We hear the deep pain and torment in your words, and our hearts grieve with you. The attacks you describe are not only cruel but rooted in spiritual warfare, where the enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). The hatred and threats you’ve endured from these women and children are not of God, He is a God of love, not condemnation, and His Word declares that every life has inherent value and purpose, regardless of marital or parental status (Genesis 1:27, Jeremiah 1:5).
First, we must address the grave sin in the hearts of those who have spoken such wickedness over you. To declare that a woman is "worthless" or "deserves to die" simply because she does not have children is a lie straight from the pit of hell. The Bible does not measure a woman’s worth by her fertility or role as a mother. Sarah was barren for decades before God fulfilled His promise (Genesis 18:14), and women like Deborah (Judges 4-5), Esther, and Anna the prophetess (Luke 2:36-38) served God mightily outside of motherhood. Your value is found in Christ alone, who created you, redeemed you, and calls you His own (Ephesians 2:10). We rebuke the spirit of condemnation and death that has been spoken over you in Jesus’ name. Those words have no power unless you give them place, do not receive them, for they are not from God (Proverbs 18:21).
We also recognize the demonic assignment against you through children. The enemy often uses the innocent or vulnerable as tools for his schemes, but we declare that God can and will turn this around for your good (Romans 8:28). Children are a blessing from the Lord (Psalm 127:3), and we pray that He would redeem their presence in your life. May He open doors for you to pour into young lives in a way that brings you joy and them edification, whether through mentorship, teaching, or simply showing them the love of Christ. We bind the spirit of harassment, gaslighting, and torment operating through these children and command it to cease in Jesus’ name. The enemy may have used them to wound you, but God can use them to heal you.
We must also address the spiritual stronghold of bitterness, fear, or trauma that may have taken root in your heart from these attacks. The Bible warns us not to be overcome by evil but to overcome evil with good (Romans 12:21). Forgiveness does not mean what they did was okay, it means you are releasing them to God’s justice and refusing to let their sin control your heart. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you forgive, even if it feels impossible right now. Unforgiveness is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die; it only harms you.
Now, we lift you up in prayer:
Father God, we come before You on behalf of our sister, standing in the gap for her against the schemes of the devil. Lord, You see the pain, the fear, and the injustice she has endured. We ask that You would be her shield and defender (Psalm 3:3). Break every curse spoken over her life, and let every word of blessing take root in her heart. We declare that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), chosen by You (1 Peter 2:9), and deeply loved (Zephaniah 3:17). Heal the wounds inflicted by these words and actions, and replace every lie with Your truth.
We pray against the spirit of torment operating through these children and women. Lord, we ask that You would disrupt the enemy’s plans and turn his weapons into tools for Your glory. Let the children who have been used to harm her become vessels of blessing in her life. Open doors for her to speak life, encouragement, and truth into young hearts, and let her experience the joy of investing in the next generation in a way that honors You.
Father, we ask that You would surround her with godly community, believers who will speak truth, pray for her, and remind her of her worth in Christ. Protect her mind from the lies of the enemy, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Strengthen her to forgive those who have hurt her, not because they deserve it, but because You have forgiven her (Colossians 3:13). Let her walk in the freedom that comes from knowing her identity is secure in You.
We also pray for the women who have spoken such hatred. Soften their hearts, Lord, and reveal to them the gravity of their words. Convict them of the sin of pride, judgment, and murderous intent (Matthew 5:22). Lead them to repentance and to a true understanding of Your love for all people, regardless of their life circumstances.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would use this season of pain for her good. Let her testimony be one of redemption, where You turn ashes into beauty (Isaiah 61:3). May she find her worth, purpose, and joy in You alone. We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and that You will restore to her the years the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25).
We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the One who has conquered sin and death. Amen.
To our sister reading this: You are not worthless. You are not forgotten. You are not without purpose. The enemy wants you to believe that your value is tied to what you do or don’t have, but God says your value is tied to what He has already done for you. He sent His Son to die for you while you were still a sinner (Romans 5:8). That is how much you are loved. Do not let the enemy steal your joy or your identity. Stand on the truth of God’s Word, and surround yourself with people who will remind you of it. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in Him, and receive the gift of salvation (Romans 10:9). Only in Him will you find true healing and purpose.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
