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[Anonymous]

So hot in this heat can’t bare it and I’m Always being honest and upfront with them, but sadly they aren’t that way with me in fact when I asked to help with something they’re always in a hurry and have to go or distracted on their phone. They really need you Lord the lies Disrespect manipulate and control has to Stop Now I have no one else in my life I can trust. Please convict them HS Can’t deal with this pain and please bring justice in this whole situation favor blessings and miracle open doors. Amen

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep pain and frustration in your words, and our hearts ache with you as you endure this season of dishonesty, disrespect, and neglect. The heat of betrayal and manipulation can feel unbearable, and we stand with you before the Lord, lifting your cries to Him who sees all and judges justly. You are not alone, even when it feels that way, God is near to the brokenhearted, and He collects every tear you’ve shed (Psalm 34:18, Psalm 56:8).

First, we must address the weight of what you’re carrying. The Bible warns us, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). If this person you’re referring to is not a believer in Christ, or if they are but their actions do not reflect godly love, patience, and integrity, then their behavior is not only hurtful but out of alignment with God’s design for relationships. A marriage or courtship should be built on mutual respect, honesty, and selfless love (Ephesians 5:21-33, 1 Corinthians 13:4-7). If these foundations are missing, it is not a reflection of your worth but a sign that this relationship may not be honoring to God.

We rebuke the spirit of manipulation, control, and deceit in this situation. The Lord detests lying lips (Proverbs 12:22), and He will not tolerate the mistreatment of His children. We declare in Jesus’ name that these patterns must cease. "For the Lord loves justice, and does not forsake his saints. They are preserved forever, but the children of the wicked shall be cut off" (Psalm 37:28). The Holy Spirit is indeed the Convictor (John 16:8), and we pray He moves powerfully in this person’s heart to bring repentance and change. But we also urge you to set boundaries, God does not call you to endure abuse or disrespect in the name of love. "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it" (Proverbs 4:23).

You mentioned feeling as though you have no one to trust. We want to gently remind you that your ultimate trust must be in Jesus Christ, the One who will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). If you have not yet placed your faith in Him, we urge you to consider the gift of salvation He offers. "For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life" (John 3:16). Jesus is the only name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12), and He is the only one who can truly satisfy the longings of your heart. If you’ve already given your life to Him, we encourage you to lean into His presence, to pour out your heart before Him, and to seek godly community, whether through a local church, trusted believers, or biblical counseling, to walk alongside you.

We pray now for justice, favor, and breakthrough in this situation. But we also pray for your heart, for healing from the pain of betrayal, for wisdom to discern God’s will, and for the strength to release bitterness or unforgiveness. "Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, 'Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord'" (Romans 12:19). God sees your suffering, and He will act on your behalf. We ask Him to open doors of blessing and provision that no man can shut (Revelation 3:8), to surround you with His peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7), and to fill the void in your heart with His perfect love (1 John 4:18).

Father God, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear one who is hurting. Lord, You see the lies, the disrespect, and the manipulation they’ve endured. We ask You to expose every hidden thing, to bring conviction where it is needed, and to break the chains of control in this situation. Holy Spirit, move mightily in the heart of this person who has caused pain, let them see the error of their ways and turn toward repentance. But Lord, we also ask for Your protection over this child of Yours. Guard their heart from bitterness, their mind from despair, and their spirit from growing weary. Surround them with Your presence, Father, and remind them that they are never alone.

We pray for justice, Lord. You are a God who defends the oppressed and lifts up the brokenhearted. We ask You to intervene in this situation, to bring favor where there has been rejection, and to open doors of blessing that no one can close. Provide godly relationships and community for them, Lord, people who will speak truth in love, who will stand by them in faithfulness, and who will reflect Your heart. And if this relationship is not of You, we ask You to close the door completely, to remove all ties that bind, and to lead them toward the spouse You have prepared for them, a spouse who will love them as Christ loves the Church, with honor, integrity, and selflessness.

Father, we also ask for a miracle of healing in their heart. Mend the places that have been broken, restore what has been stolen, and fill them with Your joy and peace. Teach them to trust in You above all else, to find their identity in Christ, and to walk in the freedom that comes from knowing You. We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that You will turn their mourning into dancing (Psalm 30:11).

Lord, if this dear one does not yet know You as Savior, we pray they would come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ. Soften their heart to receive the truth of the Gospel, that they might experience the love, forgiveness, and new life that only You can give. And if they do know You, draw them closer, deepen their faith, and fill them with the hope of Your promises.

We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the name above every name, the One who hears our prayers and intercedes for us. May Your will be done in this situation, Lord, and may Your glory be revealed. Amen.

 

[needhelpsobad48]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear how worn down you are, not just from the heat, but from the weight of always being honest while the people you trust aren’t honest back. You're showing up with an open heart, and instead of meeting you there, they’re busy, distracted, or dismissive. That hurts. It’s especially lonely when you’re already feeling you have no one else to lean on, and it makes perfect sense that you’re crying out for things to stop.

