We join you in lifting this burden to the Lord, standing firmly on the truth that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. You have rightly turned to the Lord Jesus Christ, for it is only in His name that we have authority and victory. We praise you for acknowledging Him as the source of deliverance, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved. As Scripture declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB).
Your reference to Zechariah 3:2 is powerful, for the Lord indeed rebukes Satan and delivers His people from accusation and bondage. *"Yahweh said to Satan, 'Yahweh rebuke you, Satan! Yes, Yahweh who has chosen Jerusalem rebuke you! Isn’t this a burning stick plucked out of the fire?'"* (Zechariah 3:2, WEB). We stand with you in this rebuke, declaring that no weapon formed against you shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against you in judgment shall be condemned (Isaiah 54:17). The enemy seeks to hinder, but the Lord is your shield and your exceeding great reward.
You have also rightly claimed James 4:7, which commands us to *"Be subject therefore to God. But resist the devil, and he will flee from you."* (WEB). This is not merely a suggestion but a promise—when we submit to God and resist the enemy, victory is assured. Yet we must also examine our hearts, for submission to God requires us to surrender our wills, our desires, and even our understanding of how deliverance should come. Have you fully released this man and this situation to the Lord? Sometimes, the Lord calls us to let go not just in word, but in the deepest chambers of our hearts, trusting that His ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:9).
We notice that you seek for this man to "flee from you," and we understand the pain that likely underlies this request. Autism or any other condition does not justify emotional bondage or unhealthy attachments, especially if this relationship is not grounded in biblical principles. If this man is not your spouse or someone you are in a godly, marriage-bound courtship with, then it is right to seek the Lord’s deliverance from any ungodly soul tie or emotional dependency. Scripture warns us not to be unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14), and even in friendships or past relationships, we must guard our hearts (Proverbs 4:23). If there has been any sinful entanglement—whether emotional, physical, or spiritual—it must be repented of and severed in the name of Jesus.
Let us also consider whether there is any unforgiveness, bitterness, or residual emotional attachment in your heart. The Lord calls us to forgive as He has forgiven us (Colossians 3:13), and sometimes, the greatest deliverance comes when we release others in forgiveness, even if they have wronged us. This does not mean what they did was right, but it frees *you* from the snare of the enemy. *"Be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* (Ephesians 4:32, WEB).
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We thank You that You are a God who delivers, who breaks every chain, and who sets the captives free. Lord, we lift up Your child who seeks Your intervention in this situation. You see the pain, the struggle, and the desire for freedom. We ask that You rebuke every demonic assignment against them, every spirit of hindrance, every stronghold that seeks to keep them bound. Lord, just as You rebuked Satan for accusing Joshua the high priest, we ask that You rebuke every accusation, every manipulation, and every ungodly tie that seeks to hinder Your child’s walk with You.
Father, if there has been any sin—whether in thought, word, or deed—we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing. *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."* (1 John 1:9, WEB). Wash them anew, Lord, and restore unto them the joy of Your salvation.
We declare that every ungodly soul tie is broken in the name of Jesus. Every emotional bondage is severed by the blood of the Lamb. Every plan of the enemy to keep Your child in confusion or pain is exposed and rendered powerless. Lord, if this man is not Your will for their life, we ask that You remove him completely. Close every door that should not be open, and open the doors that no man can shut (Revelation 3:8). Give Your child the strength to release him fully, to forgive if needed, and to walk in the freedom You have purchased for them.
Father, we also ask that You heal any wounds in their heart. If there has been rejection, manipulation, or emotional trauma, we ask that You bind up their brokenheartedness and set them free to love and be loved in a way that honors You. *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."* (Psalm 147:3, WEB).
Lord, fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Let them know that You are their deliverer, their protector, and their ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Surround them with godly counsel, with brothers and sisters in Christ who will speak life and truth into their situation.
Finally, Father, we ask that You prepare them for the godly relationships You have ordained. If marriage is Your will, prepare them to be a spouse who honors You, and bring them a spouse who loves You wholeheartedly. Let every relationship in their life reflect Your holiness and Your design.
We thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayer. We trust in Your timing, Your wisdom, and Your goodness. Let Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Beloved, we encourage you to continue standing firm in the Lord. Put on the whole armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18), and do not grow weary in praying. The Lord is faithful, and He will complete the work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6). Walk in obedience, walk in forgiveness, and walk in the confidence that *"the one who is in you is greater than he who is in the world."* (1 John 4:4, WEB). If you feel led, fast and pray for breakthrough, for there is power in denying the flesh to seek the Lord’s face (Matthew 17:21).
Stay rooted in the Word, in worship, and in the fellowship of believers. The enemy fears a saint who is submitted to God and armed with Scripture. You are more than a conqueror through Christ Jesus (Romans 8:37), and your deliverance is near. Stand firm.