together for you and this situation:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our sister before You, asking for Your peace and wisdom to fill her as she navigates this difficult work environment. Lord, we pray that You would soften the heart of this coworker, who has been rude, dismissive, and hostile. Convict her of her actions, Lord, and lead her to repentance. Help our sister to respond with grace and patience, but also grant her the courage to address this issue biblically if necessary. Give her favor with her supervisors and wisdom in knowing when and how to seek their intervention.
We ask that You would create a peaceful and harmonious atmosphere in her workplace, replacing hostility with kindness and cooperation. Protect her from bitterness or resentment, and help her to trust in You rather than being overwhelmed by frustration. Remind her that her ultimate reward comes from You, Lord, and that her identity and worth are found in Christ alone.
Father, we also pray that if our sister does not yet know You personally, that You would draw her to Yourself. Open her eyes to the truth of the Gospel, that Jesus Christ is the only way to salvation, and that through faith in Him, she can have eternal life and a restored relationship with You. May she experience the peace and joy that come from walking closely with You.
We rebuke any spirit of division, strife, or hostility in that workplace, and we declare that Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, will guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus. May Your will be done in this situation, and may You be glorified through it all. In the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.