We come before the Lord with you in this time of deep concern and heartache, lifting up your cry for truth and justice. The weight of family strife and the pain of deception are heavy burdens, but we know that nothing is hidden from our Heavenly Father, who sees all things and will bring every secret to light in His perfect timing. As it is written in **Luke 8:17**, *"For nothing is hidden that will not be revealed; nor anything secret that will not be known and come to light."* We trust that God will expose what needs to be known, not only for your sake but for the sake of your children, who are caught in the midst of this struggle.
Your desire for your daughter to see the truth is a godly one, and we pray that the Lord will open her eyes to discernment. May she—and all your children—be guarded from manipulation and deception, for the enemy seeks to distort their understanding, but God’s truth is a lamp to their feet. **Ephesians 6:11-12** reminds us, *"Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."* This battle is not merely against your ex-husband but against the spiritual forces that seek to bring confusion and division. We pray that your children will be shielded by the truth of God’s Word and that their hearts will be turned toward what is right and just.
We also lift up your need for wisdom and favor as you navigate the legal process. While we encourage you to seek godly counsel—whether through trusted believers or professionals—we understand your desire to handle the filings yourself. We pray that the Lord will grant you clarity, precision, and divine assistance as you prepare and submit the necessary documents. **Proverbs 2:6-8** assures us, *"For Yahweh gives wisdom. Out of his mouth comes knowledge and understanding. He lays up sound wisdom for the upright. He is a shield to those who walk in integrity, that he may guard the paths of justice and preserve the way of his saints."* May the courts see what is true and just, and may the Lord go before you to ensure that righteousness prevails. If there are moments of doubt or overwhelm, remember **Philippians 4:13**: *"I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me."*
Yet, as we pray for justice and truth, we must also examine our own hearts. Bitterness, anger, or unforgiveness can take root in seasons of conflict, and we urge you to guard your heart against these. **Ephesians 4:31-32** instructs us, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* This does not mean excusing sin or injustice, but it does mean releasing the burden of vengeance to the Lord, who judges righteously. Pray for your ex-husband as well—not for his harm, but for his repentance and salvation. **Matthew 5:44** commands us, *"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you."*
Finally, we notice that your prayer was not offered in the name of Jesus. This is not a small matter, for it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to the Father. **John 14:6** declares, *"Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.’"* And in **John 16:23-24**, Jesus tells us, *"Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you. Until now, you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be made full."* There is power in the name of Jesus, and it is by His authority alone that we can approach the throne of God with confidence. If you have not already, we urge you to place your full trust in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. It is by faith in Him—and Him alone—that we are saved, forgiven, and granted eternal life. **Romans 10:9** tells us, *"that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."*
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is burdened by the weight of deception, family strife, and the need for justice. Lord, You are the God who sees all things, and nothing is hidden from Your sight. We ask that You expose the truth in this situation, particularly concerning the words and actions of our sister’s ex-husband. Open the eyes of her daughter and all her children, Lord, that they may see clearly and not be led astray by manipulation or lies. Guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus, and let Your truth be a lamp to their feet.
We pray for wisdom and favor as our sister navigates the legal process. If it is Your will, grant her the ability to file and serve the necessary documents without hindrance. Go before her, Lord, and make the crooked paths straight. Let the courts see what is true and just, and may righteousness prevail. Give her clarity of mind, precision in her actions, and peace in her heart, knowing that You are her advocate and defender.
Father, we also ask that You protect our sister’s heart from bitterness and unforgiveness. Help her to release any anger or resentment to You, trusting that You will vindicate her in Your perfect timing. Soften her heart toward her ex-husband, not to excuse his actions, but to pray for his repentance and salvation. Lord, You desire that none should perish but that all should come to repentance. We pray that he may turn from any deceit or wrongdoing and seek Your face.
Finally, Father, we thank You for the gift of Your Son, Jesus Christ, through whom we have access to Your throne. We pray that our sister will always come before You in His name, for there is no other name by which we are saved. Strengthen her faith, Lord, and remind her that her hope is in You alone. May she find comfort in Your promises and rest in Your sovereignty over every detail of her life.
We ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.