Destress and lightening of the workload and less overtime work and rest

Miranda T

Good and Faithful Servant
**Destress and lightening of the workload and less overtime work and rest - ###** ### is working in a church but his job is extremely busy and his supervisor the accountant has retired without rehiring. Now he is earning half salary of same experienced in the commercial sectors and struggling very long hours working from Monday to Saturday 9am to 10pm. He has faced lots of false accusations and mistreat by the people whom he has been working with in the accounting department and also the HR department. The reason why he continues this job is because it is the walking distance to his dad elderly home. His dad got a hit on his head when playing badminton with his friends and fell down hit his head, after that the past five years, ### is using 100% of his salary is just paying for his dad's elderly home fees. He also has to take care of his mother aged 80+ and he got a rebellious sister who always like go playing, spending money and eating and gave up her dentist governmental jobs and now teaching freelance piano. The whole family actually is lacking of human resources to take care of two elderly and also not enough money to spend, they are kinda spending and using the money in their bank accounts savings for 5 years. There have been many unfair events happening to ### while he stepped into this church to work and he has been very hurt and disappointed with the pastors, and other people who claimed to be a Christian but they deeds are dirtier than what we can see from non-Christians workmates in the commercial sectors. This make him cannot experience the love of God and provision of God and healing from God. While what he believes do not align with what he has experienced and also what he saw in the mega church which he is working, the people do not glorify God and Holy Spirit is not there any more as sins abounds, the unforgiveness, bitterness and angers accumulating each day day by day for 5 years. Pray that God will have mercy and heal his daddy, so that his daddy can accept Jesus Christ be his lord and saviour. His daddy said he has accepted Christ but his mind is like a kid and he cried and said Jesus did not take care of him and heal him so he still needs to live in elderly home. I believe His dad really wants to get healed. He wants to eat meals, go to toilet and have a bath on his own without being bound inside the elderly home. Pray that His mother will also being changed by God that will agree and initiate to cast out and break all the idols statues and jewelleries at home as they are the portals to the spiritual realm to attract curses and demons. Pray that God will truly be so real and work in ### workplace to increase one or two headcounts so that he can return home to cook for himself and his mother and he can spend more time with his daddy. Pray that God will change the people there and increase his salary so that he can eat better food and God will heal him from too high blood potassium and too low blood sodium and heal all his blood vessels and his cells and everything and every part of his body and sustain him physically, spiritually and mentally during this difficult time. Pray that God will change his sister ### to be a godly woman no longer be lukewarm anymore. She will be taking up the responsible to earn money and take care of the elderly at home. They will throw away all idols at home together with helps from pastors or godly friends. Pray for less worktime and more quality sleep and better food of ### and his family. In Jesus' name. AMEN
 
We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up this brother who is carrying burdens far beyond what any one person should bear. The weight of his labor, the betrayal of those who claim the name of Christ yet act in wickedness, the suffering of his father, the spiritual bondage in his home, and the rebellion in his family—all of these are deep wounds that only the Lord can heal. Yet we also see his faithfulness in honoring his parents, even at great personal cost, and we praise God for that testimony. Let us address each of these matters with Scripture, prayer, and godly counsel, for our God is not unaware of his suffering, nor is He powerless to act.

First, we must acknowledge the grievous state of this church workplace. It is a tragedy when those who profess Christ behave worse than unbelievers—when unforgiveness, bitterness, false accusations, and exploitation thrive in a place that should be a beacon of God’s love. The Bible warns us that such things should not be among God’s people. *"But now I have written to you not to associate with anyone who is called a brother who is a sexual immoral person, or covetous, or an idolater, or a slanderer, or a drunkard, or an extortionist. Don’t even eat with such a person"* (1 Corinthians 5:11). If the leaders and coworkers in this church are acting in ways that dishonor God, they are under His judgment unless they repent. We pray that the Lord would either convict and transform these hearts or remove this brother from their influence, for *"Bad company corrupts good morals"* (1 Corinthians 15:33). No job—even in a church—is worth the cost of one’s spiritual health, peace, or physical well-being. If this place is truly as spiritually barren as described, it may be that the Lord is calling him to leave, trusting that God will provide another way to care for his family.

Yet we also recognize his heart for his father. His sacrifice in working such grueling hours to pay for his father’s care is commendable, but it is not sustainable. The body cannot endure such labor without breaking, and we see that already in his health struggles—high potassium, low sodium, and the toll of stress on his body. *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest"* (Matthew 11:28). Jesus does not call us to destroy ourselves in service, even for noble causes. We pray that the Lord would intervene supernaturally—either by healing his father so that he no longer requires such expensive care, or by providing additional help so that the financial burden is lifted. *"Cast your burden on Yahweh, and he will sustain you. He will never allow the righteous to be moved"* (Psalm 55:22).

Regarding his father’s spiritual state: it is clear that his father’s mind is troubled, and his words—*"Jesus did not take care of him"*—reveal a heart that has not yet fully surrendered to Christ. True salvation is not merely an intellectual assent but a transformation of the heart. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation"* (Romans 10:9-10). We pray that the Lord would open his father’s eyes to see the truth of the Gospel, that he would repent of any unbelief or bitterness, and that he would experience the healing power of Jesus—not just physically, but spiritually. May the father come to know that *"the Lord is very compassionate and merciful"* (James 5:11) and that His timing is perfect.

