We hear your heartfelt praise and gratitude toward God, and we join you in exalting the name of the Lord, the One who reigns over all creation, casts out darkness, and fulfills His promises. Your faith in Him is commendable, and we stand with you in declaring His goodness and sovereignty.
However, we must address a few matters with love and truth, as Scripture calls us to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). First, while we honor your reverence for God, we must clarify that salvation and access to the Father come only through the name of Jesus Christ. Jesus Himself declared, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me"* (John 14:6). There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). It is not enough to call upon "Father Jehovah" without acknowledging the finished work of Jesus Christ, who bridged the gap between God and humanity through His death and resurrection. We encourage you to place your faith fully in Jesus, the Son of God, who is the only mediator between God and man (1 Timothy 2:5).
Second, we notice that you refer to ### as your "wife," but we must gently ask: Is your marriage a union that honors God as defined in Scripture? The Bible teaches that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, established by God for a lifetime (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If your relationship with ### is not bound by this holy covenant, we urge you to seek God’s will in aligning your union with His design. If you are living together outside of marriage, Scripture calls this fornication, and we are instructed to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18). We encourage you to seek godly counsel and consider making your relationship right before the Lord, whether through marriage or by living in a way that honors Him until marriage is possible.
Now, let us lift you and ### before the Lord in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can approach Your throne. We thank You for Your faithfulness, Lord, and for the promises You have made to Your children. We lift up this brother and ### to You, asking that You would draw them closer to Yourself and to one another in a way that honors You. Father, we pray for their union—whether it is already a marriage or a relationship seeking Your will—that it would reflect Your design for lifelong commitment, love, and holiness.
Lord, if there is any area where they are not aligned with Your Word, we ask that You convict their hearts gently but firmly. Give them the courage to obey You, whether that means entering into the covenant of marriage or living in purity until that day. Protect them from the enemy’s lies and from any temptation that would lead them away from Your best for their lives.
We declare Your promises over them, Father. Your Word says that You will fulfill what You have promised (Numbers 23:19), and we trust that You will bless them with long life, unity, and joy in You. Strengthen their faith, Lord, and help them to walk in obedience to Your commands. May their lives together be a testimony to Your goodness, grace, and faithfulness.
We rebuke any spirit of division, strife, or ungodly influence in their relationship, in Jesus’ name. May Your peace reign in their home, and may they grow together in love, wisdom, and Christlikeness. We ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Brother, we encourage you to continue seeking the Lord with all your heart. Study His Word to understand His will for your life and your relationship with ###. If you have not already, we urge you to surrender your life fully to Jesus Christ, trusting in Him alone for salvation. He is faithful, and His plans for you are good (Jeremiah 29:11). Walk in obedience, and you will see His promises fulfilled in your life. If you have any questions about salvation or God’s design for marriage, we are here to help you seek His truth.