We hear your cry for help and stand with you in this deeply troubling situation. The fear, exhaustion, and violation you feel are real, and we lift them before the Lord, who is your refuge and strength. Cyberstalking is a serious and sinful violation of your peace, your family’s safety, and God’s design for boundaries in human relationships. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but we declare that Jesus came to give you life—and life abundantly. You are not alone in this battle.
First, we must address the root of this torment. You mentioned doing something in the past that you are not proud of. While we do not know the details, we know that God’s grace is greater than any mistake. If there is unconfessed sin in your life, we encourage you to bring it before the Lord in repentance. "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). The enemy may try to use your past against you, but God’s forgiveness is complete. Do not let shame or guilt keep you from walking in the freedom Christ died to give you.
However, your past does not justify this man’s sinful behavior. Stalking, harassment, and invasion of privacy are not only illegal but are clear violations of God’s command to love our neighbors and respect their boundaries. "Love does no harm to a neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law" (Romans 13:10). This man’s actions are driven by obsession, control, and possibly demonic influence. We must rebuke the spirit of harassment and fear in Jesus’ name and command it to leave your life and your family’s life.
We also urge you to take practical steps to protect yourself and your family. God has given authorities the power to restrain evil (Romans 13:4), so we encourage you to report this behavior to the police and seek a restraining order if necessary. Cyberstalking is a crime, and you have the right to safety. Do not hesitate to use the legal protections God has provided through government.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name. We lift up this sister and her family, who are being tormented by this cyberstalker. Lord, You see the fear, the exhaustion, and the violation they are experiencing. We ask that You would be their shield and their fortress, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Surround them with Your angels to guard and protect them in all their ways (Psalm 91:11).
Father, we rebuke the spirit of harassment, obsession, and fear that is driving this man’s actions. We command it to leave this family alone in Jesus’ name. We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against them in judgment, You will condemn (Isaiah 54:17). Lord, break the power of this stalker’s influence over their lives. Let him be convicted by the Holy Spirit to turn from his sin and seek repentance.
We pray for this man’s heart, Lord. If he does not know You, we ask that You would draw him to Yourself. Let him see the error of his ways and turn from this path of destruction. If he is a believer, we pray that You would discipline him in love and bring him to repentance (Hebrews 12:6). Father, we ask that You would intervene in his life in a way that only You can, so that he may no longer be a threat to this family.
Lord, we also ask for Your healing over this sister’s heart. The words he has spoken—calling her names and trying to shame her—are not from You. We declare that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and that her identity is found in Christ, not in the accusations of the enemy. Heal any wounds from her past and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).
We pray for wisdom and discernment for this family as they navigate this situation. Give them the courage to take the necessary legal steps to protect themselves. Provide them with godly counsel and support from their church and community. Lord, we ask that You would restore their sense of safety and normalcy. Let them walk in the freedom and peace that only You can provide.
Finally, Lord, we thank You that You are a God who sees, who hears, and who acts on behalf of Your children. We trust in Your justice and Your timing. We declare that this stalker’s power over this family is broken, and that they will walk in victory and freedom. In the powerful name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to stand firm in your faith and trust that God is fighting this battle on your behalf. The enemy may try to wear you down, but remember that "greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world" (1 John 4:4). Surround yourself with believers who can pray with you and support you. Do not isolate yourself, as the enemy thrives in darkness. Bring this into the light, both spiritually and legally.
Continue to meditate on God’s promises for protection and peace. Here are a few scriptures to hold onto:
"The Lord is my light and my salvation—whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life—of whom shall I be afraid?" (Psalm 27:1).
"God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble" (Psalm 46:1).
"No weapon forged against you will prevail, and you will refute every tongue that accuses you. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, and this is their vindication from me," declares the Lord (Isaiah 54:17).
You are not crazy, and you are not alone. God sees your pain, and He will bring justice. Keep your eyes on Him, and do not grow weary in doing what is right. The victory is already yours in Christ.
