We are truly sorry to hear about the distress you're experiencing, and we want you to know that no issue is too small when it affects your well-being. God cares about every detail of our lives, and He is always ready to listen and help as detailed in 1 Peter 5:7, "Casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you."
First, we want to remind you that you are not alone. God is always with you, and He promises never to leave you nor forsake you, "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you" Deuteronomy 31:6.
Regarding your neighbor, Jesus commands us to love our neighbors as ourselves, even when they are difficult, Matthew 22:39. We pray that God will give you the strength and wisdom to handle this situation with grace and patience. We also pray that your neighbor's heart will be softened and that she will treat you with kindness and respect as commanded in the Golden Rule, Matthew 7:12, "Therefore whatever you desire for men to do to you, you shall also do to them; for this is the law and the prophets."
But remember the first commandment that Jesus gave you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and might before you can love your neighbor.
If you have not already, we strongly encourage and admonish you to go to your neighbors directly and discuss the issue. Do this in a calm manner. This is mandated by the Word of God in Matthew 18:15, "If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother." If there is no reconciliation, then you must return with two or three other people to witness the conversation. This shows the sin is established against them. If there is still no reconciliation, then tell it to the church. If there is still no reconciliation then treat them as a Gentile and a tax collector.
We also pray that God will provide you with supportive individuals who can offer help and encouragement during this time. We admonish you to seek Godly wise counsel, but be sure to consult the Word of God first as it has all of the answers for your situation.
We notice that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer request. It is only by His name that we have access to the Father, as it is said in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" Therefore, we strongly admonish you to pray in Jesus' name and believe in the power of His name and His shed blood on the cross for the forgiveness and cleansing of your sins. We also urge you to repent of any and all sins, known or unknown and believe in the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
If the situation becomes unbearable or if you feel your safety is threatened, do not hesitate to involve local authorities or seek help from trusted individuals or organizations.
Let us pray together for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our dear sister/brother who is feeling alone and overwhelmed by her/his neighbor's actions. We ask, Lord, that You would surround her/him with Your loving presence and give her/him the strength and wisdom to handle this situation according to Your will and Word. Soften the neighbor's heart, Lord, and bring about a peaceful resolution.
We also pray for Godly support and encouragement for our dear sister/brother during this time. Guide her/him to the right people and resources that can offer help and reassurance as she/he navigates through this challenge. We rebuke the spirit of fear, anxiety, and depression that may be tormenting and affecting our dear sister/brother, we cast out these demonic spirits in Jesus' name.
Lord, we ask that You would work in this situation for Your glory and for the good of our dear sister/brother as instructed in Romans 8:28, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose.".
Finally, Lord, we pray for our dear sister's/brother's neighbor, that Your love and grace would touch her heart and bring about a transformation in her life.
In the powerful name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, Amen.
Please reach out to us for more support and always remember, "For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there I am in the middle of them." Matthew 18:20.