⛪️ Church, Family Intervene Mt 18:16-17, Convict Jn16:8, Hedge w/Thorns Ho 2:6, Clarity, Avoids Evil Men 2 Tim 3:5, Inner Healing Isa 1:6 Ps 23:1-6...

[Nochaeld]

️ Church, Family Intervene Mt 18:16-17, Convict Jn16:8, Hedge w/Thorns Ho 2:6, Clarity, Avoids Evil Men 2 Tim 3:5, Inner Healing Isa 1:6 Ps 23:1-6... Father, thank You for grace to pray for her signaling to me You are not finished working on her, Phil 1:6. Thank You in advance for hedging her way with thorns so she can't overtake her lovers, Hosea 2:6-7, let her come to her senses as the prodigal who in Luke 15:17-19 admitting sinning against GOD and man, being humble and willing to take on a place of a servant, demonstrating repentance unto life, 2 Cor 7:9-11, knowing I'd be like the Prodigal's Father, and have compassion, Luke 15:20, to demonstrate Your perfect patience, 1 Tim 1:15-16, if she is truly repentant and is truly born again, being forbidden to be unequally yoked, 2 Cor 6:14, as the law says, Deut 22:10, and even need a similar vision, Amos 3:3, as she had promised to support your calling as an evangelist, missionary, but ran from all advice, did the opposite and ran from all counsellors with any type of backbone, nevertheless if You make her holy, I will not call her unclean, Acts 10:15 is important and inspired, as all of Scripture, 2 Tim 3:16, being Peter's testimony to first call Gentiles, Acts 15:7... Nevertheless, such patience we regard as kindness intended to lead us to repentance from sin, Rom 2:4, since You are not willing that any should perish, but rather all would come to repentance, 2 Peter 3:9, since there will be wrath and tribulation for every soul that does evil, Rom 2:9. I ask YOU warn her, her family, church, church friends, relatives, even strangers and donkeys if need be, 2 Peter 2:16, and kindly get her pastors and other pastors and friends involved -- and we ask one pastor is family would fear God over his family and honor You above them, Matt 10:28, even put fear of God and the trembling at Your words into them, Isaiah 66:2-3, for the fear of man is a snare, Prov 29:25, as You prophesied to Eli in 1 Samuel 2:29-30, 1 Sam 3:13-14, and fulfilled it in 1 Sam 4:17-18...

We've been asking YOU raise up messengers with the sword of the Spirit and still we ask, Lk 18:1, and thank You for five indicating they are willing to bring The Word of God to this situation, Heb 4:12, but as of yet have not to our knowledge, however we know You are working, thank You for what You're doing, and certain it's to bring about a hope and a future, Jer 29:11... Through history You have gone out of Your way to warn people to turn, as all the prophets testify, we ask He does now, in this day, for this cause: "perchance she will repent, and escape the snare of the devil, being held captive to do his will," 2 Tim 2:25-26, and "so others be fearful of sinning," 1 Tim 5:20. Let them finish the work which they said they'd do with love, reverence for You and Covenant, and zeal, 2 Cor 8:11, not with negligence, Jer 48:10, in Jesus' Name. May it be done gently but firmly, because of the danger of sin and so she won't stop attending church, but rather "flee the evil desires of youth and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart," 2 Tim 2:22. Also let it be done with gentleness, keeping an eye on ourselves, lest we be tempted, Gal 6:1. Thank You in advance, Mk 11:24, in Jesus' Name.

I ask again for her to be "hedged in with thorns," Ho 2:6-7, that she is not able to meet anyone at all (No more online dating, Matt 5:28, and grace for her to finally confess adultery, Ex 20:14, [as yet it has only been hinted at without confession], and may God grant ever-increasing clarity, more certain wisdom, James 1:5, that we may be filled with the knowledge of His will with all spiritual wisdom and understanding so we may walk worthy of The Lord, Col 1:9-10, so we may stand perfectly assured in all the will of God, Col 4:12. May our Love abound more and more with all knowledge and discernment so we may choose the most excellent paths, not stumble, be offended or cause offense to others, be blameless without reproach unto the Day of Christ, being filled with the fruits of righteousness, to the glory and praise of God, Phil 1:9-11, and who knows what's next? 2 Sam 12:22), especially that she, I, the youngster and we all are delivered from temptation, Lk 11:4, sin, 1 Cor 15:34, lies, Zeph 3:13, evil, evil men, imposters, 2 Tim 2:5, 2 Tim 2:13 & the evil one himself, Matt 6:13, John 17:15...

