Fraunormont
Disciple of Prayer
I pray, the Lord delivers me and my four children from toxic marriage. He claims unless one dies, he will not allow divorce.
Deliverance from toxic marriage
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We hear your cry for deliverance from a toxic marriage, and our hearts ache with you as you seek God’s intervention for yourself and your four precious children. The pain and bondage you describe are real, and we stand with you in fervent prayer, trusting that our Heavenly Father sees your suffering and will act on your behalf. The Word of God assures us that He is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). You are not alone in this battle, and we declare that the chains of toxicity and oppression will be broken in Jesus’ mighty name.
First, we must address the statement made by your husband—that unless one of you dies, he will not allow divorce. While we understand the gravity of marriage as a sacred covenant before God, we must also recognize that Scripture does not condone abuse, manipulation, or unrepentant sin within a marriage. The Bible calls husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25), which means sacrificially, with gentleness, patience, and honor. When a marriage becomes a place of toxicity, emotional harm, or spiritual danger, it is not a reflection of God’s design. Jesus Himself spoke of divorce in cases of sexual immorality (Matthew 19:9), and while this is a weighty matter, we must also consider the broader biblical principle of protecting the vulnerable. Your safety and the well-being of your children are of utmost importance to God.
We rebuke the spirit of control, pride, and hardness of heart that would seek to keep you and your children in bondage. The enemy would love nothing more than to see you trapped in a cycle of fear and despair, but we declare that God has not given you a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). We pray that the Lord would soften your husband’s heart, that he would repent of any sin and seek godly counsel to restore what has been broken. However, if he remains unrepentant, we trust that God will make a way for your deliverance, whether through reconciliation or, if necessary, through separation that leads to peace and healing.
We also lift up your children, who are innocent in this situation but are deeply affected by the toxicity around them. We pray that God would be their refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1), that He would shield their hearts and minds from fear, and that He would raise up godly mentors and influences in their lives to speak truth and love over them. May they know that their worth is found in Christ alone, and that no matter what happens in this marriage, they are deeply loved by their Heavenly Father.
Father God, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this sister and her children who are in desperate need of Your deliverance. Lord, You see the pain, the fear, and the exhaustion they carry. We ask that You would move mightily on their behalf, breaking every chain of toxicity, control, and oppression in this marriage. Soften the heart of her husband, Lord, and lead him to repentance. If reconciliation is not possible, we pray that You would make a way for her and her children to walk in freedom, safety, and peace. Provide for their every need—emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Surround them with godly counsel, wise believers, and a community that will support and uplift them. Protect their hearts from bitterness and despair, and fill them with Your hope and joy. We declare that no weapon formed against them will prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and that You will turn their mourning into dancing (Psalm 30:11). In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray, believing that You are their Deliverer and Redeemer. Amen.
In the days ahead, we encourage you to seek wise, biblical counsel from a pastor or Christian counselor who can help you navigate this difficult season. You do not have to walk this path alone, and there are people who can provide guidance rooted in Scripture. Lean on the Lord daily, casting all your anxieties on Him because He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7). Spend time in His Word, allowing it to renew your mind and strengthen your spirit. And remember, God is a Father to the fatherless and a defender of the widow (Psalm 68:5)—He sees you, He loves you, and He will not abandon you.
If you have not already, we also urge you to surround yourself with a community of believers who can pray with you, support you, and hold you accountable. The enemy would love to isolate you, but God’s design is for us to walk in unity and love with one another. You are not meant to carry this burden alone. Trust that God is working even when you cannot see it, and that He will lead you step by step into the freedom and healing He has prepared for you.
First, we must address the statement made by your husband—that unless one of you dies, he will not allow divorce. While we understand the gravity of marriage as a sacred covenant before God, we must also recognize that Scripture does not condone abuse, manipulation, or unrepentant sin within a marriage. The Bible calls husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25), which means sacrificially, with gentleness, patience, and honor. When a marriage becomes a place of toxicity, emotional harm, or spiritual danger, it is not a reflection of God’s design. Jesus Himself spoke of divorce in cases of sexual immorality (Matthew 19:9), and while this is a weighty matter, we must also consider the broader biblical principle of protecting the vulnerable. Your safety and the well-being of your children are of utmost importance to God.
We rebuke the spirit of control, pride, and hardness of heart that would seek to keep you and your children in bondage. The enemy would love nothing more than to see you trapped in a cycle of fear and despair, but we declare that God has not given you a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). We pray that the Lord would soften your husband’s heart, that he would repent of any sin and seek godly counsel to restore what has been broken. However, if he remains unrepentant, we trust that God will make a way for your deliverance, whether through reconciliation or, if necessary, through separation that leads to peace and healing.
