Day 25

Good evening


Hi all I am doing a second one today to catch up and because there is something on my heart I would like to share. If I come across as judgmental I don’t mean to so please forgive me in advance. J

I have noticed a lot of us saying well the OP id being deceived by the devil, or our spouse is a liar etc. I don’t know how to say this correctly, but how do we know. We are casting judgment on their actions and thoughts. We all know that God can harden hearts to achieve a purpose etc. He did so with pharaoh.

We need to stop judging our spouse and the op. We need to stop holding them up to our standards and trying to control their actions. We just need to pray for them and if you don’t know how to pray for them let the Holy Spirit do it for you.

I am to the point that I don’t know how to pray for my spouse. Or how to pray for the OW in my situation or my son. I just tell God you know my heart please pray for me. We need to speak blessings over them not judge or criticize their actions no matter how hard. If you need to vent that is ok. That is getting it out, but when you vent just describe the action or events that happened, don’t add well they are being deceived, they are under Satan’s control etc. We know some of their actions may be but we need to stop dwelling on that part and dwell on ourselves. We are standing for our marriages and the salvation of everyone involved, so let’s speak life into all situations.

There is power in words and thoughts. The bible says everything we say should be to edify and to build up one another this includes our spouse and the other person.

I notice that when someone posts something about the OP others are quick to jump in and say well the nerve, or if it was me, or how dare they, etc. Why do we always assume the worst of that person in every situation? You are probably going to say because I know them, well do you really. I honestly don’t think the OW in my situation thinks of herself as a bad person etc. She probably feels justified in her actions because of what H has told her or other people etc. And I don’t think of my h as a bad person. He has made some bad decision and hurt me and will probably do so again but even if we were together he would hurt me unintentionally.

Let us stop thinking the worst of everyone and think well instead. As long as the first thing that comes to our mind where the op is concerned is not good thoughts then we haven’t released them to God yet, after all they are his children as well and I don’t think he appreciates us always looking for reasons to bring them down or us delighting in their pain.
Just a thought that came to mind.
Have a great night.
Anthonette.

List of names and marriages

1. Joe and Cindy Frank
   
2. Tina and Michael Nadama
   
3. Karen and Tim Davis
   
4. Anthonette And Rudolph Simons and Family
   
5. Kevin and Nancy Owens
   
6. Marriage Covenant Ministries
   
7. Wobanda Felly
   
8. Gary Mayfeild
   
9. Lori And Darryl Vartabedian
   
10. Debroah and Sonny Woods
    
11. Judy Hite
    
12. Richard Willis
    
13. Shawn and Kristen Drennen
    
14. Kim61
    
15. Shanita and DaMon Johnson
    
16. Neta and Chris
    
17. Paula and Allen
    
18. Mandy and Rodrigo Shumacker
    
19. Heather Lueth
    
20. Scott and Crystal
    
21. B.J. and Threasa Scroggins and Family
    
22. Nina and Dennis
    
23. Dilawn and Ryan
    
24. Chandra and Greg
    
25. Adam and Sabrina Lawson
    
26. Karen Savoie
    
27. Beverly Lagana
    
28. Sallie and Andre Clement
    
29. Lisa Dabe
    
30. Wes and Jodi Bailes
    
31. Farah Meza Lopez and Henry Brekvoort
    
32. Carmen and Erin
    
33. Carly and Crystal
    
34. Gina and Ade Olawale
    
35. Diana and Juan Pablo
    
36. Leslee and John Rossotto
    
37. Nick and Sarah McNeill
    
38. Brad and Rosemary Salisnury
    
39. Eric and Crystal Meehan
    
40. Neil and Nancy Quinn
    
41. Stephen and Noelle Mounce
    
42. Barta and Billy Kemp
    
43. Solon and Leah Philips
    
44. Lichelle Whittaker
    
45. Arcy Espana
    
46. Katy and Erine Macias
    
47. Karen and Andre Marias
    
48. Susan and Rob
    
49. Luis and Mattie Bediako
    
50. Scott and Heather Ellis
    
51. Lourdres and Tommy Moore
    
52. Mark and Geeta Arathoon
    
53. Ugo and Tope Osuya
    
54. Tim and Jennie Packard
    
55. Janet and Rodney Whitmore
    
56. Scott and Delores Hanks
    
57. Diana Moreno
    
58. Sheila and Jose Reveron
    
59. shadowofleaves
    
60. AHEMED AND Charmaine Bouchouka
    
61. Kevin and Michelle
    
62. Freddrick and Angela Young Jordan
    
63. Jade and Willie Cordova
    
64. Jessica and Ronald Ndoro
    
65. Pam and Richard Thompson
    
66. Ernest and Nichole Herrere, and children Josiah, Selah, Eliannah, Jude
    
67. David and Elizabeth Barrios
    
68. Krystal and Ervin Arroyo
    
69. Bwire Anne Wanjiku and Chrispinus Bwire
    
70. Chily and Ana Maria Alviar
    
71. Torrey and Stephanie Harrison
    
72. Stephen & Noelle Mounce
    
73. Jack and Kimie Michele Beeching
    
74. Mike and Missy
    
75. Mike and Tami Crites
    
76. Lela and Jeremy
    
77. Ty and Talitha Brittain
    
78. Ben and Lisa Marie
    
79. Benjamin and Lisa Marie Loya
    
80. Torrey and Stephanie Harrison
    
81. Jamie Keeney
    
82. Mark and Jennifer
    
83. Clayton and Elvira Sneed
    
84. Valerie and Ayodeji
    
85. Laquonda Esther Morris and spouse
    
86. Ryan And Misty Phipps
    
87. Timothy and Paula Birmingham
    
88. Shane and Rebecca Bunch
    
89. Paul and Maria
    
90. Mike and Fab
    
91. John and Karen
    
92. Pastor Rob plus his estranged (but not for long) wife
    
93. Jillian and Mike
    
94. Norma And Frank Miller
    
95. Jim & Becci Berry
    
96. Sean and Samantha Archer and family
    
97. Janae Hall and family
    
98. Michael and Candace Felt
    
99. Letichia Christopher and family
    
100. Tim & Chris
     
101. Patricia and Bruce
     
102. Katie and Charlie
     
103. Jamie Richards and her husband
     
104. Jessi and Anthony

Father God help us not to pass judgment on others . In Jesus name Amen.