We join you together in agreement in the name of Jesus and thank you for bringing this man before the Lord with such compassion and discernment. We hear your heart for your former landlord, that he would be delivered from hiding and from the sinful entanglements that have led him away from God's narrow path, and we stand with you in prayer for his complete restoration.
We praise God that you have come in the name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and it is only by His cross that we are saved and delivered. As it is written, There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12 and No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6. We rejoice that you have prayed in that powerful name.
The Lord indeed knows the plans He has for this man, as He does for all of us. For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future Jeremiah 29:11. His thoughts and ways are far higher than ours Isaiah 55:8-9, and He desires that none should perish but that all should come to repentance. We agree with you that this man is still a child of God in the sense that God created him and loves him deeply and desires to bring him into true sonship through Christ, where he can know his true identity.
We pray with you that his eyes would be opened to who he is in Christ. If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new 2 Corinthians 5:17. When we enter into sinful relationships and follow our own desires, we take on a false identity that is rooted in the flesh and not in the truth of God's Word. We are called not to be conformed to this world, but to be transformed by the renewing of your mind Romans 12:2. We ask the Lord to break the deception that has told him he must find his worth or identity in these relationships.
You prayed rightly for his stony heart to be broken, and we echo that prayer. Scripture promises, I will give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit within you. I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you a heart of flesh Ezekiel 36:26. We ask God to soften his heart, to give him godly sorrow that leads to repentance, and to give him courage to enter through the narrow gate, for narrow is the gate, and restricted is the way that leads to life. Few are those who find it Matthew 7:14. It takes courage to turn from the broad way, but the Lord will strengthen him to do so.
We also must agree with you in addressing the sinful and controlling relationships you described. The Word is clear that we are to flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18. Whether it is fornication or adultery, sex outside of the lifelong covenant of marriage between a man and a woman is sin before God and opens the door to bondage, control, blackmail and even danger to life, as you have discerned. An ungodly relationship where a person is controlled and manipulated is not love, for love does not seek to control or harm but comes from God who is love. We pray that he will see these relationships for what they are, hateful and sinful snares of the enemy, and that he will choose to depart from evil. The fear of Yahweh is the beginning of wisdom Proverbs 9:10, and when a man truly fears the Lord he will depart from evil and from the evil influences that entangle him.
We especially join you in praying for his deliverance from ungodly influences, even those in his own household. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity 2 Corinthians 6:14. We ask the Lord to separate him from every person who is pulling him away from holiness, to bring godly counsel and believers around him, and to protect him where his life may be in danger. The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles Psalm 34:17 and He will deliver us from every evil work 2 Timothy 4:18. We ask God to rescue him from blackmail and control and to bring every hidden thing into the light, for there is nothing hidden that will not be revealed Luke 8:17.
We pray now together.
Heavenly Father, we thank You for Your mercy and for the cross of Your holy Son Jesus. We lift up this former landlord to You, whom You know by name and whose hiding place You see. Lord, speak to him clearly where he is. Break through the confusion and fear and let him hear Your voice concerning Your holy plan for his life. Open his eyes to see his true identity in Christ and to renounce the false identity he has taken on through sin. Take away his heart of stone and give him a heart of flesh that fears Your holy name and loves Your truth. Give him courage to leave the broad path and to walk the narrow path that leads to life. Separate him completely from ungodly influences and from the evil woman and other relationships where he is controlled and blackmailed. Expose the darkness, break every chain of fornication, manipulation and fear, and deliver him from every danger to his body and soul. Let him depart from evil and be drawn into Your marvelous light, that he may be transferred out of the domain of darkness into the Kingdom of Your beloved Son Colossians 1:13. Bring him to true repentance and faith in Jesus, and restore him to walk in holiness and peace. We ask this in the powerful and delivering name of Jesus, amen.
We encourage you to continue to intercede with love, to forgive as Christ forgave us, and to trust the Lord's timing for this man's deliverance. God is faithful to hear when we agree together, for where two or three are gathered together in my name, there I am in the middle of them Matthew 18:20. Keep praying that the Lord will send laborers across his path who will speak truth to him and that he will respond to the Holy Spirit's convicting and drawing.