Moreelfainwood
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Pray for the child abuse that my family did to me and my parents and kids and my grandkids in the name of Jesus Christ amen
Child abuse
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Our hearts break for the pain and suffering that has been passed down through your family, and we grieve with you over the deep wounds caused by abuse. The cycle of sin and brokenness is something that only God can fully heal, and we stand with you in crying out to Him for justice, restoration, and redemption. The Bible tells us in **Exodus 20:5** that the iniquities of the fathers are visited upon the children to the third and fourth generation, but we also know that God is a God of mercy, who desires to break these chains through repentance and His transforming power.
First, we want to acknowledge the courage it takes to bring this before the Lord. Abuse is an evil that contradicts everything God intends for families—love, protection, and nurturing. **Psalm 10:17-18** says, *"You, Yahweh, have heard the desire of the humble. You will prepare their heart. You will cause your ear to hear, to judge the fatherless and the oppressed, that man who is of the earth may terrify no more."* God sees the afflicted, and He is near to the brokenhearted (**Psalm 34:18**). He does not turn away from your pain, nor does He excuse the sins of those who have harmed you or others in your family.
We must also address the need for repentance—both for those who have committed these acts and for any bitterness or unforgiveness that may have taken root in your own heart. **Ephesians 4:31-32** commands us: *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* Forgiveness does not mean excusing the abuse or pretending it didn’t happen. Instead, it is releasing the debt of the offender to God, who alone can judge righteously. This is a process, and it may require godly counseling and time, but it is essential for your own healing.
If you have not already, we urge you to seek help from trusted Christian counselors or pastors who can walk with you through this. Abuse leaves deep scars, and healing often requires both spiritual and practical support. **James 5:16** tells us to *"confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective."* You do not have to carry this burden alone.
For those in your family who have perpetuated this abuse—including your parents, and possibly others—we pray that God would bring conviction to their hearts. **Acts 3:19** says, *"Repent therefore, and turn again, that your sins may be blotted out, so that there may come times of refreshing from the presence of the Lord."* True repentance involves turning away from sin and seeking to make amends where possible. If they are still alive, we pray that they would humble themselves before God and seek forgiveness from those they have harmed.
As for your children and grandchildren, we pray that God would break the generational curse of abuse in your family line. **Ezekiel 18:20** reminds us that *"the son will not bear the iniquity of the father, nor will the father bear the iniquity of the son."* While the effects of sin can linger, each person is responsible before God for their own choices. We ask the Lord to surround your descendants with His protection and to raise up godly influences in their lives—people who will model Christ’s love and break the cycle of harm. We pray that they would come to know Jesus as their Savior and find their identity in Him, not in the brokenness of their family’s past.
We also pray for you specifically—that God would restore what has been stolen from you. **Joel 2:25** promises, *"I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten."* This may look like healing from trauma, the ability to trust again, or the strength to build healthy relationships. God is not distant from your pain; He is near, and He longs to redeem your story for His glory.
Finally, we want to remind you that your worth is not defined by what has been done to you or by the sins of your family. You are fearfully and wonderfully made in the image of God (**Psalm 139:14**), and if you have placed your faith in Jesus Christ, you are a new creation (**2 Corinthians 5:17**). The blood of Jesus is powerful enough to wash away every sin—including the sins committed against you—and to bring healing where there has been deep wounding.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother/sister who has suffered greatly at the hands of those who should have protected and loved them. Lord, You see the pain, the betrayal, and the lasting effects of this abuse, and we ask that You would meet them in this place of brokenness. Comfort them with Your presence, as only You can. Remind them that they are not forgotten, that their tears are collected in Your bottle (**Psalm 56:8**), and that You are near to the crushed in spirit.
We pray for justice, Lord—not vengeance, but Your righteous judgment. Expose the deeds done in darkness and bring conviction to those who have committed these acts. Soften their hearts to repentance, and if they refuse, let Your justice prevail. Protect the innocent, especially the children and grandchildren in this family line. Break the generational curses, Lord, and let Your mercy triumph over judgment. Raise up godly mentors, pastors, and counselors to speak truth and love into their lives.
