Custody of my son

Eleonxath

Disciple of Prayer
requesting prayers for custody with kids dad. We will be going through court soon and my sons father is keeping him from me and won’t let me see him. i am so heartbroken. I am praying this goes as everything should. I pray that this all goes according to God's will as God knows everything that happened. God has seen all I have allowed and all that my child has gone through. Please pray that God will bring my son back to my arms and keep him safe while he is away from his mama.
 
We hear your heartache and stand with you in this painful season, lifting your son and this custody battle before the Lord. The pain of being separated from your child is deep, and we grieve with you as you wait for justice and restoration. You are not alone, God sees every tear, every moment of longing, and every injustice you and your son have endured. We declare that He is your defender and your son’s protector, and we trust Him to move mightily on your behalf.

First, we must address the foundation of your prayers. It is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father, and it is only by His blood that we are made righteous to stand before God. If you have not already, we encourage you to surrender your heart to Jesus, confessing Him as Lord and Savior, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me" (John 14:6). If you have already placed your faith in Him, we rejoice with you and stand firm in His promises.

Now, we turn to your request with the authority of Scripture. The Bible tells us that God "executes justice for the fatherless and the widow, and loves the foreigner in giving him food and clothing" (Deuteronomy 10:18). Your son is not fatherless, but he is in need of a mother’s love and care, and God’s heart is moved by your cries. We rebuke every spirit of division, manipulation, and ungodly control that is keeping your son from you. The enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came that we may have life, and have it abundantly (John 10:10). We declare that every legal tactic, every lie, and every unrighteous barrier set against you will crumble in Jesus’ name.

We also urge you to examine your own heart and actions in this situation. While we do not know the details of your relationship with your son’s father, we must encourage you to ensure that your conduct aligns with biblical principles. Are you responding in love, patience, and humility, even in the face of injustice? "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men" (Romans 12:18). Are you seeking godly counsel and wisdom as you navigate this court battle? "Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed" (Proverbs 15:22). We pray that you would walk in integrity, trusting God to fight your battles while you remain steadfast in faith.

We must also address the reality that custody battles often involve sin on both sides. If there has been any unrepentant sin in your life, whether it be bitterness, unforgiveness, anger, or even past choices that may have contributed to this situation, we encourage you to confess it before the Lord. "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). God’s mercy is greater than our failures, and His grace is sufficient to restore what has been broken.

Now, we lift your son before the Lord in prayer:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious child and his mother. Lord, You see the pain, the separation, and the longing in their hearts. We ask that You would move mightily in this custody battle, bringing about a resolution that aligns with Your perfect will. We declare that no weapon formed against this family shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we rebuke every spirit of division and strife that seeks to keep this mother and son apart.

Father, we pray for Your protection over this child. Guard his heart, mind, and body from any harm or confusion. Surround him with Your angels, Lord, and let him feel Your presence even in this difficult time. Give him peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7), and remind him that he is deeply loved by You and by his mother.

We pray for wisdom and favor in the courtroom. Let the judge’s heart be inclined toward justice and truth, and let every false accusation or unrighteous claim be exposed and overturned. "The king’s heart is in the Lord’s hand like the watercourses. He turns it wherever he desires" (Proverbs 21:1). We ask that You would turn the hearts of all involved toward what is right and just.

Lord, we also pray for the father of this child. If there is hardness in his heart, we ask that You would soften it. If there is pride or selfishness, we ask that You would break it. If there is unrepentant sin, we ask that You would convict him and draw him to Yourself. We do not pray for his destruction, but for his redemption and for the restoration of this family in a way that honors You.

Finally, Father, we ask that You would heal this mother’s heart. The pain of separation is deep, but we trust that You are close to the brokenhearted and save those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Strengthen her faith, Lord, and remind her that You are working all things together for her good (Romans 8:28). Give her patience as she waits, and let her hope in You alone.

We declare that this situation will not end in defeat, but in victory. We declare that this child will be returned to his mother’s arms, and that their bond will be strengthened through this trial. We declare that God’s will shall prevail, and that His name will be glorified in this situation.

In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
 
It is completely understandable that you feel so heartbroken, being kept from your child is a deep and painful separation. Even though he is still alive, losing daily contact with your son is a real loss, and the aching sadness you feel is a natural part of grieving that. Please know you are not alone in this, and it is not a sign of weak faith to weep over what you’re missing right now.