Praying again for repentance 2 Peter 3:9, Luke 24:37 -- That she will not only avoid physical consequences, or be deceived that she's in a place of safety, God not being mocked, Gal 6:7, but MOSTLY she would not use the grace of God for license for immorality, and deny our Only Lord and Master Jesus Christ, Jude 1:4. Please pray for her to repent and bear fruit in keeping with repentance, Matt 3:8, repent and return and receive God's refreshing and salvation, Acts 3:19 -- her one 'godly' sister recently posted a disgustingly sensual dance of her teenage niece or daughter in short negligee -- I rebuked her, Tit 1:13, they ALL need fear of God equating to hatred of evil, Prov 8:13, Job 28:28, Prov 9:10, and freedom from deception, Matt 24:4, including all of us (me being similar to a chief of sinners, 1 Tim 1:15, to whom much is given, much is required, Luke 12:48, and as long as we dwell in temples made of clay, 2 Cor 5:1-2, this side of eternity, we must take heed lest we fall, 1 Cor 10:12, and only stand by Your grace, if we continue in Your kindness, Rom 11:20, and since only You are able to keep us from stumbling, Jude 1:24, and You are able to make us stand, Rom 14:4, and until we become "spirits of the righteous made perfect," Heb 12:23, when we are with You in Paradise, Luke 23:43, for to be absent from the body and be present with The Lord, which is far better, 2 Cor 5:8, Phil 1:23)...

Lastly I ask more wisdom, clarity & inner healing, Isaiah 1:6, Jer 4:19, Ps 23:3 -- Holy Spirit strength for duties, Titus 3:14, etc, grace to fast again, Isa 58:6-12, protection from temptation, sin, deception, lies and evil for me, her, them and all of us, Matt 24:4, Matt 6:13, Zeph 3:13, John 17:15. Grace to proceed, Matt 6:10, Grace to Meet Pressing Needs, to Fulfill Duties, Tit 3:14. Thank You in Jesus Name.

 

[Articles]

We come before the throne of grace with this heavy burden on our hearts, lifting up this situation with fervent prayer and intercession. First, we acknowledge that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father, and it is by His blood alone that we are saved. There is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). We pray that all involved would come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ, if they have not already, and that their lives would be transformed by the power of the Holy Spirit.

We see the deep concern for this woman’s spiritual well-being and the plea for her repentance, restoration, and deliverance from sin. The Scriptures are clear that God desires all to come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9) and that He is patient, not willing that any should perish. We join in your cry for her to be hedged in with thorns, as Hosea 2:6-7 describes, so that she may turn away from the paths of unrighteousness and return to the Lord. We pray that the Holy Spirit would convict her of sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8), leading her to true repentance and a broken and contrite heart (Psalm 51:17).

The mention of adultery and the hint of ungodly relationships is deeply troubling. The Bible is explicit that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, and any sexual relationship outside of that covenant is fornication or adultery (Exodus 20:14, Hebrews 13:4). We rebuke the spirit of immorality and deception that may be at work in her life, and we pray that she would flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18) and pursue holiness, without which no one will see the Lord (Hebrews 12:14). We also rebuke the influence of those who may be leading her astray, whether knowingly or unknowingly, and we pray that she would be delivered from every ungodly alliance (2 Corinthians 6:14).

We stand on the truth of Matthew 18:15-17, which calls for the church to intervene when a brother or sister is caught in sin. We pray that her family, pastors, and church community would rise up with boldness, love, and wisdom to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15) and to restore her gently (Galatians 6:1). We ask that God would raise up faithful messengers, those who wield the sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God (Ephesians 6:17), to bring correction, conviction, and hope. May they not shrink back from their duty out of fear of man (Proverbs 29:25) but fear God above all (Matthew 10:28).

We also lift up the concern for the younger generation mentioned in this request, particularly the disturbing reference to a sensual dance posted by a family member. We rebuke the spirit of sensuality and worldliness that seeks to corrupt the hearts of the young, and we pray that godly fear and wisdom would prevail in that household. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom (Proverbs 9:10), and it is hatred of evil (Proverbs 8:13). We pray that all involved would turn from such displays of immodesty and embrace the call to holiness (1 Peter 1:15-16).

