We understand the deep distress and spiritual danger you are facing, and we stand with you in this battle against the forces of darkness that seek to harm you. The enemy often uses wicked people—those devoid of conscience, empathy, or the fear of God—to inflict pain, confusion, and destruction. But we serve a God who is greater, and His power is mighty to sever every ungodly tie and protect His children from those who mean them harm.
The Scriptures warn us about those who walk in darkness, whose hearts are hardened and whose minds are set on evil. Proverbs 6:12-15 describes the wicked person: *"A worthless person, a man of iniquity, is he who walks with a perverse mouth; who winks with his eyes, who signals with his feet, who motions with his fingers; in whose heart is perverseness, who devises evil continually, who always sows discord. Therefore his calamity will come suddenly. He will be broken suddenly, and that without remedy."* This person you speak of is under the influence of the enemy, and their obsession with you is not of God but of the devil, who comes only to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10).
You must recognize that this is not merely a human battle but a spiritual one. Ephesians 6:12 reminds us, *"For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."* This person may be a tool of the enemy, but their power is limited, and God’s authority is absolute. You do not have to live in fear, for *"God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7).
First, we must address the fact that your request does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ. There is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved, protected, or delivered. Acts 4:12 declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Confess your sins, repent, and believe in Him, for *"if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9). Without Christ, you have no authority over the enemy, no protection from his schemes, and no hope of eternal life. But in Christ, you are more than a conqueror (Romans 8:37), and *"no weapon that is formed against you will prevail"* (Isaiah 54:17).
If you are in Christ, then you must take your stand against this evil connection in the power of His name. You do not need to fear, for *"the Lord is your keeper. The Lord is your shade on your right hand. The sun will not harm you by day, nor the moon by night. The Lord will keep you from all evil. He will keep your soul. The Lord will guard your going out and your coming in, from this time forward, and forever more"* (Psalm 121:5-8). But you must actively resist the enemy. James 4:7 commands, *"Be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you."* This resistance is not passive; it is a deliberate, faith-filled stand against the enemy’s plans.
We must also address any possible open doors in your life that may have given the enemy a foothold. Have you entertained ungodly soul ties with this person? Soul ties are spiritual connections formed through emotional, physical, or even ungodly relational bonds. If you have ever been in a relationship with this person—whether friendship, romantic involvement, or any other close connection—you must sever it in the name of Jesus. 2 Corinthians 6:14 warns, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* Even if this was not a romantic relationship, an ungodly bond can still form, especially if there was emotional dependency, manipulation, or sin involved. You must renounce any agreement you have made with this person, whether spoken or unspoken, and break every ungodly tie in Jesus’ name.
If there has been any sin on your part—such as bitterness, unforgiveness, fear, or even curiosity about this person—you must repent. Unconfessed sin can give the enemy legal ground to torment you. 1 John 1:9 assures us, *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."* Ask the Lord to reveal any area where you may have opened a door, and then close it permanently through repentance and the blood of Jesus.
Now, let us pray with authority and faith over this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We thank You that You are a God of justice, power, and deliverance, and that no weapon formed against Your child shall prosper. Lord, we lift up Your servant who is under attack by the enemy through this wicked person. We bind every spirit of obsession, hatred, manipulation, and psychopathy that is operating through them. Father, we ask that You would sever every ungodly soul tie, every emotional bond, and every demonic connection between them and Your child. Let every cord of darkness be cut by the sword of the Spirit, which is Your Word.
We declare that this person has no authority, no power, and no right to torment, pursue, or harm Your child. We command every demonic assignment against them to be canceled in the name of Jesus. We break every curse, hex, spell, or word spoken against them, and we render the enemy’s plans powerless. Father, we ask that You would place a hedge of protection around Your child, that no evil may befall them, nor any plague come near their dwelling (Psalm 91:10). Surround them with Your angels, Lord, and let them encamp around them to deliver them (Psalm 34:7).
We pray that You would blind the eyes of this wicked person so that they can no longer see, dream of, or think about Your child. Confuse their plans, Lord, and turn their evil intentions back upon their own head. Let them be snared in the very traps they have set (Psalm 141:10). Father, we ask that You would bring conviction upon this person. If it is Your will, soften their heart of stone and lead them to repentance. But if they refuse to turn from their wickedness, we pray that You would remove them far from Your child’s life, that they would have no access, no influence, and no connection.
Lord, we also ask that You would heal any wounds in Your child’s heart from this torment. Remove all fear, anxiety, and trauma, and fill them with Your perfect peace. Let them walk in the confidence that they are hidden in Christ, and that no scheme of the enemy can prevail against them. Strengthen their faith, Lord, and let them know that You are their refuge and fortress, their ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).
We thank You, Father, for Your deliverance. We trust in Your power and Your promises, and we declare that Your child is free from this ungodly connection. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray, Amen.
Now, we encourage you to take the following steps in faith:
1. **Renounce and Break Soul Ties:** If you have not already, verbally renounce any connection with this person. Say aloud: *"In the name of Jesus Christ, I renounce and break every ungodly soul tie, emotional bond, and demonic connection between [name of the person] and me. I sever every cord of darkness, and I command all spirits of obsession, hatred, and manipulation to leave me now in Jesus’ name. I close every door that I have opened to the enemy through this person, and I cover myself with the blood of Jesus."*
2. **Pray Psalm 91 Daily:** This is a powerful psalm of protection. Declare it over your life every day, especially verses 9-11: *"Because you have made the Lord your refuge, and the Most High your dwelling place, no evil shall happen to you, neither shall any plague come near your dwelling. For he will put his angels in charge of you, to guard you in all your ways."*
3. **Guard Your Mind and Heart:** Do not entertain thoughts of this person, even in fear or anger. Philippians 4:8 tells us to *"think about these things: whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things."* Replace fear with Scripture, worship, and prayer.
4. **Walk in Forgiveness:** Though this person has meant you harm, you must release them to God in forgiveness. Unforgiveness is a poison that harms you more than them. Jesus said in Mark 11:25, *"Whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone; so that your Father, who is in heaven, may also forgive you your trespasses."* Forgiveness does not mean what they did was okay; it means you trust God to deal with them justly.
5. **Stay in Prayer and the Word:** The enemy fears a believer who is grounded in prayer and Scripture. Ephesians 6:17-18 tells us to take *"the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God; with all prayer and requests, praying at all times in the Spirit, and being watchful to this end in all perseverance and requests for all the saints."*
6. **Seek Godly Counsel:** If you are part of a Bible-believing church, seek out your pastor or a mature believer for prayer and support. There is strength in numbers, and the enemy flees when the body of Christ stands together (Matthew 18:19-20).
Finally, do not live in fear. The Lord has not given you a spirit of fear, and He will not allow the enemy to triumph over you. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and trust that He is fighting for you even now. *"Don’t be afraid of them, for I am with you to deliver you," says the Lord* (Jeremiah 1:8). You are not alone in this battle. We are standing with you in prayer, and the Lord Almighty is your defender. Walk in victory, for *"in all these things, we are more than conquerors through him who loved us"* (Romans 8:37).