Father, we ask for healing—deep, supernatural healing—for our brother/sister. Heal the wounds of their heart, mind, and soul. Restore what has been stolen, and replace their shame with the robe of Your righteousness. If they struggle with bitterness or unforgiveness, give them the strength to release it to You. Fill them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (**Philippians 4:7**), and help them to walk in forgiveness, not for the sake of those who hurt them, but for their own freedom in Christ.
We pray that You would surround them with a community of believers who can walk with them through this healing journey. Give them wisdom to seek help where it is needed, whether through counseling, support groups, or godly friendship. Let them know that they are not alone, and that Your church is called to bear one another’s burdens (**Galatians 6:2**).
For the children and grandchildren, we ask that You would be their defender and their shield. Draw them to Yourself, Lord, and let them know Your love in a tangible way. Break any cycles of abuse or sin in their lives, and let them walk in the freedom and purity of Your truth. If they have been harmed, bring healing and restoration. If they are at risk, place Your angels around them for protection (**Psalm 91:11**).
We declare that the enemy has no claim over this family line. The blood of Jesus speaks a better word (**Hebrews 12:24**), and we stand on the promise that *"no weapon formed against you will prosper"* (**Isaiah 54:17**). We break every generational curse in the name of Jesus Christ and declare that this family will serve the Lord (**Joshua 24:15**).
Thank You, Father, for Your faithfulness. Thank You that You are a God who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (**Psalm 147:3**). We trust You to bring beauty from these ashes (**Isaiah 61:3**), and we pray all of this in the powerful and mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord daily, immersing yourself in His Word, and surrounding yourself with believers who can support you. If you have not already, consider sharing your story with a trusted pastor or Christian counselor who can help you process this pain in a healthy, biblical way. You are not defined by your past, but by the redemptive work of Christ in you. Keep pressing into Him, and trust that He is making all things new (**Revelation 21:5**).
First, we want to acknowledge the courage it takes to bring this before the Lord. Abuse is an evil that contradicts everything God intends for families—love, protection, and nurturing. **Psalm 10:17-18** says, *"You, Yahweh, have heard the desire of the humble. You will prepare their heart. You will cause your ear to hear, to judge the fatherless and the oppressed, that man who is of the earth may terrify no more."* God sees the afflicted, and He is near to the brokenhearted (**Psalm 34:18**). He does not turn away from your pain, nor does He excuse the sins of those who have harmed you or others in your family.
We must also address the need for repentance—both for those who have committed these acts and for any bitterness or unforgiveness that may have taken root in your own heart. **Ephesians 4:31-32** commands us: *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* Forgiveness does not mean excusing the abuse or pretending it didn’t happen. Instead, it is releasing the debt of the offender to God, who alone can judge righteously. This is a process, and it may require godly counseling and time, but it is essential for your own healing.
If you have not already, we urge you to seek help from trusted Christian counselors or pastors who can walk with you through this. Abuse leaves deep scars, and healing often requires both spiritual and practical support. **James 5:16** tells us to *"confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective."* You do not have to carry this burden alone.
For those in your family who have perpetuated this abuse—including your parents, and possibly others—we pray that God would bring conviction to their hearts. **Acts 3:19** says, *"Repent therefore, and turn again, that your sins may be blotted out, so that there may come times of refreshing from the presence of the Lord."* True repentance involves turning away from sin and seeking to make amends where possible. If they are still alive, we pray that they would humble themselves before God and seek forgiveness from those they have harmed.
As for your children and grandchildren, we pray that God would break the generational curse of abuse in your family line. **Ezekiel 18:20** reminds us that *"the son will not bear the iniquity of the father, nor will the father bear the iniquity of the son."* While the effects of sin can linger, each person is responsible before God for their own choices. We ask the Lord to surround your descendants with His protection and to raise up godly influences in their lives—people who will model Christ’s love and break the cycle of harm. We pray that they would come to know Jesus as their Savior and find their identity in Him, not in the brokenness of their family’s past.
We also pray for you specifically—that God would restore what has been stolen from you. **Joel 2:25** promises, *"I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten."* This may look like healing from trauma, the ability to trust again, or the strength to build healthy relationships. God is not distant from your pain; He is near, and He longs to redeem your story for His glory.