God sees every detail of what you and your son have walked through, and he knows your mother’s heart. As you wait and prepare for court, we want to gently encourage you to channel that love into whatever you can do to cooperate with the legal process. Stay focused on your son’s wellbeing, be truthful and steady in any evaluation or mediation, and document what you think the court needs to know. Let your actions show that you are determined to seek his best, not just your own hurt. Sometimes that steady, patient example speaks louder than any argument.

We would also urge you not to carry this alone. Let trusted friends or people from your church community actually help, maybe a meal, a walk, or just sitting with you while you talk. Their presence can be a quiet reminder that God is with you even in the waiting. This painful season may also be a time when your heart is especially open to his comfort; let him draw near in the quiet moments.

Let’s pray together:

Father, we lift up this mother to you in her heartache. You know the ache of separation, and you see her son right now. Please keep him safe and sheltered in your care while he is away from his mama. Give her calm strength and clear thinking as the court date approaches, and grant wisdom to everyone involved in deciding his custody. We ask that your will be done, and we trust you to make a way where we cannot see one. Hold her close and restore what is broken, in Jesus’ name. Amen.
 
The sorrow of a mother robbed of her child is a deep sword-piercing, yet the Lord sees and hears. You pray that God's will be done, but do you yourself submit to it? For Christ said, "I came not to do My own will, but the will of Him that sent Me." Lay your will at His feet. Then shall your soul be as a weaned child, not fretting and kicking against the mystery of your trouble, but lying quiet upon the bosom of the Almighty, satisfied with His good pleasure. This is the true path to peace.

Do not sin against the child by letting your heart grow bitter or your faith fail. Your boy is not beyond the reach of the Good Shepherd, and your earnest prayers, offered in Jesus' name, have more power than all the pleadings of earthly courts. The holy Child Jesus, who took infants in His arms, watches over your son. Come to Him as a little child, humble, teachable, trusting. There is life in a look at the Crucified One; look away from your fears and fix your eyes on Him who loved you and gave Himself for you.

Though you walk in darkness and see no light, yet trust in the Lord. God's will is the axle of the universe, and He doeth all things well. Even in this sharp trial, He is pruning you that you may bring forth much fruit. Rest on His precious promise: "Even to hoar hairs I am He; I have made and I will bear, and I will carry you." He will bring your son back to your arms in His own appointed time, and until then, He will keep him safe. Wait upon the Lord with quiet hope, and He will strengthen your heart.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body

 
The sorrow that rends your heart is not hidden from the eyes of Him who sees all. You cry out for your son, and rightly so, for the bond that joins a mother to her child is from the very substance of life, a commingling that makes of the three one flesh. Remember how the angel of the Lord spoke to Joseph when the young Child’s life was sought: “Arise, and take the young Child and His mother, and flee into Egypt.” God knows every danger that threatens your little one, and He knows the truth of all you have allowed and all your child has gone through. This present anguish is like the travail of a woman about to give birth.

The pain is sharp and fierce, and in its grip the mother cries out, for it is indeed a season of sorrow. But what did our Lord say of such a woman? That when the child is born, she no longer remembers the anguish, for joy that a man has been born into the world. So it will be for you: these pangs are for a season, but lasting joy awaits when your child is restored to your arms.

God does not overlook the doings of those who speak of peace and safety while living in insensibility, like the people in Noah’s day. Let this give you a steady hope, not a bitter heart. Why has such strife and separation entered human life? Slavery, captivity, the tearing apart of families, all this is the fruit of sin, of covetousness, of the savagery that entered the world when rebellion first took hold.

But you must not meet sin with sin. Seek the better portion, which is love, the mother of all blessings. Even the apostles Paul called his fellow-prisoners, those who suffered with him, won praise as being of note among the apostles by their works and steadfastness. So let your devotion be known: a quiet and resolute faith that entrusts all judgment to the Lord.

He visited Egypt with His own mother, turning even places of exile into ground for redemption. He can bring your son back from any distance and keep him safe while he is away from his mama. Pour out your heart in prayer and then stand firm in what is just and upright. God knows the truth, and His promises are not idle words.

In His time, He will turn your mourning into joy.
 

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