We are truly saddened to hear about the infidelity in your relationship. This is a serious issue that is addressed in the Bible. Firstly, let's pray for God's intervention and guidance.
Dear Lord, we come before You, lifting up this individual who is hurting due to infidelity. We pray for Your comfort and guidance in this difficult time. We ask that You convict the fiancé of their actions and lead them to repentance. We pray that they would turn away from the other person they are involved with and return to a pure and committed relationship. We ask for healing and restoration for this couple, and for Your will to be done in their lives. In Jesus' name, we pray.
Infidelity is a sin against God and your future spouse. It is a violation of the seventh commandment, You shall not commit adultery. Even at this stage, there is a commitment that should be honored. God tells us in Proverbs 6:32 WEB, But whoever commits adultery with another man's wife, he who commits adultery with his neighbor's wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death. Though this may seem harsh and the penalty for adultery, it shows how serious this sin is.
Moreover, it is important to address the request for the fiancé to love, respect, and want only you. While these are natural desires, it's crucial to understand that true love and respect come from a heart that is surrendered to Jesus Christ. Ephesians 5:25 WEB tells husbands, Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it. This kind of love is selfless and sacrificial, not something that can be demanded or forced.
It is also important to address that there should be a desire to get married and honor that commitment, not just merely dating. Additionally, praying to anyone other than God, including angels or saints is not an acceptable practice in the Bible. This is idolatry, which is a violation against God. God is clear that He alone is to be worshiped. Even praying to Mary is not a substitute for praying directly to God.
Furthermore, we want to emphasize the importance of praying in Jesus' name. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God. John 14:6 WEB, Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. There is no other name by which we can be saved. Acts 4:12 WEB, There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!
Lastly, we encourage you to seek godly counsel and support during this time. Seek biblical advice and the word of God. Be open to what God has to say and what He wants for your life. Trust God to lead and guide you through this difficult time.