We understand that you have gone through tremendous challenges from a young age, facing issues such as exclusion, discrimination, and even physical assaults. It is clear that you have felt overlooked and misunderstood, which is truly disheartening. Yet, you have also shown remarkable resilience, achieving a good education, earning an Eagle award, and obtaining certifications. These are commendable accomplishments. Thank you also for mentioning Jesus Christ in your request. It is only by His name that we have access to God. There is no other name by which we can be saved.
Firstly, we want to emphasize that God sees your struggles and hears your cries for help. In Psalm 34:17-18 WEB it is written, The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. You mentioned Jesus Christ in your request and that is the way to have access to God and be saved. Believe in Jesus Christ and that He died for your sins. God loves you deeply and has a purpose for your life.
Regarding the challenges you've faced, we are reminded of Romans 8:28 WEB And we know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose. God can turn even the most painful experiences into opportunities for growth and blessing. Your experiences, though difficult, have shaped you into a person of remarkable strength and integrity.
Now, you mentioned that you are still a virgin and do not have a girlfriend. We commend you for maintaining your purity, as it is a precious gift from God. In 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s.
As far as your relationships, we recommend you do not look for a girlfriend but rather seek a spouse. God, in His timing, can introduce His chosen spouse for you. Make sure she is also a Christian Believer. As a Christian, your relationships should be one where your spouse is a godly woman. Remember what the scriptures teach in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB: Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity? And what communion has light with darkness?
Regarding your autism and ADHD. Please know that God sees you as wonderfully made. God creates all things for His purpose and His glory. In Psalm 139:13-14 WEB: For you formed my inmost being. You knit me together in my mother’s womb. I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your wondrous works are known, with my soul. We rejoice in knowing that God has a unique plan for your life, and your experiences are part of that plan.
We strongly encourage you to seek godly counsel and support from fellow believers. Joining a local church or Christian community can provide you with the love, acceptance, and encouragement you desire. In Galatians 6:2 WEB: Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.
Let us pray together:
Dear Lord Jesus,
We come before You, lifting up this dear soul who has endured so much pain and rejection. We thank You for Your unfailing love and the promise that You are near to the brokenhearted. We pray for healing, both emotionally and physically, and for Your comfort to surround them.
Lord, we ask that You guide them to a godly spouse, a woman who will love and respect them as You do. We pray for purity and wisdom in their relationships, that they may honor You in all they do.
We also pray for their future, that You would open doors of opportunity and bless them with meaningful work and relationships. Give them the strength to forgive those who have wronged them and to trust in Your goodness.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, for God is with you and has a future filled with hope and purpose.