When someone we care about keeps handling us with lies, disrespect, or control, it can leave us feeling powerless. You can’t force another person to change or to value you the way they should. But you can take steps to guard your own heart in the middle of it. That might mean deciding what you will and won’t carry, realizing it’s not unloving to be clear about what behavior you can no longer absorb. Boundaries aren't walls; they’re honest yardsticks that say, “I will not keep setting myself up to be lied to or used.” You don’t have to stop caring, but you can stop volunteering your trust to someone who repeatedly mishandles it while you wait and pray.

We also want to say gently: if you truly feel you have no one else you can trust, that level of isolation is its own kind of grief. In time, a next step might be to reach out beyond this relationship, perhaps through a trusted pastor or a Christian counselor who can help you sort through the confusion and build a support system. For now, though, we simply sit with you in the pain.

Let’s ask the Lord for what you need right here.

Jesus, in this aching heat both outside and inside, bring Your cool presence. You see the manipulation and lies, and You know how much it has cost Your daughter to keep showing up with honestly. Please bring conviction where it is needed, and in Your way and timing, make things right. Guard her heart from despair, and open doors she can't yet see, doors of safety, clarity, and connection. Let her feel, even now, that she is not forgotten. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

The bitter heat of your trial is not hidden from the One who notes the fall of every sparrow. You cry for justice, and well you may, for the ways of those around you have been unkind, steeped in lies and manipulation, and your spirit is wounded to the point of agony. Yet remember that the Lord’s ear is open to the sighing of the contrite heart. It is no small thing that you have been honest and aboveboard; but beware lest you make a refuge of your own integrity, for even our best works are but filthy rags in the face of divine justice.

You ask for conviction, for the Holy Spirit to move upon those who mistreat you, and that is a holy desire. But fix this truth in your soul: the whole of their salvation, and yours, lies in Jesus Christ and in Jesus Christ alone. You cannot wean them from their false refuges by your own distress; it is the Master's work and no other. And as for your own pain, loss of trust, the sting of disrespect, do not think it strange. Rheumatic pain is as rare a proof of life as a thrill of delight. This very anguish over sin and injustice, this longing for things to be set right, is a sign of spiritual life, though it drag you through the dust.

But where does your own trust repose? If you lean upon the arm of flesh, you will find it a reed broken at the hilts. You say you have no one else to trust; then look to the One who will never leave nor forsake. When the heart is stripped of all creature comfort, it is led to the fountainhead. The silver pillar of God’s justice stands firm, He cannot and will not smite the soul that hides beneath the cross of Christ. There, justice was satisfied at Golgotha. If you have fled to that refuge, then the Lord’s dealings with you are not the rod of vengeance but the staff of grace. He is slow to anger, and even when He draws the sword, it is that you might cling more tightly to the wounded side of your Redeemer.

Stand with your trembling faith before that awful wonder: God can be just and yet the justifier of him that believeth in Jesus. Oh, what ease for an aching mind! Your adversaries may go on in their course, but mind that your own spirit is not infected with bitterness. Measure out the justice you expect for others by the mercy you yourself have received. Can you, a debtor to free grace, demand a strict accounting from your fellow servants? Let it not be so. Bring your pain, your hot tears, your loneliness, lay it all open before the Saviour, for there should be no secrets between a soul convinced of sin and a pardoning God. Our hope lies in our heavenly Father’s knowing all.

And as for those who wound you, do you not see that their greatest need is not the stopping of their lies but the saving of their souls? It were better they were hurled headlong into temporal ruin now and awakened to repentance than to be left to a false peace, heaping up wrath against the day of wrath. Pray on, but with your hands held up by the promise, not by the sight of answered prayer. Leave the open doors and miracles to Him whose ways are past finding out. The canopy of His love is as strong as the pillar of His justice; beneath it, rest, even when the storm beats hardest. Your portion for the present may lie in desires not yet attained, but His grace is sufficient.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Chrysostom]

The heat that oppresses your body is but a shadow of the fire that consumes your soul when you dwell on the wrongs of others. You speak of being honest and upfront, yet those around you meet your openness with lies, disrespect, and manipulation. This pain is real, and the desire for justice is not wrong, for the Lord loves righteousness. But take heed: if you let this indignation fester, you thrust a sword into your own heart. The harm you suffer from your own anger will be greater than any they have inflicted. Do not pervert justice by demanding it on your own terms, but commit your cause to the Judge who sees all.

You ask the Holy Spirit to convict them, a holy request, but be careful that your own words do not condemn you. Even if what you say about their faults is true, God will pass sentence not on their deeds alone, but on the spirit in which you speak. The Pharisee spoke truth, yet he paid the utmost penalty. Instead, overcome evil with self-restraint. Forgive, that you may obtain forgiveness; show mercy, that mercy may be shown to you. This is the miracle you seek: that your own soul be freed from the heat of vengeance. Trust that God's justice is swifter and wiser than yours, and let your honesty be matched with a quiet endurance that leaves room for His favor. No earthly ally can carry you to heaven, only excellency of soul, nurtured through such trials.