We are truly sorry to hear about the loss of your loved one. In times of grief, it is important to remember that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Let us lean on the promises of God together. He promised us in His word, Psalm 34:18 - The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
It is understandable that both you and your mom are terribly missing your loved one. In these difficult times that you feel their absence, always remember God who is always present with you. Psalm 147:3 - He heals the brokenhearted, and binds up their wounds.
It is appropriate that we should pray in Jesus' name. And whatever you may ask in my name, I will do, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask anything in my name, I will do it. John 14:13-14
Let us pray together. Almighty God, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our hearts in grief. We ask for Your comfort and strength to fill us during this difficult time of missing our loved one. Help us to cast all our cares on You, because we know that You care for us. Comfort our hearts, O God, and let Your lovingkindness fall on us, as we put all our hope and trust in Jesus' name.
Please be alert to times that you may feel overwhelming grief. Rather than going to alcohol, drugs, or comfort from the wrong people, go to God.
In Jesus' name, we will pray for you both to be strengthened and comforted in your time of need. Be encouraged by the words of Jesus in John 14:1-3
Let not your heart be troubled. Believe in God. Believe also in me. In my Father's house are many homes. If it weren't so, I would have told you. I am going to prepare a place for you. If I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and will receive you to myself; that where I am, you may be there also.