We hear your heart and the deep struggle you’ve been walking through, and we stand with you in prayer and truth. The spiritual warfare you describe is real, and the enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy—especially in the areas of forgiveness, trust, and your relationship with the body of Christ. But we declare that Jesus has already disarmed the powers of darkness through His victory on the cross (Colossians 2:15), and His light is greater than any darkness you face.
First, we must address the weight of unforgiveness, bitterness, and even hatred that you’ve carried. Scripture is clear: *"Looking carefully lest there be any man who falls short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it"* (Hebrews 12:15). These emotions are not just personal struggles—they are footholds the enemy uses to keep you bound. But God has delivered you before, and He will do it again. We rebuke the spirit of unforgiveness in Jesus’ name and command it to loose its grip on your heart. You are not responsible for the evil others have done, but you *are* responsible for your response. *"Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:32). This is not a suggestion—it is a command, and it is for *your* freedom.
The attacks you describe at church, especially after communion, are not coincidences. Communion is a sacred act of remembrance and unity with Christ, and the enemy *hates* it. But do not fear—*"The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?"* (Psalm 27:1). When anxiety rises, declare the truth: *"He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world"* (1 John 4:4). We pray that God would give you discernment to recognize these attacks for what they are—distractions from the enemy—and that you would not shrink back from participating in communion out of fear. Instead, prepare your heart beforehand with prayer and the Word, and trust that God’s presence is your protection.
We also want to gently challenge the speculation about others’ absences or motives. While spiritual warfare is real, we must be careful not to assume we fully understand what God is doing in someone else’s life. *"The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked; who can know it?"* (Jeremiah 17:9). Our role is not to diagnose others but to walk in love, extend grace, and trust God’s sovereignty. If you feel led, you could reach out in love to those you’re concerned about—but do so with humility, not accusation.
For those who persist in harmful behavior, we pray for your heart to remain steadfast in the truth God has shown you. The enemy will try to make you doubt, but remember: *"No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that accuses you in judgment. This is the heritage of the Lord’s servants, and their righteousness is from Me," says the Lord* (Isaiah 54:17). You are not responsible for their choices, but you *are* responsible for guarding your heart. If necessary, seek wise counsel from a pastor or mature believer who can help you navigate these relationships with biblical wisdom.
Finally, we must address the foundation of your faith. It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father (John 14:6), and there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not already, we encourage you to examine your heart and ensure that your trust is fully in Christ alone for salvation. The enemy will try to shake your faith in every area, but Jesus is the same yesterday, today, and forever (Hebrews 13:8). Cling to Him.
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name. We lift up our brother/sister to You, knowing that You see every battle they’ve faced and every lie the enemy has whispered. Lord, we ask that You would break every chain of unforgiveness, bitterness, and hatred that has taken root in their heart. Fill them with Your love, which covers a multitude of sins (1 Peter 4:8). Where the enemy has sown division, bring healing and restoration. Where fear has crept in, replace it with Your perfect peace (Isaiah 26:3).
Father, we rebuke the spirit of spiritual warfare that has targeted their mind, their emotions, and their church community. We declare that no weapon formed against them will prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that You have given them the authority to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy (Luke 10:19). Strengthen them to stand firm in the truth, even when others behave in ways that test their faith. Give them discernment to recognize the enemy’s schemes and the wisdom to respond with Your love and grace.
Lord, we pray specifically for their experience at church. Where there has been hurt, bring healing. Where there has been confusion, bring clarity. Where there has been fear, bring courage. Help them to approach communion with confidence, knowing that it is a sacred act of remembrance and unity with Christ. Protect their heart from anxiety and fill them with the assurance that You are with them always (Matthew 28:20).
We ask that You would surround them with godly community—believers who will encourage them, pray for them, and walk alongside them in this battle. Give them the strength to forgive those who have wronged them, just as You have forgiven them (Colossians 3:13). And where they have questioned Your leading, restore their trust in You completely.
Above all, Lord, we pray that their faith would be anchored in You alone. Remind them daily of Your goodness, Your faithfulness, and Your power. May they find their identity and security in Christ, knowing that nothing can separate them from Your love (Romans 8:38-39).
We thank You, Father, for Your deliverance and for the victory that is already theirs in Jesus. We declare that the enemy’s plans will not prevail, and that Your purposes for their life will be fulfilled. Strengthen them, Lord, and let them walk in the freedom You have purchased for them.
In the powerful, matchless name of Jesus we pray, Amen.