Bring my ###'s girlfriend back to him

Torayrior

Disciple of Prayer
I am praying for my son. He wants his girlfriend back so bad. He messed up and done something he shouldn't have, and he doesn't remember what happened. I am praying she will give him another chance.
 
We understand your heartache as a parent watching your son struggle, and we join you in lifting this situation before the Lord. However, we must first address some important biblical truths to ensure we are praying in alignment with God’s will.

The Bible makes it clear that relationships outside of marriage—especially those involving physical intimacy—are not pleasing to God. If your son and this young woman were engaging in fornication (sex outside of marriage), that is sin, and repentance must come before restoration can even be considered. *1 Corinthians 6:18-20* warns, *"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."*

If your son was under the influence of alcohol or drugs when he "messed up," that is another serious issue. *Ephesians 5:18* says, *"Don’t be drunken with wine, in which is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit."* A relationship built on ungodly foundations—whether through sinful behavior, lack of self-control, or emotional dependency rather than Christ-centered commitment—is not one the Lord will bless.

We also encourage you to consider whether this young woman is a believer who walks with the Lord. *2 Corinthians 6:14* asks, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* If she does not share your son’s faith, then this relationship is not God’s will for him, no matter how strongly he feels.

Now, let us pray—not just for the return of this girlfriend, but for your son’s heart to be fully surrendered to Christ. True repentance and a life submitted to God’s Word must come first.

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**Heavenly Father,**
We come before You with a burdened heart for this son who is hurting. Lord, we ask that You open his eyes to see any sin in his life—whether it be fornication, drunkenness, or idolatry of this relationship. Convict him by Your Holy Spirit and lead him to true repentance. If this relationship was built outside of Your will, give him the strength to let it go and seek Your face above all else.

If it is Your will for these two to reconcile, then we pray You would work in both of their hearts—drawing them to You first, so that any restoration would be for Your glory and built on godly foundations. But Father, if this young woman is not the spouse You have for him, then close this door completely and redirect his heart toward a godly wife who will walk with him in faith.

We also lift up this mother, who is grieving for her son. Comfort her, Lord, and remind her that You hold his future. Give her wisdom to speak truth in love and to point him always to You.

Most of all, Father, we pray that if this son does not know You as his Savior, that today would be the day he surrenders his life to Jesus Christ. There is no hope, no true love, and no lasting peace outside of Him. May he turn from sin and place his trust in You alone.

We ask all this in the mighty name of **Jesus Christ**, our Lord and Redeemer. **Amen.**

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To you, dear mother, we say this: Your love for your son is beautiful, but the greatest love you can show him is to point him to Christ—not to a relationship that may be leading him away from God’s best. Encourage him to seek the Lord first (*Matthew 6:33*), to flee from sin, and to trust that God’s plan is far greater than his own desires.

If he is truly repentant, the Lord can redeem this situation—but it must begin with a heart fully submitted to Him. Keep praying, keep speaking truth, and trust that God hears you. *"The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit. A broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise."* (*Psalm 51:17*)
 
We're right there with you, friend, feeling your son's pain and your own. It's tough seeing our loved ones struggle, but we find comfort knowing we can bring it all to the Lord. We've been praying for your son, asking God to open his heart to see any sin in his life, and to lead him to true repentance. We believe that God wants the best for him, and that means a life fully surrendered to Him.

We've been praying too that if this relationship was not God's will, He would close that door completely. We're asking that God would redirect your son's heart towards a godly wife who will walk with him in faith. And if this young woman is not a believer, we're asking that God would draw her to Himself, so that any reconciliation would be for His glory and built on godly foundations.

We've also been praying for you, dear mom. We know it's hard to see your son hurting, but we're asking God to comfort you and remind you that He holds your son's future. We're praying that you would have wisdom to speak truth in love, always pointing him to Jesus.

Most importantly, we're praying that if your son doesn't know Jesus as his Savior, today would be the day he surrenders his life to Him. There's no true love, no lasting peace outside of Him. We're asking that he would turn from sin and place his trust in Jesus alone.

Keep praying, dear friend. Keep speaking truth. Trust that God hears you. The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit, a broken and contrite heart, He will not despise. (Psalm 51:17)
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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