The issue of idols in the home is a serious spiritual stronghold. The Bible is clear: *"Little children, keep yourselves from idols"* (1 John 5:21). These statues and jewelry are not harmless; they are gateways for demonic influence, and their presence hinders the work of the Holy Spirit. *"What agreement does a temple of God have with idols? For you are a temple of the living God. Even as God said, ‘I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they will be my people.’ Therefore ‘Come out from among them, and be separate,’ says the Lord. ‘Touch no unclean thing. I will receive you'"* (2 Corinthians 6:16-17). We pray that the Lord would give this brother and his mother the courage and conviction to remove every idol from their home, to break every curse, and to consecrate their household to Christ alone. This is not optional for those who seek God’s blessing—it is a command.

As for his sister, her rebellion is a great sorrow. She has abandoned a stable, honorable career to pursue pleasure, and in doing so, she has added to the family’s burden rather than sharing it. The Bible warns against laziness and selfishness: *"For even when we were with you, we commanded you this: ‘If anyone is not willing to work, neither let him eat.’ For we hear of some who walk among you in rebellion, who don’t work at all, but are busybodies"* (2 Thessalonians 3:10-11). We pray that the Lord would convict her heart, that she would repent of her lukewarmness, and that she would take up her responsibility to provide for and honor her parents. *"Honor your father and mother"—which is the first commandment with a promise—“that it may go well with you, and you may live long on the earth"* (Ephesians 6:2-3). May she no longer be a consumer but a contributor, no longer a burden but a blessing.

Finally, we address his health and the desperate need for rest. The body is the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20), and to neglect it is to dishonor God. The current workload is not just unsustainable—it is sinful for an employer to demand such hours without just compensation or support. We pray that the Lord would either provide additional staff to lighten the load or open a door for him to find another job—one that pays fairly, respects his time, and allows him to care for his family without destroying his health. *"The sleep of a laboring man is sweet, whether he eats little or much; but the abundance of the rich will not allow him to sleep"* (Ecclesiastes 5:12). May the Lord grant him restful sleep, nourishing food, and the strength to endure until deliverance comes.

Now, let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of this Your servant, who is weary, wounded, and overwhelmed. Lord, You see the injustice he faces in his workplace—how those who claim Your name have treated him with cruelty, falsehood, and exploitation. Father, we ask that You would expose every wicked deed, convict every hard heart, and either bring repentance to that place or remove him from it. Do not let him remain in a place where Your Spirit is quenched and sin abounds. Provide for him, Lord, as only You can. If it is Your will, open a door for him to find honorable work that allows him to care for his family without destroying his body. Give him wisdom to know when to stay and when to leave, and grant him the courage to act.

Lord, we lift up his father, who is bound both physically and spiritually. You know his desire to be healed, to be free from the elderly home, and to live with dignity. Father, we ask that You would touch his body—restore his mind, heal his injuries, and renew his strength. But more than physical healing, we pray for the healing of his soul. Remove every doubt, every bitterness, every lie that says You do not care. Let him encounter Your love in a way he cannot deny. May he truly surrender to Jesus as Lord and Savior, and may his life be a testimony of Your grace.

We also pray for his mother, that You would give her the conviction to remove every idol from their home. Break the power of these false gods, Lord, and fill their home with Your presence. Let there be no more portals for the enemy, but let their house be a place of worship, peace, and protection.

Father, we rebuked the spirit of rebellion in his sister. Convict her, Lord, of her selfishness and laziness. Turn her heart back to You and to her family. Raise her up as a woman of God who takes responsibility, who works with her hands, and who honors her parents. Let her no longer be a source of burden but a source of blessing.

Lord, we ask for supernatural provision. You own the cattle on a thousand hills—You are not limited by man’s economy. Provide the finances they need, either through increased income, reduced expenses, or unexpected blessings. Heal his body, Lord—regulate his potassium and sodium, strengthen his blood vessels, and restore his energy. Give him restful sleep and nourishing food. Sustain him in every way, for You are Jehovah Jireh, our Provider.

Finally, Father, we ask that You would restore his faith. He has seen hypocrisy and wickedness in the church, and it has wounded him deeply. Remind him that You are not like man—You are holy, just, and faithful. Let him encounter Your love in a fresh way. Surround him with godly brothers and sisters who will encourage him, pray with him, and stand with him in this season.

We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who sympathizes with our weaknesses and intercedes for us before the throne of grace. Let Your will be done, and let Your kingdom come in this situation. Amen.
 
We're standing with you, dear brother. We see your struggle, your dedication, and your love for your family. We're here to lift you up in prayer, just as you've been lifting up your loved ones.

Firstly, we pray for your dad. Lord, we ask that you would touch his body, heal his mind, and restore his strength. But more than that, we pray for the healing of his soul. Remove every doubt, every bitterness, every lie that says you don't care. Let him encounter your love in a way he cannot deny. We ask that he would truly surrender to Jesus as Lord and Savior, and that his life would be a testimony of your grace. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

We also pray for your sister. Lord, we ask that you would convict her heart of her selfishness and laziness. Turn her heart back to you and to her family. Raise her up as a woman of God who takes responsibility, who works with her hands, and who honors her parents. Let her no longer be a source of burden but a source of blessing. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

And for you, dear brother, we pray for rest. We pray that the Lord would give you the strength to endure, the wisdom to know when to stay and when to leave, and the courage to act. We ask that he would provide for you, as only he can. We trust in his timing, and we trust in his care. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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