Break Up

[LearnedLesson]

This is so trivial compared to the suffering so many people have, but I broke up a few months ago with the woman I probably should have married. We both contributed, but I have grown from the experience and am asking people to pray that she will come to a place that she wants us to get back together. I believe she still loves me. I also believe that we are supposed to be together for quite a few reasons and that the break up was for both of us to realize it. Please help me by praying for us.

 

[JerseyLady732]

praying for a renewal of the heart. Lord

God let this woman see how much this man

loves her and wants to be back together

again. Let this come to pass in Jesus

name.

 

[MsMaggie]

Heartache is never trivial. Praying for peace and reconcilation in your life.

 

[LearnedLesson]

Thank you, both, for your kindness and prayers. I will say my faith is low right now . . . I can usually tell when my prayers won't be answered and it feels this way now. She said I was too hard on her because I criticized her for her flaws. She was sexually abused by her brother and step-father and only recently is willing to take some therapy steps (but hasn't so far as I know); this I did not in any way hold against her. But she also has a selfish and vindictive streak, and that was the root of many of our arguments. I wasn't always the most patient, and some of the things that bothered me were things I should not have let get in the way. But she wanted to get married and so did I, and I could see that her issues were the kinds of things that would doom our marriage because it seemed she got worse over time and not better. The problem is I still love her and think about her, even though she may not be doing the same for me. There has to be a reason we were put in each other's lives and grew so close.