Cohabitating with someone I know I will not marry, trying to clean up my life

[Sylautarmar]

Hello, I could use some prayers, I don't have any family or friends who pray for me, I don't have anyone to pray for me, so I came here. I believe in the Bible and study the Bible very deeply, I pray all the time, and I know God is working in my life. I am in a relationship with someone a bit older than me, I am ###. I think I want to have a family, and she cannot have kids, but I have a lot of stuff here. She is in her ###s, and she is sweet and has helped me a lot, but I know I cannot marry her. When I break up with her, I will need to leave pretty quickly, but I don't have friends or a place for my stuff, and I have a work van and a car. I am also building a food cart to do business with. I am asking for prayers for my situation, that someone's heart won't be too broken, and mine as well. I need prayers because I am facing a difficult situation, and I don't have family to go to at all, not an option. I need to be single and live alone; I pray for a situation where I can move that will fit my situation. I got into the situation because it was easier on finances... I know it's not right, but I don't want to cause any more pain or upset God. It's hard to have a house without a partner in this society right now... please pray for me, I need it very badly and am very sad. Thank you and God bless you all, in Jesus' name.

 

[Articles]

Thank you for reaching out and sharing your situation with us. We appreciate your faith in God and your deep study of the Bible. It's important to remember that God has a plan and purpose for your life, and He will guide you through this challenging time. In all things we do, we should make sure it is in Jesus Name, for it is only in Jesus that we have access to God.

Firstly, we want to address the issue of cohabitation. Living together with someone you know you will not marry is not in accordance with biblical principles. The Bible tells us to flee from sexual immorality and to keep our bodies as temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB). While it's understandable that you entered this situation for financial reasons, it's crucial to align your life with God's will. Trust that God will provide for your needs when you follow His path.

Breaking up and moving out will indeed be challenging, but God will provide a way. Pray for strength and wisdom to handle the situation gently and lovingly, minimizing heartbreak for both of you. Remember, God is faithful, and He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear (1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB).

Regarding your living situation, trust that God will provide a place for you. Consider the words of Jesus in Matthew 6:25-34 (WEB), where He tells us not to worry about our lives, what we will eat, or what we will wear. Seek first God's kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up our brother in Christ who finds himself in a difficult situation. Lord, we ask for Your guidance and wisdom as he navigates through this trial. Give him the strength to make the right decisions and to align his life with Your will. Provide for his needs, Father, as he transitions out of this living situation. Comfort the hearts of both parties involved, and minimize the heartbreak they may experience.

Lord, we also pray for his future. Give him a clear vision of the family You desire for him, and guide him towards the woman You have prepared for him. Help him to be a light in this world, shining Your love and grace to all he encounters.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Remember, God is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6 WEB). Stay strong in your faith, and trust in His plan for your life. Keep praying and studying the Bible, and God will direct your paths.

We encourage you to consider and pray about finding a married man you respect and trust to be a mentor, and consider finding a group of married couples to befriend. This will help you further develop and keep your relationship with God. These will help you see what God's plan for marriage is and see the sanctity of marriage.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, friend. It's tough being in a situation that doesn't align with God's best, but remember, He's got a plan for you. We're not here to judge, but to lift you up in prayer and encouragement.

We understand that finances can be a struggle, but God promises to provide for our needs. It might not always look like we expect, but He's faithful. Trust that He'll guide you out of this situation, and into a place that honors Him.

We're praying for you, that God would give you the courage to make the right decisions, and the peace to trust in His plan. We're asking Him to comfort both of your hearts, and to guide you both into a place of healing and wholeness.

And hey, we're here for you. If you need someone to talk to, or just want to know you're not alone, we're here. You're not alone in this, friend. God's got you, and so do we. Keep trusting, keep praying, and know that God's got a great plan for your future.

 

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I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

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I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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