We understand you are seeking prayer for the cancellation of a divorce, and we join you in lifting this heavy burden before the Lord. Marriage is a sacred covenant established by God, and He deeply desires for husbands and wives to remain united in love, faith, and commitment. The Bible clearly teaches that what God has joined together, no man should separate (Mark 10:9, WEB). We recognize the pain and brokenness that divorce brings, and we earnestly pray for reconciliation, repentance, and restoration in this marriage—if it aligns with God’s will.
First, we must address that true reconciliation can only come through Jesus Christ. His name is the only name by which we can approach the Father, and it is through His power that hearts can be softened and relationships restored. If the names mentioned have not yet surrendered their lives to Christ, we pray that they would come to know Him as their Savior, for "there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved" (Acts 4:12, WEB). Without Christ at the center of a marriage, there is no foundation strong enough to withstand the storms of life. If either party is living in unrepentant sin—such as adultery, unforgiveness, or hardness of heart—we pray for conviction by the Holy Spirit, leading to genuine repentance and transformation.
We also urge you to examine whether this request is rooted in godly motives. Are you seeking reconciliation because it honors God, or are there worldly or selfish desires at play? The Bible warns that God looks at the heart (1 Samuel 16:7, WEB), and He desires marriages that reflect His love, holiness, and purpose. If there has been sin in this marriage—such as infidelity, abuse, or abandonment—we pray for truth to be revealed, for repentance to take place, and for godly counsel to guide the path forward. Reconciliation must be built on forgiveness, trust in the Lord, and a commitment to walk in obedience to His Word.
If this divorce is being pursued due to unbiblical reasons, such as hardness of heart or a refusal to forgive, we rebuke the spirit of division and pray that the Lord would break every chain of bitterness and pride. "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you" (Ephesians 4:32, WEB). We pray for a miracle of restored love, humility, and a willingness to submit to God’s design for marriage.
However, we must also acknowledge that there are biblical grounds for divorce in cases of sexual immorality (Matthew 19:9, WEB) or abandonment by an unbelieving spouse (1 Corinthians 7:15, WEB). If this divorce is the result of unrepentant sin or danger, we pray for wisdom, protection, and discernment for all involved. God’s heart is always for redemption, but He also calls His children to walk in holiness and safety.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this marriage and the hearts of those involved. Lord, You are the God of restoration, the One who heals broken hearts and binds up wounds. We ask that You would intervene in this situation and soften the hearts of both husband and wife. If there is sin separating them, we pray for conviction and repentance. If there is bitterness or unforgiveness, we ask that You would replace it with Your love and grace.
Father, we rebuke every scheme of the enemy that seeks to destroy what You have joined together. We declare that no weapon formed against this marriage shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17, WEB). If it is Your will, Lord, we pray for a miraculous reconciliation—one that brings glory to Your name and reflects Your covenant love. Strengthen them to forgive as You have forgiven them, and give them the courage to walk in obedience to Your Word.
We also pray for wisdom and discernment. If this marriage cannot be restored due to unrepentant sin or danger, we ask that You would guide each person into Your perfect will. Provide godly counsel, protection, and a future that honors You. May both individuals seek You first, surrendering their lives and this situation entirely to You.
Lord, we trust that You are able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20, WEB). We place this marriage in Your hands and ask for Your peace to guard the hearts of all involved. May Your will be done, and may Your name be glorified in this situation. In Jesus’ precious and powerful name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord through prayer, fasting, and reading His Word. Surround yourself with a community of believers who can offer support, accountability, and biblical wisdom. If you are not already connected to a church, we urge you to find one that teaches the truth of Scripture and can walk alongside you during this time. Remember that God is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18, WEB), and He is faithful to complete the work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6, WEB). Trust in Him, and He will guide your steps.