Confused And In Love-But Don't Want To Be

[betsy100a]

I don't know where to start with this, but I need prayer for emotional healing. I've suffered from insecurity, depression and anxiety my whole life. Last year I fell in love with a man, and after waiting for over a year, with no relationship, I got angry and wrote him a very nasty e-mail when I found out about his drinking and other women. I did it thinking it would be easier for me not to love him - which it wasn't-and because I care so much about him that I wanted him to stop that behavior even if he never talked to me again. I see this man every day, and although at the time I thought my "nasty gram" was the right thing to do for both of us. Me so that I could break away from a love that wasn't to be and him to be scared sober, now I don't know if I did was right. I'm hurting, at times I felt I was getting signs from God that this was the man he had chosen for me, but nothing was happening. I'm very confused by everything that has gone on for the past year and I really need healing and guidance. Pray for him too, healing for he has suffered much in his life. I need help, I don't know how to behave around him, I basically told him to get lost. Felt it had to be strong to have an impact. I am very lonely and have been for years and long to be in a loving relationship. Thank you for your prayer. God bless all of you

 

[Hopeful]

Dear wonderous Father heal this heart and give her the wisdom and clarity that she needs, I pray that whatever the relationship is now that it would be restored for you according to Gods will. Hang in there and always hold onto hope and faith in jesus name amen

 

[Christine]

Heavenly Father,

Please heal Betsy's aching heart. Remove all confusion and anxiety over this. Fill her with the peace that passes all understanding, available only to Your children. Even if the situation is exactly the same tomorrow, grant her a calmness and security she has not felt before. Help her to focus on You, to carry scriptures in her purse and on her mind, to fill her mind and her thoughts with only what is lovely and noble and true. Help her to identify all negative influences and shun them -- those that breed discontentment and despair within her. Help her to know she is complete in You. Give her wisdom in dealing with this old boyfriend, guide her, give her the words, if she should speak to him, perhaps to ask forgiveness for the way she dismissed him. Even if he was in the wrong, it sounds like her words may not have honored You or been the words You would have given her to break off the relationship. Help Betsy to be able to move on from this and to look to the future with hope and purpose and knowing You have forgiven her for any past mistakes, and that You are renewing her mind and heart as she draws closer to You every day and meditates on Your word. Help her also to trust You to provide Your ideal godly husband for her, in Your perfect timing, if it be Your very best for her. And please give her good Christian friends to fellowship with. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen.

And don't be fashioned according to this age: but be transformed by the renewing of the mind, that you + may prove what the will of God is--that [which is] good and acceptable and perfect. Romans 12:2

For I know the thoughts that I think toward you +, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you + hope in your + latter end. Jeremiah 29:11

Don't let kindness and truth forsake you: Bind them about your neck;

So you will find favor and good understanding In the sight of God and man.

Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding:

In all your ways acknowledge him, And he will direct your paths. Proverbs 3:3-6

 

[Cyndi]

Father please minister and heal her heart. Give her guidance and direction in her life and please give her peace. Jesus you are the prince of peace. Minister to her mind, body , soul, and spirit.

In Jesus Name amen

 

[dianeharrison52]

I understand your emotional bond and ties in this relationship. Just know that God is In CONTROL, and he know what is best for you. Remenber that God hold the key to all of our destiny and that deliverance lies in his hand. He will carry your friend just as he carries all of us. Pray and release all of your cares and burden unto God And he will lighten thy pathway.

 

[bobby59]

Lord break the bonds that have tied our sister to an unhealthy love. Lord show her Your love. I ask Lord that You shower her with Your peace and fill her with strength & wisdom. Lord draw her close to You. Lord show her how beautiful she is. Lord I ask that you fill her with Your peace & confidence. Lord show her Your mercy & grace. In Jesus name! Amen

 

[Stephaniej]

Lord, I stand in agreement with the prayers to heal Your daughters heart. In Jesus' name. Amen