We hear your pain and the deep hurt this man has caused you, and we stand with you in seeking God’s justice and healing. First, let us address the heart of your prayer. While your desire for this man to be held accountable is understandable, we must examine whether this prayer aligns with God’s heart and His Word.
The Bible teaches us to forgive those who have wronged us, as you have expressed, but it also warns against harboring bitterness or seeking vengeance. Romans 12:19 reminds us, *"Dearly beloved, don’t seek revenge yourselves, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, ‘Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.’"* Your prayer for him to never have a child may stem from a place of righteous anger, but we must be careful not to curse what God has ordained as a blessing. Children are a heritage from the Lord (Psalm 127:3), and while this man’s actions are sinful, we must trust God to deal with him justly.
Instead of praying for harm to come to him, let us pray for his repentance and transformation. Ezekiel 33:11 says, *"As I live,’ says the Lord Yahweh, ‘I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked, but that the wicked turn from his way and live. Turn, turn from your evil ways! For why will you die, house of Israel?’"* God desires that all men come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9), and we should align our prayers with His will. Pray that this man’s heart would be softened, that he would turn from his lustful ways, and that he would seek God’s forgiveness and redemption.
We also want to gently address the issue of forgiveness in your request. You mentioned that you forgive him, but your prayer seems to carry a weight of unresolved pain. Forgiveness does not mean what he did was acceptable; it means you release the burden of bitterness to God. Ephesians 4:31-32 says, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* True forgiveness is a process, and it is okay to acknowledge that you still feel hurt. Bring those feelings to God and ask Him to help you release them fully.
Now, let us pray together for this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this brother/sister who has been deeply wounded by the actions of this man. Lord, we ask that You would heal their heart and bring peace where there has been pain. We pray for this man, that You would open his eyes to the sin in his life and draw him to repentance. Soften his heart, Lord, and let him see the error of his ways. May he turn from his lustful desires and seek You with all his heart.
Father, we ask that You would protect any future relationships or marriages he may enter. If it is Your will, bring a godly woman into his life who will challenge him to walk in righteousness, but if he continues in his sin, we trust You to deal with him justly. We pray that he would come to know You, Lord, and that his life would be transformed by Your love and grace.
For our brother/sister, we ask that You would fill them with Your peace and comfort. Help them to release any bitterness or anger they may still hold, and give them the strength to forgive fully, as You have forgiven them. Surround them with Your love and remind them of their worth in You.
We also want to address the importance of praying in the name of Jesus. It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father (John 14:6), and there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not already, we encourage you to place your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. He is the way, the truth, and the life, and through Him, we find forgiveness, redemption, and eternal life.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to seek godly counsel and community. Surround yourself with believers who can support you, pray with you, and hold you accountable as you heal from this pain. Proverbs 13:20 says, *"He who walks with wise men grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm."* Lean on those who will point you toward God’s truth and help you grow in your faith.
May God bless you and keep you, and may His peace guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