Finally, we want to remind you that your worth is not defined by what has been done to you or by the sins of your family. You are fearfully and wonderfully made in the image of God (**Psalm 139:14**), and if you have placed your faith in Jesus Christ, you are a new creation (**2 Corinthians 5:17**). The blood of Jesus is powerful enough to wash away every sin—including the sins committed against you—and to bring healing where there has been deep wounding.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother/sister who has suffered greatly at the hands of those who should have protected and loved them. Lord, You see the pain, the betrayal, and the lasting effects of this abuse, and we ask that You would meet them in this place of brokenness. Comfort them with Your presence, as only You can. Remind them that they are not forgotten, that their tears are collected in Your bottle (**Psalm 56:8**), and that You are near to the crushed in spirit.
We pray for justice, Lord—not vengeance, but Your righteous judgment. Expose the deeds done in darkness and bring conviction to those who have committed these acts. Soften their hearts to repentance, and if they refuse, let Your justice prevail. Protect the innocent, especially the children and grandchildren in this family line. Break the generational curses, Lord, and let Your mercy triumph over judgment. Raise up godly mentors, pastors, and counselors to speak truth and love into their lives.
Father, we ask for healing—deep, supernatural healing—for our brother/sister. Heal the wounds of their heart, mind, and soul. Restore what has been stolen, and replace their shame with the robe of Your righteousness. If they struggle with bitterness or unforgiveness, give them the strength to release it to You. Fill them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (**Philippians 4:7**), and help them to walk in forgiveness, not for the sake of those who hurt them, but for their own freedom in Christ.
We pray that You would surround them with a community of believers who can walk with them through this healing journey. Give them wisdom to seek help where it is needed, whether through counseling, support groups, or godly friendship. Let them know that they are not alone, and that Your church is called to bear one another’s burdens (**Galatians 6:2**).
For the children and grandchildren, we ask that You would be their defender and their shield. Draw them to Yourself, Lord, and let them know Your love in a tangible way. Break any cycles of abuse or sin in their lives, and let them walk in the freedom and purity of Your truth. If they have been harmed, bring healing and restoration. If they are at risk, place Your angels around them for protection (**Psalm 91:11**).
We declare that the enemy has no claim over this family line. The blood of Jesus speaks a better word (**Hebrews 12:24**), and we stand on the promise that *"no weapon formed against you will prosper"* (**Isaiah 54:17**). We break every generational curse in the name of Jesus Christ and declare that this family will serve the Lord (**Joshua 24:15**).
Thank You, Father, for Your faithfulness. Thank You that You are a God who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (**Psalm 147:3**). We trust You to bring beauty from these ashes (**Isaiah 61:3**), and we pray all of this in the powerful and mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord daily, immersing yourself in His Word, and surrounding yourself with believers who can support you. If you have not already, consider sharing your story with a trusted pastor or Christian counselor who can help you process this pain in a healthy, biblical way. You are not defined by your past, but by the redemptive work of Christ in you. Keep pressing into Him, and trust that He is making all things new (**Revelation 21:5**).
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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We're so sorry to hear about the pain you've experienced and the generational cycle of abuse in your family. We want you to know that we're here to support you and pray with you. We believe that God sees your pain and is close to the brokenhearted. In Jesus' name, we ask for healing, justice, and restoration for you and your family.
We pray that God would bring conviction to the hearts of those who have caused harm, that they might repent and seek forgiveness. We also pray for your children and grandchildren, asking God to break the generational curse of abuse and to protect and bless them.
We encourage you to keep seeking God daily, surrounding yourself with believers who can support you, and considering sharing your story with a trusted pastor or Christian counselor. You are not alone, and God is with you every step of the way.
We pray that God would bring conviction to the hearts of those who have caused harm, that they might repent and seek forgiveness. We also pray for your children and grandchildren, asking God to break the generational curse of abuse and to protect and bless them.
We encourage you to keep seeking God daily, surrounding yourself with believers who can support you, and considering sharing your story with a trusted pastor or Christian counselor. You are not alone, and God is with you every step of the way.
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