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[Croamorath]

Name: ### Please pray for my husband because:
1) He (outcast) me whenever he gathers with his family in his hometown. No phone calls, no text, no even hello, no even greeting, just nothing.
2) He loves his siblings so much that he loves his sister more than he loves me. His married sister lived in another town and he often calls her, texts her, asking how she was doing, but whenever he travels back to pay a visit to his family, he doesn't bother to even call me or text me.
2) He loves his brother so much that he back in those years, he even allowed his adult married brother to sleep with us on the same bed in the same bedroom. To him, this is normal. If I'm asking those who read this message, do you allow your adult married brother to sleep with you and your wife or to sleep with you and your husband? After a quarrel with my husband, we finally made out one guest room for his adult brother to sleep whenever he came to visit us but then, his adult brother never came again.
3) In this marriage, there is no physical harm but only emotional harm

Please pray that God would
1) intervene for his heart, protection for me being his wife, and restoration for the marriage.
2) give my husband a new heart and put a new spirit in him. Remove any attitude that is unloving, indifferent, or bitter, and restore in its place genuine love and concern.
3) Speak to his conscience and guide him toward righteousness, reminding him of his commitment to integrity.
4) humble himself as Jesus did. Let him not think of himself more highly than he ought, letting pride reign, but instead be peaceable and considerate in all he does.
5) guard my heart and mind whenever I feel abandoned or cast out, that God is close to the brokenhearted and will never leave me.
6) Grant me the wisdom to know how to respond to my husband's actions. Help me to 'be on my guard, stand firm in the faith, and be strong' even when facing.
7) remind my husband that Scripture states that a husband’s refusal to love his wife is a sin against God’s command (1 Thessalonians 4:3-8). Husbands are called to love their wives as Christ loved the church.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heartache and the deep emotional pain you are enduring in this marriage. Your husband’s actions—ignoring you when with his family, prioritizing his siblings over you, and even allowing inappropriate sleeping arrangements—are not only unloving but also violate the biblical principles of marriage. Scripture is clear: *"Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and they shall be one flesh"* (Genesis 2:24). This means that in marriage, the bond between husband and wife must take precedence over all other earthly relationships, including those with family. His behavior is a breach of this sacred covenant, and it grieves the heart of God.

We must also address the issue of his brother sleeping in the same bed with you both. This is not only unwise but also a violation of the boundaries God has set for purity and honor in marriage. *"Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4). Even if there was no physical sin, the appearance of impropriety and the lack of respect for marital intimacy is deeply concerning. Your husband’s failure to protect and honor your marriage in this way is a serious matter that must be confronted with biblical truth.

Your request for prayer is heard, and we stand with you before the throne of grace, lifting up your marriage to the Lord. We pray first that your husband’s heart would be softened and turned toward you in love and repentance. *"I will give them one heart, and I will put a new spirit within them; and I will take the stony heart out of their flesh, and will give them a heart of flesh"* (Ezekiel 11:19). Lord, break the hardness in his heart and replace it with a spirit of humility, love, and devotion to his wife. May he see the error of his ways and turn from them, seeking reconciliation with you and with his wife.

We pray that God would intervene in this marriage, restoring what has been broken and healing the wounds that have been inflicted. *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds"* (Psalm 147:3). Father, we ask that You would speak to his conscience, convicting him of his sin and leading him to repentance. Remind him of his vows before You and his responsibility to love his wife as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25). May he no longer neglect or dismiss you but instead cherish and honor you as his wife.

We also lift you up, dear sister, asking God to guard your heart and mind in the midst of this pain. *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). When you feel abandoned or cast out, may you find your strength and comfort in the Lord, who will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Grant you wisdom to respond to your husband’s actions with grace, strength, and godly discernment. Help you to stand firm in your faith, even when facing trials, and to trust in God’s faithfulness to restore what has been lost.

We must also rebuke the spirit of division and pride that has taken root in this marriage. Your husband’s actions reveal a heart that is not fully submitted to God’s design for marriage. We pray that he would humble himself before the Lord, recognizing that his pride and indifference toward you are sin. *"God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble"* (James 4:6). May he be broken before You, Lord, and may he seek Your face for the transformation only You can bring.

Finally, we declare that this marriage is not beyond God’s power to restore. *"With God all things are possible"* (Matthew 19:26). We pray for a supernatural work of the Holy Spirit in both of your hearts, drawing you closer to each other and to the Lord. May your husband’s love for you be rekindled, and may your marriage become a testimony of God’s grace, mercy, and restoration.

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this marriage to You. We ask that You would move mightily in the life of this husband, breaking the hardness of his heart and drawing him back to You and to his wife. Lord, we pray for a spirit of repentance and humility to take root in him, that he would see the error of his ways and turn from them. Restore the love, honor, and commitment that should mark this marriage, and let Your peace reign in their home.

We ask that You would guard this wife’s heart, Lord. When she feels abandoned or cast out, remind her that You are near. Fill her with Your strength, wisdom, and grace to respond to her husband in a way that honors You. Give her the courage to stand firm in her faith, trusting in Your promises even when circumstances seem hopeless.

Father, we also pray for the broader family dynamics at play here. May Your truth penetrate the hearts of all involved, and may Your will be done in every relationship. We ask that You would bring healing, restoration, and unity where there has been division and neglect.

We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the One who reconciles, restores, and redeems. May Your will be done in this marriage, and may Your name be glorified through it. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear friend, we're here with you, praying for your marriage. We know it's tough right now, with your husband's distant behavior and the strain it's putting on your relationship. We've been thinking about you and wanted to reach out with some encouragement and prayer.

First, we want to remind you that God sees your pain. He's right there with you, and He cares deeply about what you're going through. In Psalm 34:18, it says, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." Know that you're not alone, and God is working even in the midst of this.

We've been praying for your husband's heart to be softened and turned towards you. We're asking God to give him a new spirit, one that's humble, loving, and devoted to you. We're also praying for wisdom for you, dear friend. Wisdom to know how to respond to your husband's actions, and strength to stand firm in your faith, even when things are tough.

We're believing for a miracle in your marriage. We're claiming God's promise in Matthew 19:26, "With God all things are possible." We're praying for a supernatural work of the Holy Spirit in both of your hearts, drawing you closer to each other and to the Lord.

Please keep trusting in God's faithfulness. He's got this, and He's working things out for your good. We're here for you, praying and believing with you.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.