For the one who has submitted this request, we pray for inner healing, wisdom, and strength. The wounds of the heart are deep, and only the Lord can bind them up (Isaiah 1:6, Psalm 23:3). We ask that God would grant you clarity, discernment, and the grace to fulfill your duties with faithfulness (Titus 3:14). May you be protected from temptation, deception, and the schemes of the evil one (Matthew 6:13, John 17:15), and may you stand firm in the faith, knowing that He who began a good work in you will complete it until the day of Christ Jesus (Philippians 1:6).

We pray that this woman would come to her senses, as the prodigal son did (Luke 15:17-19), and return to the Father with a repentant heart. May she bear fruit in keeping with repentance (Matthew 3:8) and walk in the light as He is in the light (1 John 1:7). We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that the Lord would hedge her in with His protection, leading her in paths of righteousness for His name’s sake (Psalm 23:3).

Lord, we ask that You would bring about a complete transformation in this situation. Let Your Word go forth with power, convicting, correcting, and training in righteousness (2 Timothy 3:16). May all involved be filled with the knowledge of Your will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding (Colossians 1:9), so that they may walk worthy of You, fully pleasing You, and bearing fruit in every good work (Colossians 1:10). We ask that love would abound more and more, with all knowledge and discernment, so that they may approve what is excellent and be pure and blameless for the day of Christ (Philippians 1:9-11).

We trust in Your perfect timing and Your unfailing love. You are not slow concerning Your promises (2 Peter 3:9), and You work all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). We declare that this situation is in Your hands, and we ask that You would bring glory to Your name through it. May Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven (Matthew 6:10), and may Your kingdom come in power and truth.

In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear how long you have carried this burden before the Lord, and how much love and grief is behind these prayers for her, for your family, and for the youngster in the middle of it all. Thank you for letting us stand with you. Your desire for truth, for gentle but firm help from her church and family, and for real repentance and healing comes through so clearly.

Waiting while others decide whether to step in is one of the hardest parts. You have already done the faithful work of bringing concerns to pastors and asking for wise, loving intervention. While you wait, we have found it helps to have one steady, trusted pastor or counselor walking closely with you for your own clarity and strength, not just for updates about her. That one relationship can help you sort next decisions calmly, keep your daily duties sustainable, and care for your own inner healing without carrying the whole weight alone. It also gives you a place to keep your prayers simple and steady when fasting and long intercession feel heavy.

We are also mindful of the youngster you mentioned. Keeping predictable routines and a calm, supportive circle around him while all this is unresolved is a quiet but important way to love him well right now.

Father, we lift this brother to You and ask for clear wisdom, quiet strength for each day's duties, and deep inner healing for him. We ask for Your protection over him, over her, and over this child from deception and harm, and that You would lead her toward honest repentance and life. Give the pastors and family involved courage and gentleness to speak truth well, and give him peace as he trusts Your will. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer, so burdened with Scripture and sorrow, has been heard and we join you in it before the throne of grace. There is in it a holy desire that God would not leave this soul to go on in sin, but would hedge her way with thorns as in Hosea 2:6, that she may not overtake those she now pursues, and that being stopped in her course she may come to herself as the prodigal did, and say I have sinned against heaven and before thee.

We pray with you that the Lord will grant what only He can give, for repentance is the gift of God and must be preached in the name of Jesus. We do not ask God to bless what He calls sin, for marriage is the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and all intimacy outside it, whether in act or in the heart as our Lord teaches in Matthew 5:28, is adultery which breaks the command of Exodus 20:14. We cannot ask God to prosper online dating or any path that leads away from that covenant. We ask instead that He would convict by His Spirit according to John 16:8, and grant a repentance unto life as in Acts 11:18.

Take heed, as you have wisely noted, that there are two kinds of repentance. Judgment may produce a carnal repentance that is of the flesh and after the manner of sinful nature, a sorrow for consequences only. The repentance which God accepts gives Him glory, it weeps and abhors past life because of the love of Christ which has pardoned it, and it avoids present sin because of the love of God who died for us. True repentance yields works meet for repentance and it lasts, it is practical and it endures. It lives as long as faith lives. Faith and repentance are inseparable, the one ejects sin as an evil tenant and the other admits Christ to be sole master of the heart. We pray that if God be pleased to work, it may be this holy, healthy, heavenly repentance, a godly sorrow that need not be repented of as in 2 Corinthians 7:9-11, bearing fruit in keeping with repentance as in Matthew 3:8 and Acts 3:19, with restitution where wrong has been done, for that conversion which does not turn the life is no conversion at all.

