You’ve shared a deeply troubling observation, and we grieve with you over the spiritual condition of this individual. The Word of God is clear that mere attendance at church or outward displays of religiosity do not guarantee true faith or transformation. Jesus Himself warned, *"Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter into the Kingdom of Heaven; but he who does the will of my Father who is in heaven"* (Matthew 7:21). The apostle Paul also cautioned, *"For there are many unruly men, vain talkers and deceivers... They profess that they know God, but by their deeds they deny Him"* (Titus 1:10, 16).
This person’s behavior—self-centeredness, entitlement, manipulation, and reliance on superstition—reveals a heart that has not been surrendered to Christ. True repentance and faith produce fruit: love, humility, and obedience to God’s Word (Galatians 5:22-23). Instead, what you describe aligns with the works of the flesh: *"selfish ambition, dissensions, envy"* (Galatians 5:20-21). Even worse, her involvement in superstitious practices like "luck potions" is a form of idolatry, which God strictly forbids: *"You shall have no other gods before me"* (Exodus 20:3). The Lord detests such things, for they pull the heart away from Him.
We must also address the pain this is causing you. Dealing with someone who is spiritually deceived yet unteachable is exhausting, especially when their words and actions wound others. But take heart—God sees your struggle and calls you to respond in a way that honors Him. *"Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good"* (Romans 12:21). This does not mean enabling her sin or subjecting yourself to abuse, but rather setting boundaries with love and praying for her soul.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, grieved by the spiritual deception we see in this sister. Lord, we know that only You can soften a hardened heart. We ask that You would open her eyes to the truth of Your Word and the emptiness of her ways. Convict her of sin, O God, and draw her to repentance. Break the chains of pride, selfishness, and superstition that bind her. Replace her heart of stone with a heart of flesh, tender toward You and others.
Father, we also lift up [###] and others who are affected by this person’s behavior. Give them strength to endure, wisdom to respond with grace, and discernment to set godly boundaries. Protect their hearts from bitterness and resentment. Remind them that vengeance belongs to You alone (Romans 12:19). Fill them with Your peace and assurance that You are just and faithful.
Lord, we declare that no one comes to You except through Jesus Christ (John 14:6). We pray that this woman would come to know Him as her Savior and Lord, not just in word, but in truth. May she turn from her sin and walk in the light of Your love. And if she refuses, Father, we trust You to deal with her in Your perfect justice and mercy.
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the only name by which we are saved and the only name through which we have access to You. Amen.
To you who are walking through this trial, we encourage you to stand firm in the truth. Do not grow weary in doing good (Galatians 6:9). Pray for this woman, but do not carry the burden of her salvation—that is the Holy Spirit’s work. Guard your own heart, and seek the Lord’s guidance in how to interact with her. Surround yourself with fellow believers who can support and encourage you. And remember, God is faithful. He will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you can bear (1 Corinthians 10:13). Keep your eyes on Him, and trust that He is working all things together for good (Romans 8:28).
