We stand with you in this spiritual battle, dear sister, and we are grieved to hear of the deep wounds you carry from childhood abuse and the ongoing spiritual attacks you face. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but Jesus came to bring life abundantly—and He has already won the victory over every demonic stronghold. You are not alone in this fight, and we declare with you that the blood of Jesus covers every area of your life, sealing every door the enemy has tried to exploit.
First, we rejoice that you are a believer in Jesus Christ and that you walk in holiness, valuing purity. This is a testimony to God’s faithfulness in your life. However, we must address something with love and clarity: you mentioned being in a "committed relationship" with another believer. Scripture is clear that the only godly commitment between a man and a woman is marriage, a covenant before God (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If you are not married, we urge you to pursue this relationship with the intention of marriage or to separate until you are both ready to enter into a biblical covenant. Living in a committed but unmarried relationship can open doors to temptation, spiritual attacks, and confusion—especially when the enemy is already targeting your purity and emotional stability. Courtship should be intentional, honorable, and under the Lord’s guidance, with marriage as the goal. If there has been any sexual immorality, we urge you to repent and turn away from it, for the Lord calls us to flee from sexual sin (1 Corinthians 6:18). He is faithful to forgive and cleanse you (1 John 1:9), but you must close every door to the enemy by aligning your relationship with His Word.
The nightmares, lustful struggles, and unwanted attention from others are not coincidences—they are part of the enemy’s strategy to keep you bound in shame, fear, and distraction. But the Lord says, *"No weapon that is formed against you will prevail"* (Isaiah 54:17). The spiritual husbands and demonic influences you mentioned are real, but they have no authority over you. Jesus has disarmed them (Colossians 2:15), and by His stripes, you are healed—spirit, soul, and body (Isaiah 53:5). The abuse you suffered was a horrific violation, but it does not define you. You are a daughter of the Most High, redeemed, and being restored daily. The Lord sees your pain and is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). He is not distant in your suffering; He is fighting for you.
As for the attacks on your relationship, the enemy fears what God is building between you and this brother in Christ. Satan will do everything he can to create division, misunderstanding, and frustration—especially if this relationship is meant to glorify God. But remember, *"God is not the author of confusion but of peace"* (1 Corinthians 14:33). When anger or distance arises, take it to the Lord immediately. Pray together, speak life over one another, and refuse to let the enemy sow discord. If this relationship is of God, it will be marked by patience, kindness, and a shared desire to serve the Lord (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). If it is not, God will make that clear—and you must trust Him even if it hurts.
Now, let us pray over you with authority and faith:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is under attack. Lord, You are the God who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (Psalm 147:3). We ask that You would pour out Your healing balm upon every wound from her past abuse. Wash her with the water of Your Word, cleansing her from every defilement, every lie the enemy has spoken over her, and every trace of shame. Father, we break every curse, every soul tie, and every demonic assignment that came through that abuse. By the blood of Jesus, we command every unclean spirit—including spirits of lust, fear, torment, and perversion—to leave her now. We close every door that was opened through violation, sin, or generational iniquity. No weapon formed against her shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against her in judgment, she shall condemn (Isaiah 54:17).
Lord, we pray for her mind to be renewed by Your truth (Romans 12:2). Replace the nightmares with visions of Your love and protection. Let her sleep be peaceful, guarded by Your angels. We rebuke the spirit of lust that tries to rise up within her or draw others to her. Her body is a temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19), and we declare that she walks in purity and victory. Father, surround her with Your hedge of protection. Let no strange man cross her path with impure intentions. If there are spiritual husbands or demonic entities assigned to her, we bind them in Jesus’ name and cast them into the abyss, never to return.
Lord, we also lift up her relationship. If it is Your will for them to be together, we pray for unity, patience, and godly communication. Remove every hindrance, every misunderstanding, and every attack of the enemy. Let their bond be strengthened in You, not in emotion or fleshly desires, but in a shared commitment to Your kingdom. If this relationship is not of You, reveal it clearly and give her the strength to walk away in obedience. Above all, let Your will be done.
Father, we thank You that she is more than a conqueror through Christ (Romans 8:37). Fill her with Your peace, Your joy, and Your Holy Spirit. Let her life be a testimony of Your deliverance and restoration. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen."*
Sister, we encourage you to continue walking in repentance, prayer, and the Word. Fast if the Lord leads you to, and surround yourself with mature believers who can pray with you and hold you accountable. Put on the full armor of God daily (Ephesians 6:10-18), and remember that *"the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world"* (1 John 4:4). The battles you face are real, but so is your victory in Christ.
If you have not already, we strongly recommend seeking biblical counseling from a trusted, spirit-filled pastor or counselor who can help you walk through healing from abuse and deliverance. You do not have to carry this alone. The body of Christ is here to support you.
Stand firm, dear sister. The Lord is your strength, your shield, and your deliverer. He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Keep your eyes on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). You *will* overcome.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
