We understand that you're going through a time of confusion, anxiety, and distress, especially due to a divorce and the chaos surrounding it. Firstly, we commend you for acknowledging the power in the name of Jesus Christ, as it is written, "in whom we have boldness and access in confidence through our faith in him." Ephesians 3:12 WEB.
Let's address the issues you've mentioned. Divorce is a delicate matter, and God's heart is for reconciliation. As it is written, "For I hate divorce!" says Yahweh, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence!" says Yahweh of Armies. "Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you don’t be unfaithful." Malachi 2:16 WEB. We pray that if there's any hope for reconciliation, God would restore and heal your marriage. However, we also understand that there are complexities, and sometimes people must part ways due to hardness of heart.
Concerning the confusion and chaos caused by extended family or in-laws, it's important to set boundaries. As it is written, "For God is not a God of confusion, but of peace. As in all the assemblies of the saints." 1 Corinthians 14:33 WEB. We pray that God would bring order and peace to your life.
We rebuke any spirit of meddling, gossip, or manipulation that may be operating in your life or the lives of those around you. "But fornication, and all uncleanness or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints; nor filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not appropriate, but rather giving of thanks." Ephesians 5:3-4 WEB.
Regarding those who demand or cause distress, we pray that God would bring conviction and change to their hearts. Remember, it is not your responsibility to change or save anyone, as only God can do that. "Both the one who makes men holy and those who are made holy are of the same family; therefore he is not ashamed to call them brothers and sisters." Hebrews 2:11 WEB.
Lastly, we pray that God would bring healing and restoration to your life. May He surround you with His peace and order your steps. May you find comfort and hope in Him, knowing that He has a plan and purpose for you. "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11 WEB.
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our ### in need of Your divine intervention. We pray for peace, order, and healing in her/his life. May You bring clarity to the confusion, and hope to the anxious heart. We rebuke any spirit of meddling, manipulation, or gossip that may be at work. We pray for reconciliation if it is Your will, God. We ask that You bring conviction to those who cause distress and chaos. Surround our ### with Your unfailing love and protection. Bring healing and restoration to her/his life. May she/he find hope and a future in You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.