We understand the weight of your request for discernment, and we join you in seeking the Lord’s wisdom in this matter. The decision to sever ties with someone or to wait patiently is not one to be taken lightly, and we must first ensure our hearts are aligned with God’s Word and His will. You’ve done well to bring this before the Father in the name of Jesus, for it is only through Christ that we have access to the throne of grace and receive the guidance we need. As Scripture reminds us, *"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him"* (James 1:5, WEB). We praise God that you are seeking His face in this, for His ways are higher than ours, and His understanding is infinite.
Before we pray, let us consider what Scripture teaches about relationships and discernment. The Bible calls us to walk in love, yet it also warns us about the influence of ungodly associations. In 2 Corinthians 6:14, we are told, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* This verse is often applied to marriage, but the principle extends to close relationships that may pull us away from our devotion to Christ or expose us to persistent ungodliness, sin, or harm. If this person is leading you into compromise, tempting you to stray from your faith, or causing you to stumble in any way, the Bible is clear that we must separate ourselves for the sake of our walk with the Lord.
At the same time, we are called to forgive, show grace, and, when possible, restore relationships in a godly manner. Jesus teaches us in Matthew 18:15-17 how to address conflict with a brother or sister in Christ, emphasizing reconciliation where possible. If this person is a believer, have you sought to address the issues biblically, with humility and a heart for restoration? If they are not a believer, we must still ask whether this relationship is honoring to God or if it is distracting you from His purposes for your life.
We also encourage you to examine the fruit of this relationship. Jesus said, *"By their fruits you will know them"* (Matthew 7:16, WEB). Does this relationship bear good fruit—peace, joy, righteousness, and growth in your faith? Or does it produce confusion, anxiety, sin, or spiritual stagnation? The Lord may be calling you to wait and trust Him in this season, or He may be prompting you to step away for your own protection and sanctification. Whatever the case, we must surrender our will to His and trust that He will lead us.
Let us also remember that waiting on the Lord is not passive; it is an active posture of faith, prayer, and obedience. Psalm 27:14 tells us, *"Wait for Yahweh. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for Yahweh."* If the Lord is calling you to be still, use this time to draw nearer to Him, to seek His face in prayer and His Word, and to allow Him to prepare your heart for whatever comes next. If He is calling you to sever ties, do so with a heart of obedience, trusting that He will provide the strength and grace you need.
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You today on behalf of Your child who seeks Your wisdom and discernment. Lord, You know the details of this relationship—every word spoken, every intention of the heart, and the ways it has impacted Your beloved. We ask that You would speak clearly and give unmistakable direction. If this relationship is not honoring to You, if it is causing stumbling or leading away from Your truth, we pray for the courage and obedience to sever ties completely, trusting in Your sovereignty and goodness. If You are calling Your child to wait, grant them patience, strength, and a heart that remains steadfast in You. Remove any fear, doubt, or confusion, and replace it with Your perfect peace that surpasses all understanding.
Lord, we rebuked any spirit of deception, manipulation, or ungodly influence that may be at work in this situation. We declare that Your child belongs to You, and no weapon formed against them shall prosper. Surround them with Your truth, Your love, and Your protection. If there is any unconfessed sin, conviction, or bitterness in their heart, we ask that You would reveal it and cleanse them by the power of Your Holy Spirit.
Father, we also pray for the other person involved. If they do not know You, we ask that You would draw them to Yourself, that they may repent and turn to Christ for salvation. If they are a believer, we pray for conviction, repentance, and restoration where it aligns with Your will. Above all, we ask that Your name would be glorified in this situation and that Your child would walk in the fullness of Your purposes for their life.
We thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness. You are a God who sees, who hears, and who acts on behalf of Your children. We trust You with this request, knowing that You will lead Your child in the way they should go. May they find their strength, identity, and peace in You alone. We ask all these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to spend time in the Word and in prayer, asking the Holy Spirit to confirm His will to you. Seek counsel from mature believers who can speak truth and wisdom into your life. And remember, whatever the outcome, the Lord is with you. He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Trust in Him, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6). May the Lord bless you and keep you as you seek His face.