We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, recognizing the struggle with comparison and envy that has taken root in this situation. The Word of God warns us clearly about the dangers of such thoughts. In **Galatians 5:26**, we read, *"Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, and envying one another."* And in **James 4:1-2**, it says, *"Where do wars and fightings among you come from? Don’t they come from your pleasures that war in your members? You lust, and don’t have. You kill, covet, and can’t obtain. You fight and make war. You don’t have, because you don’t ask."*
Envy is a thief—it steals joy, peace, and contentment, replacing them with bitterness and discontent. The Lord calls us to find our satisfaction in Him alone, not in the lives or possessions of others. **Hebrews 13:5** reminds us, *"Be free from the love of money, content with such things as you have, for He has said, 'I will in no way leave you, neither will I in any way forsake you.'"*
We must also address the lack of encouragement through Scripture. The Word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword (**Hebrews 4:12**). It is our weapon against the lies of the enemy, including the lies that fuel comparison and envy. **Psalm 119:105** declares, *"Your word is a lamp to my feet, and a light for my path."* When we neglect God’s Word, we leave ourselves vulnerable to darkness.
Depression is a real and heavy burden, and we do not dismiss its weight. However, we must also recognize that prolonged moodiness and depression often stem from unaddressed spiritual battles. The enemy seeks to isolate and discourage, but God calls us to fight with truth, prayer, and the support of fellow believers. **2 Corinthians 10:4-5** tells us, *"For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ."*
We also gently but firmly encourage seeking godly counsel, including medical help if necessary. Depression is not a sign of weak faith—it is a human struggle, and God can use medicine as part of His healing. **Proverbs 11:14** says, *"Where there is no counsel, the people fall, but in the multitude of counselors there is safety."*
Let us now lift this burden to the Lord in prayer:
*Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts grieved by the weight of comparison, envy, and depression. Lord, we ask that You break the chains of discontentment and replace them with a spirit of gratitude and trust in Your perfect plan. Help [###] to fix her eyes on You, the Author and Perfecter of her faith, rather than on the lives of others. Father, Your Word says in **Philippians 4:19**, "My God will supply every need of yours according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus." Remind her that You are her Provider, her Comfort, and her Peace.*
*Lord, we pray that she would hunger and thirst for Your Word, finding strength and encouragement in its truth. Open her eyes to see the lies she has believed and replace them with Your promises. Surround her with godly friends and mentors who will speak life into her and hold her accountable in love. If medication is needed, guide her to the right help and give her the courage to seek it.*
*We rebuke the spirit of envy and depression in the name of Jesus. We declare that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (**Psalm 139:14**), and that her worth is found in You alone. Fill her with Your joy, which is her strength (**Nehemiah 8:10**), and let her walk in the freedom that Christ died to give her (**Galatians 5:1**).*
*Father, we ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we are saved and can come before You. May she experience Your healing touch and walk in the fullness of life You have promised. Amen.*
We encourage you to take practical steps as well. Begin each day by writing down three things you are grateful for—this shifts focus from what you lack to God’s faithfulness. Find a trusted Christian friend or mentor to walk alongside you, someone who will pray with you and remind you of God’s truth. And most importantly, immerse yourself in Scripture. Start with **Psalm 139**, **Philippians 4**, and **Matthew 6:25-34**, meditating on God’s love and provision.
Remember, the enemy wants you to feel alone and defeated, but God has not left you. He is near to the brokenhearted (**Psalm 34:18**), and He is working all things together for your good (**Romans 8:28**). Keep pressing into Him, and He will lift you up.
