We come before the Lord with you in this time of deep spiritual distress, lifting your heartache and struggles to the One who has power over every darkness. The torment you describe—a "spiritual husband," broken relationships, and instability—points to a battle that is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces of wickedness (Ephesians 6:12). We stand firm in the authority of Jesus Christ, who has already triumphed over every evil power through His death and resurrection (Colossians 2:15).
First, we must address the foundation of your deliverance: your relationship with Jesus Christ. You did not mention His name in your request, and we want to gently but urgently remind you that there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved or find true freedom (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we implore you to do so now. Confess your sins, turn away from them, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead (Romans 10:9-10). Without Christ, there is no lasting victory over spiritual oppression. If you *have* trusted in Him, then we encourage you to stand boldly in that identity, for "greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world" (1 John 4:4).
The concept of a "spiritual husband" is often tied to occult practices, ungodly soul ties, or generational curses. The Bible warns against yoking ourselves with unbelievers or engaging in practices that open doors to demonic influence (2 Corinthians 6:14-15, Deuteronomy 18:10-12). If you have been involved in anything that conflicts with God’s Word—whether through past relationships, occult activities, or ungodly agreements—we urge you to repent and renounce these things in Jesus’ name. Break every unholy soul tie by the power of the Holy Spirit, declaring that your body is a temple of God and no longer subject to the enemy’s claims (1 Corinthians 6:19-20).
Regarding the man who promised to marry you but left, we grieve with you over this betrayal. However, we must speak truth in love: if this relationship was outside of God’s will—perhaps because he was not a believer or because the relationship was built on unstable foundations—then his departure, though painful, may be God’s protection. The Bible commands believers not to be unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14), and a marriage built on anything less than a shared faith in Christ is destined for struggle. We pray that God would heal your heart and redirect your desire toward a *godly* spouse—a man who fears the Lord, walks in integrity, and is committed to biblical marriage. Until then, we encourage you to seek the Lord first, trusting that He will provide all things in His perfect timing (Matthew 6:33).
Your struggle with employment is also a burden we bring before the Lord. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but Jesus came to give life abundantly. We rebuke the spirit of instability and lack in your life, declaring that God is your Provider (Philippians 4:19). We pray that He would open doors no man can shut (Revelation 3:8) and give you favor in the workplace. But we also encourage you to examine your heart: are there areas of unforgiveness, bitterness, or fear that may be hindering God’s blessing? Search your heart and ask the Holy Spirit to reveal anything that needs to be surrendered to Him.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Your daughter who is bound by spiritual oppression. Lord, we thank You that You are a God of deliverance, that You break every chain and set the captives free (Isaiah 61:1). We plead the blood of Jesus over her life, her mind, her body, and her spirit, declaring that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17).
We bind and rebuke every demonic spirit assigned to torment her—whether a "spiritual husband," spirits of rejection, fear, poverty, or confusion. We command these spirits to leave her now in the name of Jesus Christ, never to return. We break every ungodly soul tie, every curse, every generational stronghold, and every agreement made with the enemy, whether knowingly or unknowingly. We declare that she is washed clean by the blood of the Lamb and is no longer subject to the enemy’s schemes.
Father, we ask for healing over her broken heart. Comfort her as only You can, and restore her hope in You alone. Remove every trace of bitterness, resentment, or despair, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). If she has been seeking fulfillment in relationships outside of Your will, convict her heart and lead her to repentance. Give her the strength to wait on You for a godly husband, one who will love her as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25).
Lord, we pray for divine provision in her life. Open doors of employment that align with Your purpose for her. Break the spirit of lack and instability, and release Your favor and abundance into her life. Help her to trust in You as her Provider, knowing that You will never leave her nor forsake her (Hebrews 13:5).
Finally, Father, we ask that You would fill her with the Holy Spirit, that she may walk in victory, discernment, and wisdom. Clothe her with the full armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18) so that she may stand firm against every scheme of the enemy. Let her life be a testimony of Your power and goodness.
We declare all these things in the mighty, matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Beloved, we urge you to immerse yourself in the Word of God daily. Read Psalm 91, Ephesians 6, and James 4:7, which remind us to submit to God and resist the devil. Surround yourself with a community of believers who can pray with you and hold you accountable. If you do not have a church home, we strongly encourage you to find a Bible-believing church where you can grow in faith and be supported.
Stand firm in Christ. Your deliverance is near, and your victory is sure. The Lord is fighting for you—trust in Him (Exodus 14:14).