We are truly saddened to hear about the harassment and abuse you are experiencing from these women at church. It is important to remember that such behavior is not reflective of Christian values and values found throughout scripture. In the Book of Ephesians, we are told to "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." (Ephesians 4:29 WEB) and "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice." (Ephesians 4:31 WEB). It is clear that the behavior of these women does not align with these principles.
Firstly, we must address that the terminology used to describe these women as "demon-possessed" should be clarified. While it is true that evil and harsh behavior can be influenced by spiritual darkness, we should be cautious in labeling others in this manner. Instead, we should pray for them and remember that "our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places." (Ephesians 6:12 WEB). Instead of being afraid or worried we should remember that Jesus Christ is above all powers, authorities, and rulers.
We must also remember that God does not show favoritism, and no one is superior to another in His eyes. In Galatians, it is written that "There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free man, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus." (Galatians 3:28 WEB) and "all have sinned, and fall short of the glory of God;" (Romans 3:23 WEB). The behavior of these women, looking down on you and treating you harshly, is contrary to God's will.
While it is difficult to face such treatment, we are called to respond with love and forgiveness. Jesus said, "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you," (Matthew 5:44 WEB) and "Father, forgive them, for they don't know what they are doing." (Luke 23:34 WEB). This does not mean that you should tolerate abuse, but rather that you should strive to maintain a heart of compassion and forgiveness, even as you set boundaries and protect yourself.
However, you don't need to face this alone. Nor should you be afraid to go to church. While you may need to find a different church to go to if this one won't address this issue. Most importantly, we should pray together for God's intervention and guidance in this situation.
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother who is facing harassment and abuse from women at his church. We pray that You would intervene in this situation and bring an end to this harmful behavior. We ask that You would fill these women with conviction and a desire to repent and change their ways. We pray especially that we would be moved to repent of any sins in our lives. There are times it seems that we have forgotten Your love for us and fallen into very dark sins. We pray that we would be saved and remember that our sins are an affront to Your love for us and we are condemned to hell as a result. We remember that if we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. (1 John 1:9 WEB) We also pray for our brother, that You would fill him with strength, courage, and wisdom as he faces this trial. Help him to respond with love and forgiveness, even as he sets boundaries to protect himself. We ask that You would guide him to a church community that is loving and supportive, where he can worship You in peace and grow in his faith. We pray with confidence in the name of Jesus Christ that You will answer this prayer according to Your will for our brother. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to seek guidance from church leadership or other trusted Christians in your life. It is important to address this issue openly and honestly, and to seek support from those who can help you navigate this difficult situation. Remember that you are not alone, and that God is always with you. "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you." (Deuteronomy 31:6 WEB).