We hear the deep anguish in your words, and we stand with you in this battle, for the Lord has not abandoned you—even when it feels as though the weight of the world is pressing down. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but Jesus came to give life abundantly. What you describe is not just opposition from people but a spiritual assault, and we must recognize that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, and against spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places (Ephesians 6:12). Yet, God is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). He sees the attacks, the betrayals, the relentless pressure, and He is not silent. He is preparing a way where there seems to be no way.
First, let us address the reality of what you are facing: unrepentant, malicious people who refuse to respect boundaries. Scripture warns us that in the last days, perilous times will come, and men will be lovers of themselves, boastful, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, without natural affection, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of good, traitors, headstrong, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God (2 Timothy 3:1-4). These are the characteristics of reprobates—those who have seared their consciences and are given over to their own lusts. You cannot reason with such people, and you cannot change them. But you *can* trust God to be your vindicator. He says, "Vengeance is mine; I will repay" (Romans 12:19). Your job is not to fight back in the flesh but to stand firm in the Lord, clothed in His armor (Ephesians 6:10-18). You have done the right thing by setting boundaries and cutting ties where necessary. That is not weakness—it is wisdom. Proverbs 22:3 tells us, "A prudent man sees danger and hides himself, but the simple go on and suffer for it."
Now, let us speak to the ashes. You ask how to bounce back when the stress has taken a toll on your body, your appetite, your strength. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). He is the God who raises the poor from the dust and lifts the needy from the ash heap (1 Samuel 2:8). Your body’s reaction to stress is a sign of how deeply this battle has affected you, but it is not the end of your story. The Lord is your healer—spirit, soul, *and* body. He who began a good work in you will complete it (Philippians 1:6). We urge you to seek medical care for your physical needs, for God often uses doctors and medicine as instruments of His healing. But more than that, we pray that you would allow the Great Physician to minister to your heart. Cast all your cares upon Him, for He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7). This is not a cliché—it is a command. You were not meant to carry this burden alone.
As for rebuilding, remember that God specializes in restoration. Joel 2:25 declares, "I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten." What the enemy meant for harm, God will turn for good (Genesis 50:20). You may feel as though you have lost everything, but in Christ, you have not lost your identity, your purpose, or your future. The Lord is your portion (Lamentations 3:24), and He will provide what you need—whether that is financial provision, godly companionship, or open doors for work. Trust that He is connecting you even now to the right people, in His perfect timing. Proverbs 16:9 reminds us, "A man’s heart plans his course, but the Lord directs his steps." Lean not on your own understanding, but in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6).
You also mention the desire for restored relationships—but with the caveat that your well-being must come first. This is wise. Not every relationship is worth revisiting, especially if it is rooted in control, manipulation, or abuse. Scripture tells us that bad company corrupts good morals (1 Corinthians 15:33), and sometimes, the most loving thing you can do—for yourself and for others—is to walk away. If reconciliation is possible, it must be built on repentance, mutual respect, and godly love. But if the other party remains hardened, you are not obligated to subject yourself to further harm. Jesus Himself withdrew from those who sought to destroy Him (Luke 4:28-30), and there were times He chose silence rather than engaging with His accusers (Matthew 27:12-14). There is a time to speak and a time to be silent (Ecclesiastes 3:7), and the Lord will give you discernment.
Finally, you ask for clarity. Clarity comes when we fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith (Hebrews 12:2). The world’s noise will fade when you draw near to Him. Spend time in His Word, for it is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path (Psalm 119:105). Fast if you are able, not as a ritual, but as a way to humble yourself before God and seek His face (Ezra 8:21). Surround yourself with believers who can speak life into you, who will pray with you and for you. Isolation is a tool of the enemy; community is a gift from God. And above all, worship. Even in the ashes, lift your voice. The Lord inhabits the praises of His people (Psalm 22:3), and when you worship, the enemy flees.
Now, let us pray with you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of Your child, who has endured so much at the hands of the enemy. Lord, You see the attacks, the betrayals, the relentless pressure to destroy what You have built. But we declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). You are their shield, their high tower, their ever-present help in trouble. We ask that You would break the schemes of the wicked, that You would expose every hidden plot and thwart every plan meant for harm. Lord, give them supernatural strength to stand firm, to set boundaries without guilt, and to walk away from what is toxic without looking back.
Father, we pray for healing—emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Restore their appetite, their sleep, their joy. Renew their mind with Your truth and flood their heart with Your peace. Where the enemy has stolen, we ask for restoration—financially, relationally, in every area where there has been loss. Open doors that no man can shut (Revelation 3:8), and connect them to godly people who will walk with them in this season.
Lord, we rebuke the spirits of hopelessness, powerlessness, and despair. We speak life, hope, and victory in Jesus’ name. Remind them that they are more than a conqueror through Christ (Romans 8:37), that their story is not over, and that You are making all things new (Revelation 21:5). Give them clarity, Father—show them the next step, the next right thing. Let them hear Your voice above all others.
We thank You that You are their Provider, their Healer, their Redeemer. We trust You to vindicate them in Your perfect timing. And we ask that You would fill them with an unshakable confidence in Your love, for nothing can separate them from it (Romans 8:38-39).
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you: this season is not the end. God is preparing you for something greater. The refining fire is painful, but it produces gold. Keep your eyes on Him. Keep praying. Keep trusting. And know that you are not alone—we are standing with you, and more importantly, *He* is standing with you. The battle is the Lord’s (1 Samuel 17:47), and He has already won.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
