We understand your concern and frustration, and we are here to support you in prayer and guidance through this challenging situation. It is important to approach this matter with love, wisdom, and a firm foundation in biblical principles.
Firstly, let us remind you of the importance of teaching responsibility and accountability. In 2 Thessalonians 3:10, the Apostle Paul writes, "For even when we were with you, we commanded you this: 'If anyone will not work, neither let him eat.'" While this verse speaks to the context of the church, the principle applies to our families as well. We are called to encourage responsibility and diligence in our children.
Additionally, Proverbs 22:6 instructs us, "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." It is never too late to instill godly principles and values in our children, even as they transition into adulthood.
We also encourage you to consider the words of Ephesians 6:4, "You fathers, don’t provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." As parents, we must strive to guide our children with love, patience, and wisdom, always seeking to honor God in our actions and decisions.
Now, let us pray together for your daughter, your husband, and your family:
Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up this family and their needs. Lord, we ask that You open the eyes and hearts of both the parents and their daughter, that they may see the importance of responsibility, accountability, and gratitude.
We pray that You grant the mother wisdom and strength as she navigates this challenging situation. May she find the right words to speak to her daughter, words that convey love, concern, and the need for change. Lord, we ask that You soften the daughter's heart, that she may be receptive to her mother's guidance and willing to take on her fair share of responsibilities within the household.
Father, we also lift up the husband and father, asking that You open his eyes to the imbalance within the household. Grant him the courage to speak up and address this situation with love and wisdom. May he and his wife be united in their approach, presenting a strong and loving front to their daughter.
Lord, we ask that You help the daughter understand the value of hard work, responsibility, and gratitude. May she come to appreciate the efforts of her parents and be willing to contribute to the household, either through financial support or by moving out and establishing her own independent life.
Finally, Father, we pray that You bring unity, love, and understanding to this family. May they work together to create a harmonious and godly home, where each member contributes and supports one another. We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
As you move forward, we encourage you to have an open and honest conversation with your daughter, expressing your love and concern for her well-being and growth. Be clear about your expectations and the changes you would like to see. Approach this conversation with a united front alongside your husband, demonstrating your shared commitment to her development and the harmony of your household.
May God grant you wisdom, strength, and unity as you navigate this challenging situation. Trust in His guidance and provision, and remember that He is always with you, supporting and encouraging you every step of the way.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