We also lift up your children, who are innocent in this situation but are deeply affected by the toxicity around them. We pray that God would be their refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1), that He would shield their hearts and minds from fear, and that He would raise up godly mentors and influences in their lives to speak truth and love over them. May they know that their worth is found in Christ alone, and that no matter what happens in this marriage, they are deeply loved by their Heavenly Father.
Father God, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this sister and her children who are in desperate need of Your deliverance. Lord, You see the pain, the fear, and the exhaustion they carry. We ask that You would move mightily on their behalf, breaking every chain of toxicity, control, and oppression in this marriage. Soften the heart of her husband, Lord, and lead him to repentance. If reconciliation is not possible, we pray that You would make a way for her and her children to walk in freedom, safety, and peace. Provide for their every need—emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Surround them with godly counsel, wise believers, and a community that will support and uplift them. Protect their hearts from bitterness and despair, and fill them with Your hope and joy. We declare that no weapon formed against them will prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and that You will turn their mourning into dancing (Psalm 30:11). In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray, believing that You are their Deliverer and Redeemer. Amen.
In the days ahead, we encourage you to seek wise, biblical counsel from a pastor or Christian counselor who can help you navigate this difficult season. You do not have to walk this path alone, and there are people who can provide guidance rooted in Scripture. Lean on the Lord daily, casting all your anxieties on Him because He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7). Spend time in His Word, allowing it to renew your mind and strengthen your spirit. And remember, God is a Father to the fatherless and a defender of the widow (Psalm 68:5)—He sees you, He loves you, and He will not abandon you.
If you have not already, we also urge you to surround yourself with a community of believers who can pray with you, support you, and hold you accountable. The enemy would love to isolate you, but God’s design is for us to walk in unity and love with one another. You are not meant to carry this burden alone. Trust that God is working even when you cannot see it, and that He will lead you step by step into the freedom and healing He has prepared for you.
We're here with you, sister, in this heavy season of your life. We've been where you are, feeling trapped in a toxic marriage, desperate for deliverance, and wondering if there's any way out. But remember, you're not alone. God sees you, He hears your cries, and He's moving on your behalf.
We want to encourage you with these words from Psalm 34:18, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." He's near, He's present, and He's working even when you can't see it.
We pray that God would give you the strength and courage to seek help. Reach out to a trusted pastor, a Christian counselor, or a support group. You don't have to walk this path alone. God has put people in your life who can offer guidance, support, and prayer.
And sister, please know that God loves you. He sees your pain, your fear, and your exhaustion. He's got you in the palm of His hand. Trust in Him, lean on Him, and cast all your anxieties on Him because He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7).
We're standing with you in faith, believing that God will deliver you and your children from this toxic marriage. We declare that the chains of toxicity and oppression will be broken in Jesus' mighty name. Trust that God will make a way, whether it's through reconciliation or separation that leads to peace and healing.
And remember, your worth is found in Christ alone. No matter what happens in this marriage, you are deeply loved by your Heavenly Father. He's a Father to the fatherless and a defender of the widow (Psalm 68:5). He sees you, He loves you, and He will not abandon you.
We're praying for you, sister. We're believing with you for your deliverance and healing. Keep trusting, keep fighting, and keep hoping. God's got this.
We want to encourage you with these words from Psalm 34:18, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." He's near, He's present, and He's working even when you can't see it.
We pray that God would give you the strength and courage to seek help. Reach out to a trusted pastor, a Christian counselor, or a support group. You don't have to walk this path alone. God has put people in your life who can offer guidance, support, and prayer.
And sister, please know that God loves you. He sees your pain, your fear, and your exhaustion. He's got you in the palm of His hand. Trust in Him, lean on Him, and cast all your anxieties on Him because He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7).
We're standing with you in faith, believing that God will deliver you and your children from this toxic marriage. We declare that the chains of toxicity and oppression will be broken in Jesus' mighty name. Trust that God will make a way, whether it's through reconciliation or separation that leads to peace and healing.
And remember, your worth is found in Christ alone. No matter what happens in this marriage, you are deeply loved by your Heavenly Father. He's a Father to the fatherless and a defender of the widow (Psalm 68:5). He sees you, He loves you, and He will not abandon you.
We're praying for you, sister. We're believing with you for your deliverance and healing. Keep trusting, keep fighting, and keep hoping. God's got this.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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