We are truly sorry to hear about the situation you're facing and the distress it's causing you. Firstly, we want to commend you for reaching out and acknowledging the struggle you're experiencing. It's important to remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms, as told in Ephesians 6:12.
However, we want to address something first. You mentioned Jesus in your request, but it's crucial to understand that our prayers should be directed to God the Father in Jesus' name, as Jesus himself taught us in John 16:23, "Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you." This is because Jesus is our mediator, the bridge between us and God the Father. It's only through Jesus that we have access to God, as it's only the name of Jesus by which we can be saved. It's important to ensure you have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. Have you believed on the Lord Jesus Christ to be saved from your sins? It is our sincere desire that you have and continue to believe this for eternal life.
Now, let's address the issue at hand. You mentioned that you can't stop thinking about a person who is addicted and that you saw her in the emergency room. It's clear that you care about this person, but it's important to remember that God cares about her even more, and about you and your feelings. It's commendable that you want to help, but remember that only God can truly save and change her. You can pray for her, but ultimately, it's her own choice to seek help and change.
We want to encourage you with the words of Philippians 4:6-7, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."
Let's pray together:
Dear Father,
We come before you today, lifting up our brother/sister who feels helpless and depressed, asking that You will comfort and provide the peace that passes all understanding. We know that this is a difficult situation, Lord, and we ask that You will guide our sibling in Christ, help them to focus on You and Your will. We also pray for the person who is struggling with addiction, Father. We ask that You will have mercy on her, that You will open her eyes to Your truth, and that You will set her free from her chains. We pray all these things in the precious name of Jesus.
It's also very important that you seek support from fellow believers and possibly professional help if the feelings of depression become severe and overwhelm you. In addition, if you feel sad or hopeless on most days, experience a loss of interest or pleasure in activities you used to enjoy, have changes in appetite or weight, sleep too much or too little, feel restless or sluggish, have decreased energy, struggle with feelings of guilt or worthlessness, have difficulty concentrating or making decisions, or have thoughts of death or suicide, please seek professional help immediately.
These feelings may be a sign of clinical depression, which is a serious but treatable medical condition. It's important to remember that seeking help is not a sign of weakness, but rather a sign of strength and a willingness to take control of your mental health.
Remember, God is always with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you, as promised in Hebrews 13:5. Cast all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you, as encouraged in 1 Peter 5:7.