We join you in asking that the church and family would obey Matthew 18:16-17, not with harshness nor with negligence as in Jeremiah 48:10, but gently and firmly, with an eye upon themselves lest they also be tempted as in Galatians 6:1, speaking the truth in love with the sword of the Spirit which is the word of God as in Hebrews 4:12. We pray that pastors and friends whom you mention, five who have indicated willingness, would finish the work they said they would do with love and reverence for covenant and zeal as in 2 Corinthians 8:11, that the sin may be rebuked as in Titus 1:13 and 1 Timothy 5:20 so that others also may fear, and that she may be led to flee youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart as in 2 Timothy 2:22. We ask the Lord to put the fear of God before all, for the fear of man brings a snare as in Proverbs 29:25, but the fear of the Lord is to hate evil as in Proverbs 8:13 and is the beginning of wisdom as in Proverbs 9:10 and Job 28:28. May He raise up messengers, as He has done through all the prophets, to warn that she may perchance repent and escape the snare of the devil, being held captive to do his will as in 2 Timothy 2:25-26.

We pray also for you who intercede. You rightly count yourself among those to whom much is given and of whom much is required as in Luke 12:48, and who must take heed lest he fall as in 1 Corinthians 10:12, standing only by grace as in Romans 11:20, kept from stumbling by Him who is able as in Jude 1:24 and Romans 14:4. We ask with you for wisdom as in James 1:5, that you may be filled with the knowledge of His will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding to walk worthy of the Lord as in Colossians 1:9-10 and stand fully assured in all the will of God as in Colossians 4:12, that love may abound with knowledge and discernment to choose the excellent way and be blameless unto the day of Christ as in Philippians 1:9-11. We ask for inner healing where the wounds are still as bruises and sores as in Isaiah 1:6, and for the Shepherd's restoring of the soul as in Psalm 23:3. Remember that healing and pardon go together. When Jesus healed the sick of the palsy He said thy sins be forgiven thee. Healing and forgiveness are placed in happy conjunction. The very leaves of the tree of life are for the healing of the nations as in Revelation 22:2, the least things about Christ have healing virtue to change the life blood and make the nature new. May that healing flow to you and to the young one and to all concerned, with strength for duties as in Titus 3:14 and grace to fast and pray as in Isaiah 58:6-12.

We continue to ask that all of you may be delivered from temptation and kept from evil and from evil men and impostors as in Matthew 6:13 and John 17:15 and 2 Timothy 3:5, that no one may use the grace of God as license for immorality to deny our only Master as in Jude 1:4, for God is not mocked as in Galatians 6:7. We pray that there would be no deception as in Matthew 24:4 and no lie as in Zephaniah 3:13, but clarity and truth.

We have hope because the eyes of mercy are quicker than the eyes of repentance. The father saw the prodigal while he was yet a great way off and ran and fell on his neck and kissed him much. Slow are the steps of repentance, but swift are the feet of forgiveness. If there be a true turning, there is already with the Father much forgiveness and overflowing comfort, and all heaven rejoices. Yet we must not put repentance in the place of Christ, for Christ alone saves. We look to Him who is able to keep us and to make us stand, waiting until we are made spirits of the righteous made perfect as in Hebrews 12:23, to be absent from the body and present with the Lord as in 2 Corinthians 5:8 and Philippians 1:23.

So we pray, not that God would bless a way that departs from His word, but that He would in kindness lead to repentance as in Romans 2:4, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance as in 2 Peter 3:9, while warning that wrath and tribulation remain for every soul that does evil as in Romans 2:9. May He grant repentance and remission of sins in the name of Jesus as in Luke 24:47, where the two are joined and where there is true repentance there is full and free forgiveness. We ask this, with thanksgiving in advance as in Mark 11:24, and with perseverance as in Luke 18:1, trusting that He who began a good work will perfect it until the day of Jesus Christ as in Philippians 1:6, and that He will do it in a way that gives Him all glory, in Jesus name, Amen.

 

[Windwold]

Praying with you in Jesus'name, Amen