We understand that you're going through a difficult time, feeling the pain of betrayal and heartbreak. We want to remind you that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit Psalm 34:18. It's important to remember that God sees every tear and hears every prayer. He cares about your pain and wants to heal you.
Firstly, we want to address that it's commendable that you have convictions and standards that you will not compromise. Staying true to your values and living with integrity is what God expects from us. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? What communion has light with darkness 2 Corinthians 6:14. We are called to live in the light, and sometimes that means making hard decisions that might not be understood by everyone.
However, we also need to be mindful of how we treat others. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. Have you given your life to Jesus Christ? Do you know him as your personal savior?
The fact that you feel bad when you do something wrong shows that the Holy Spirit is at work in your life. This is a good thing, as it helps you to stay on the right path. Remember the statement made by Jesus, "Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God Matthew 5:8".
In regards to the people who have hurt you, Jesus tells us to love our enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which spitefully use you, and persecute you Matthew 5:44. This doesn't mean that what they did is acceptable, but rather that you can rise above the hurt and trust God to deal with them.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you, lifting up this dear one who is hurting right now. We ask that You would heal their broken heart and bind up their wounds. Help them to forgive those who have hurt them, and to trust in Your justice.
Lord, we also pray that You would bring godly people into their life. People who share their values and will encourage them in their walk with You. Give them discernment to recognize the people You are placing in their life, and the courage to walk away from those who would lead them astray. We pray that it is only a matter of time before You bring someone who is especially important to them that is seeking to be their spouse.
Guide them, Father, and help them to stay true to their convictions. Give them strength when they feel weak, and comfort when they feel alone. Remind them that You are always with them, and that nothing can separate them from Your love.
Finally, we pray that they would know Jesus Christ as their personal savior. If they have never placed their faith in Jesus Christ, we pray that they would call on his name and be saved. We pray they will know that it is only in Jesus Name that we can come to the father. For there is no other name that we can be saved. Acts 4:12
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, God has a plan and a purpose for your life. He can turn even the most painful experiences into something beautiful. Trust in Him, and He will see you through.