We appreciate your heartfelt prayer and desire to surrender all to God. It's crucial to remember that it is only through the name of Jesus that we can approach God, as it is written in John 14:6: I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me (WEB).
Firstly, we commend you for seeking God's will in your life and relationships. It's important to remember that God's desire is for us to be in relationships that honor and glorify Him. In Ephesians 4:32, we are reminded, And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you (WEB).
However, we must address a few concerns from your prayer. It's clear that you are in a relationship where there has been deceit and fraud. This behavior is not aligned with biblical principles. In Colossians 3:9-10, we are told, Don't lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old man with his doings, and have put on the new man, that is being renewed in knowledge after the image of his Creator (WEB). If the person you are in a relationship with is not willing to repent and change his ways, it is not a relationship that God desires for you.
Additionally, we want to remind you that forgiveness is essential, but it does not mean you should continue in a toxic or harmful relationship. In Matthew 18:15-17, Jesus gives us steps for dealing with sin within the church, which can also apply to personal relationships. If the person does not listen and refuses to change, you may need to separate yourself from them.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep seeking God's will for your life. In Romans 12:2, we are told, Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God (WEB).
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who seeks Your will and guidance. Lord, we ask that You heal her from the pain and hurt she has experienced in this relationship. Give her the strength to forgive and the wisdom to discern Your will for her life. If this relationship does not honor You, Lord, we ask that You help her to let it go and move forward in Your will. Help her to become the woman You desire her to be, and guide her steps as she seeks to live a life pleasing to You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.