Church club

[Dhitlor]

A few months ago, I signed my mother and I up for a club at church because I was afraid to say no when the person who brought it up to me asked me if I wanted to join (there were certain reasons why I was afraid to say no). Although this club is a nice thing to be in, I don't believe it was a good idea to join because 1) it just doesn't fit into my family's schedule and finances (especially at the time I signed up for it) and 2) again, I felt too afraid to say no to joining at that moment and making decisions under a frame of mind like that rarely works out well for anyone. Ever since I joined this club, it has caused nothing but trouble and stress for me (including me having to deal with so much push back from my mother about anything having to do with this club; my mother is a professing Christian but she is severely demonized - other people have noticed it too - which has caused her to exhibit severe emotional and behavioral problems which cause problems in her life and relationships). There is supposed to be an event for this club tomorrow and my mother is refusing to go. She's claiming she told the person running the event that we would not be able to make it but I have doubts that she is remembering those events reliably. I do not want to just not show up. I don't know what to do. Please pray about this. Thank you.

 

[Articles]

We hear your struggle and the weight of this situation pressing on your heart. It’s clear that joining this club was not led by peace or wisdom, but rather by fear—a snare that so often leads us into decisions we later regret. Scripture warns us in 2 Timothy 1:7, *"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control."* You were not operating in the freedom Christ has given you when you said yes, and now the consequences of that choice are causing turmoil in your home and heart.

The conflict with your mother is especially heavy, and we grieve with you over the spiritual oppression she is under. The enemy seeks to divide and destroy families, and his influence in her life is evident. But we take comfort in knowing that *"the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strongholds"* (2 Corinthians 10:4). Her resistance to this club—and likely other areas of godly order—may stem from deep spiritual bondage, and we must stand in the gap for her with prayer and truth.

First, we must address the practical matter of the event tomorrow. If your mother has indeed communicated your absence to the organizer, then you are not obligated to attend. However, if there is doubt about whether that conversation took place, it would be wise to reach out directly to confirm. Proverbs 13:17 says, *"A wicked messenger falls into trouble, but a trustworthy envoy gains healing."* Clear communication honors God and prevents misunderstandings. If you do need to withdraw, do so with humility and gratitude, acknowledging that the timing and circumstances are not aligning as you had hoped.

But beyond the immediate situation, we must pray for deeper healing and deliverance. Your mother’s demonization is a serious matter, and it requires fervent, persistent prayer. We rebuke the spirits of confusion, rebellion, and division in Jesus’ name, declaring that they have no place in her life or your home. Jesus came to *"set the captives free"* (Luke 4:18), and we claim that freedom for her now. We also pray for your protection, as the enemy often targets those who are standing for truth and righteousness in their families. Ephesians 6:12 reminds us, *"For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."*

We also encourage you to examine your own heart in this. Fear has held too much power over your decisions, and that is an area where the Lord wants to bring freedom. Psalm 34:4 says, *"I sought the Lord, and he answered me, and delivered me from all my fears."* You do not have to live under the weight of people-pleasing or anxiety. God has given you a spirit of power, and as you grow in trusting Him, you will find the courage to make decisions that align with His will, not the expectations of others.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name. We lift up this dear sister and her mother to You, asking for Your mercy, wisdom, and intervention. Lord, we rebuke the spirit of fear that led her to join this club and ask that You break its hold over her life. Replace her anxiety with Your perfect peace, and give her the courage to walk in the freedom You have purchased for her.

We also pray for her mother, Lord. We recognize the spiritual oppression she is under, and we command every demonic influence to leave her in Jesus’ name. We declare that she is a daughter of the Most High God, and no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Bring deliverance, healing, and restoration to her mind, emotions, and spirit. Surround her with godly influences and open her heart to receive Your truth.

Father, we ask for clarity regarding the event tomorrow. If it is Your will for them to attend, soften hearts and make a way. If not, provide a gracious and honorable exit. Give this sister the words to communicate with love and wisdom, and guard her from any backlash or guilt.

Lord, we also pray for this church club. If it is Your will for it to continue, raise up leaders who will steward it with godly wisdom and discernment. If it is not bearing good fruit, expose any ungodly influences and bring it into alignment with Your purposes.

Finally, Father, we ask that You strengthen this sister’s faith. Teach her to walk in the authority You have given her as a believer, and help her to make decisions rooted in Your Word, not in fear. Surround her with a community of believers who will encourage and support her in her walk with You.

We thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayer. We trust in Your goodness and Your power to work all things together for good for those who love You (Romans 8:28). In Jesus’ precious and powerful name, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, sister. It's tough when we feel trapped in situations we didn't choose, and the weight of expectations can be heavy indeed. But remember, God is always with you, and He wants to set you free.

First, let's pray for clarity about tomorrow's event. Lord, if it's Your will for them to attend, please soften hearts and make a way. If not, provide a gracious and honorable exit. Give this sister the right words to communicate with love and wisdom, and guard her from any guilt or backlash.

Now, let's also pray for your mother. Lord, we know she's struggling under spiritual oppression. We command every demonic influence to leave her in Jesus' name. We declare that she is Your daughter, and no weapon formed against her shall prosper. Bring healing, deliverance, and restoration to her mind, emotions, and spirit. Surround her with godly influences and open her heart to receive Your truth.

Lastly, let's pray for you, dear sister. Lord, help her to trust in You and not in fear. Give her the courage to make decisions that align with Your will, not the expectations of others. Teach her to walk in the authority You've given her as a believer.

We trust in Your goodness and power to work all things together for good for those who love You. In Jesus' precious and powerful name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Powers]

"So do not fear, for I am with you;
do not be dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you and help you;
I will uphold you with My righteous right Hand" (Isaiah 41:10)

I prayed with you for this, in Jesus' powerful Name, Amen.

Proverbs 3:5-6: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight".

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[Wernad]

Heavenly Father, we lift up Your child who is carrying the heavy burden of a decision made under pressure and the stress it has caused in their family. You see the fear that led them to say yes when they wanted to say no, and You understand the turmoil they are facing now with their mother and this club commitment. Wrap them in Your peace that passes all understanding.

Lord, we ask for Your wisdom and guidance for tomorrow's event. Your Word promises in **James 1:5: "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you."** Show them clearly what to do—whether to attend, to communicate with the leader, or to simply release this burden at Your feet. Give them the right words to say and the courage to say them.

Father, we also pray for their mother. You know the spiritual and emotional battles she is facing. We stand on the truth of **2 Timothy 1:7: "For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline."** We speak against any spirit of fear, confusion, or division in their home. Bring healing to their mother's mind and heart, and restore peace to their relationship.

Finally, Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness and grace to cover the decision to join this club. If it is Your will for them to step away, open that door clearly and let them walk through it without guilt or shame. Help them to learn from this experience and grow in boldness, knowing that **"The fear of man lays a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord is safe" (Proverbs 29:25)**.

We entrust this entire situation into Your capable hands. In Jesus' name, we pray.

Amen.