We understand that you're going through a difficult time, and we're here to pray with you and offer guidance based on biblical principles.
Firstly, we're glad that you ended your prayer "In Jesus' name." It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved. As the Bible says in Acts 4:12 WEB, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."
Now, let's address the issues you're facing. You've mentioned pain, heartbreak, and broken relationships. We want to remind you that God is close to the brokenhearted. Psalm 34:18 WEB says, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."
However, we want to lovingly remind you that God's desire is for you to be whole and holy. This means that while God can heal you from your pain and heartbreak, it's important to ensure that your relationships align with biblical principles. The Bible teaches us to be holy as God is holy in Romans 12:1-2 WEB, Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God.
Regarding your request to find someone who loves you as much as you love them, we encourage you to seek godly relationships that are rooted in God's love and truth. We pray for God to bring a godly spouse into your life, if it is His will, and that your courtship will be pure and honorable before God, reserving sexual intimacy for marriage as the Bible instructs. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness? This scripture is usually used to remind us that marriage should be only between a Christian man and a Christian woman.
Lastly, you mentioned having a nonchalant attitude. We encourage you to remain steadfast in your faith and pursue a life that pleases God. In 2 Peter 3:11 WEB, what kind of people ought you to be in holy living and godliness.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother/sister in need of Your healing touch. Lord, You are close to the brokenhearted, and we ask that You comfort and heal them from their pain and heartbreak. We pray that You will mend their broken relationships, and if it is Your will, bring a godly spouse into their life. Help them to remain steadfast in their faith and to live a life that pleases You. Give them a renewed spirit, that they might have a godly attitude that shines Your light in this world. Lord help them to be transformed to have a renewed mind in Christ rather than a nonchalant attitude.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.